Gf cut her hair after I Told her to grow her hair out. Why?

IAmYourMasterYesOk · 2020-10-09T22:10:45+00:00

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The_TRPThrowAway · 2020-10-09T21:58:40+00:00

If your woman does something that you explicitly dont like in regards to her appearance, it says a lot about what she thinks of your opinion.

Do with that info what you want

BNEDub · 2020-10-09T22:05:12+00:00

You want a girlfriend with longer hair, she knows you want a girlfriend with longer hair, she chose to cut her hair to a shorter length - now you get to choose if she's still your girlfriend.

There are enough of them out there if this one doesn't meet your needs and requirements replace her.

armenian_UwUcide · 2020-10-10T00:56:00+00:00

Well, she’s clearly a lesbian if she’s dating a bitch.

wheremyballsgo · 2020-10-10T06:09:33+00:00

Fuck her friend that has long hair.

Borsao66 · 2020-10-09T22:54:04+00:00

Attraction can't be negotiated. Hard Stop.

If her cutting her hair makes you not see her as attractive, why does it matter what her reasoning is? The only thing that matters is what you're going to do from this point.

You really have two choices. 1) Accept it and push your desires to the backseat. 2) Enforce your boundries and what you find attractive.

GayLubeOil · 2020-10-10T16:13:20+00:00

Sounds like you have a strong independent woman on your hands who won't let a man tell her what to do, but will completely change her appearance for her company.

michael1962-01 · 2020-10-10T07:55:00+00:00

Short haired women?

Cannot get it up on those.

Hard next.

comcain · 2020-10-09T23:37:59+00:00

It's one of the worst times in marriage when a woman gets a butch cut and chops off her long hair. Then you have to lie and choke out that you like it, if you ever want to sleep with her again. I remember it well. I'm no longer married, thank God.

It's a woman saying she no longer has to try to be attractive. She is pushing your limits and testing the shit out of you.

Its for her job? Crap. I see women on camera all the time with long hair. They're the sexy ones. The bob hairdoes can be "cute" but are never as sexy. Fox News goes for blond and sexy because it sells.

Your GF just doesn't give a shit what you think. Hair extensions, pffft, my ass.

Stop discussing it.. she's been cold and hostile to your feelings. You need to summon up your coldness for a long Winter War. You're a man, you're capable of pushing this to extremes that will make any Strong, Independent Woman break. You're going to need to, in my opinion. Otherwise she's going to keep pushing you, the bitch. God knows what's next in her plans.

Go cold. Stop kissing her. Stop hugging her. She doesn't give a shit about your feelings? Stop caring about hers.

Let her know you don't find her sexy anymore by not fucking her anymore. Never be in the mood. Bring your laptop or a book to bed. Don't even discuss it, just lay down a firm, unswerving, go-to-hell line in the sand. She has utterly fucked up. She's no longer attractive to you. She sold you on Version 10 of herself and is now Version Zero.

When she whines about it, say something about how great she'd look bald, too. Or point out that if you wanted to fuck people with short hair, you'd be gay.

If she threatens to fuck around, wish her luck finding anyone that'll want to fuck her with a butch haircut. "And if by some miracle you did find some smelly homeless guy willing to fuck you, I'd be rid of you! Triple Bonus!"

Sorry, man, it really sucks. I feel for you.

Cheers

mr4kino · 2020-10-10T13:34:52+00:00

Why?

Because she has no respect for you.

4Sammich · 2020-10-10T16:27:01+00:00

What’s your score on the spectrum?

BPasFuck · 2020-10-10T00:18:03+00:00

You fucked up, getting hitched to some wannabe reporter.

She's got 100 different people at her job, telling her what to wear, how to wear it, what makeup, and how to do her hair.

She's not going to do what her boyfriend wants, when her livelihood is demanding otherwise.

Just forget about it.

Either dump her, or learn to live with it.

Edited to add: I am not kidding. If she's at some TV station, the General Manager, the consultants, and the Newsroom bosses are all telling her to cut her hair. It's not just a matter between you and her.

TrpKid2 · 2020-10-10T00:27:10+00:00

Men's haircuts on girls is a disgrace

Why are you still with her if you hate her so much, dummy

2020-10-09T22:48:57+00:00

Haha I feel you bro. I lived with a buddy and his long term gf. At one point she just randomly cut her hair to a "bob cut" and she literally looked like a ginger boy. I felt bad for buddy what was lying through his teeth saying he liked it. She was so happy with herself, she even said she wanted to go shorter. These wymns are supposed to get their lesbian I don't play by anyone's rules phase out before they LTR a beta.

Edg3head-41 · 2020-10-11T14:37:30+00:00

I told my girlfriend I didn’t like her bangs (where they cut it straight across the front) she has since grown it out and hasn’t got them cut since. I’ve told her I don’t like her hair straight and she has only straightened her hair twice since we’ve been together and both times when we are away from each other. If a girl respects you and your opinion she will listen to it. Period.

If you told her you didn’t like it and she did it assume she doesn’t respect your opinion. If you didn’t express it and are mad she did it, well that’s a you problem. Express your boundaries before they cross them

imgonna-die · 2020-10-26T17:41:57+00:00

If hair is that important to you than I guess u should break up. Probably the best thing you could do for her.

BREWcoin · 2020-10-09T23:04:11+00:00

She’s obviously blowing her bosses who all prefer short hair. They probably don’t even have to pay her anymore because she loves it so much.

BadAdviceBrett · 2020-10-09T22:02:06+00:00

You sound kind of controlling man. I think you should let her date someone else if you hate her hair that much.

jhx264 · 2020-10-09T22:30:25+00:00

How does hair bump a chick up 1.5 points

Title	Gf cut her hair after I Told her to grow her hair out. Why?
Author	IAmYourMasterYesOk
Upvotes	10
Comments	57
Date	October 9, 2020 9:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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