The only goal I have in life right now, at age 23, is to be spinning 10 plates by this time next year. I've only sexed one girl, and kissed four in my whole life. I'm just tired of dodging this problem in my life and I'm taking a whole year to face it head on and get it taken care of. Tired of it affecting my self esteem and making me feel ashamed deep down.

I'm doing anything and everything to get there. Losing weight, working out, cold approaching (cold approaching during covid is like veteran mode, almost impossible, but I still try). Working on getting some solid pictures for dating apps. How realistic is this goal? This is literally all I care about for 2021, at this point I can't even concentrate on any other goals until this is taken care of