I listen to useful life hacking motivational playlists. They’re heavily male in demographics and sometimes I’ll get a MGTOW or similar trash in there.

This ‘expert’ answered a man sad that his gf had broken up with him after so much effort on his part, to the effect that men are sadly the ones that must ‘frontload’ relationships—they put up the initial effort, resources and sacrifice, and women then bring their ‘beauty and fertility’ which is what they will reward men with.

What I found interesting is it takes a fact—men, bring your resources and actual game face or get out—and added two lies:

  1. This is a transaction: put enough in and get unlimited access to whatever it is you think your gf owes you

  2. Women don’t frontload. Do you think I wake up looking like a queen? Do you think my body naturally yogas and works out in my sleep? Do you really think I grew $200 boots out my feet? How about my gold eyelids?

So the best translation would be, find you a man who

  1. Knows that no amount of effort can secure forever consent bc this is not eternal contract sex work, it’s a r e l a t i o n s h i p and

  2. Women put in more effort, work and money to show up to the date as someone you desire mentally and physically than you have paid on the whole first 2 weeks.

Don’t get this twisted.