How do you tell your girlfriend (ltr) to lose weight

GayLubeOil · 2020-11-18T13:57:05+00:00

The best way to motivate her to lose weight is to have sex with a slim attractive women. This is known as nonverbal communication.

Socrates-3000 · 2020-11-18T14:05:11+00:00

The way I got my girl to lose weight and eat healthy was by telling her that she doesn't fit with my lifestyle. An example i told her was, "i want us to go hiking but you wouldn't be able to make the climb."

Rkingpin · 2020-11-18T13:24:13+00:00

Heavy dread

(Trp is amoral. Personally id be fukin sexier hoes, lifes short)

i-am-the-prize · 2020-11-18T18:43:36+00:00

she/you/i/we lose pounds in the kitchen, not the gym.

it's her intake that's the issue.

Rodent9 · 2020-11-18T16:02:57+00:00

Jerk off to old pics of her when she was hot.

notaselfdrivingcar · 2020-11-18T13:28:28+00:00

You don't tell her, You like other bitches pictures on IG and make sure she notices you doing that.

Curious_Educator3425 · 2020-11-18T14:13:05+00:00

Girl loses weight --> her ego and perceived self value goes up

She starts getting more interest from other guys and starts to think you must be low value to have accepted her when she was fat and loses respect and attraction for you.

amwfhunter · 2020-11-18T13:10:23+00:00

Buy her a treadmill for xmas

bluffking1 · 2020-11-18T13:59:14+00:00

This sort of question has been answered on this sub dozens of times.

Ultimately, most women don’t respond well to you TELLING them to lose weight. If you really see yourself as the prize, don’t have oneitis and value having relations with fit women, you’d be ready to walk the minute she got fat. And she would sense that without you opening your mouth. But your post history suggests otherwise, which is a whole different story.

“I have gained 10 pounds of muscle in the last 3 months FOR THIS GIRL TO ENJOY”. You should have gained 10 pounds of muscle in the last 3 months for your damn self. Also, I’m calling your bluff on 10 lbs of lean muscle in 3 months. Unless your a newbie maybe.

GilbertoCarlos · 2020-11-18T13:14:53+00:00

Sidebar, dread game or next

Subutai_Baghatur · 2020-11-18T14:12:52+00:00

You looking better will only work as dread if there is also the opportunity for you to find better women than her and she wants to keep you.

So first of all you need to do more things without her that put you in situations where you could find other women.

If that doesn’t work then you need to work towards ending things because if you don’t, she will get fatter as she becomes more comfortable and realises that you will stay with her regardless of her weight increasing. Ironically, she will then gradually start to lose attraction for you for staying with her as she puts more weight on and becomes more unattractive.

I wouldn’t recommend not having sex with her as you then go without fucking her and it can be a slippery slope to a near-or-dead bedroom. You can use it as a last resort while you’re planning your exit.

helpmeverymuchthanks · 2020-11-18T19:07:26+00:00

Go with her to a health checkup, and let the doctor tell her for ya if u really wanna be a nice guy :)

Own-Grapefruit7309 · 2020-11-18T21:12:41+00:00

Some of this advice is cringey, to say the least lol. If you love her, don’t go have sex with a “slim attractive” woman. This will hurt her and most likely your 5-10mins of sex is not worth hurting a person you care about. Is she red pilled? I gained 10lbs at one point which was a lot for my small frame and I felt terrible and not confident (even tho I was like 125) which negatively affected my relationship. I lost that and more to make myself happier and more confident in bed, which in turn made my relationship better. She should want to feel more confident for herself and for you. If she complains about her weight or that she feels fat just say I hate that you feel that way about yourself, we can start meal prepping and exercising together, I want you to feel as beautiful as you are! Something along those lines. If she’s RPW she should care about serving her man, and looking sloppy / overweight is not serving your man.

Jdamoftruth · 2020-11-18T21:35:38+00:00

How do you tell your girlfriend (ltr) to lose weight

I would just have a kind but adult conversation about how she would look better at a certain weight. One guy I know made the reference of his GF being a rolls royce but with dirt on it.

Since all of the covert dread is not working, should I just straight up tell her that she should put more effort into her appearance for me? Not have sex with her? What did you guys do?

Losing weight is all about diet. almost exclusively diet. Lead by example and make some specific meals and food

moto101 · 2020-11-18T22:16:52+00:00

I would do small things that send a message. If you’re out to dinner and she orders a burger you order a salad. Start talking about how you’re tracking your macros in YAZIO or MFP. You’re out on a Saturday with friends, make it a point to compliment the looks of another slim girl in a slight way in front of your girl. You’re out on Saturday night, put yourself in a position where fit girls might look interested in you. Fit girl goes up to the bar to order a drink, go stand next to her and order one for yourself, engage in small talk with her, your girl will be watching. If she doesn’t get competition anxiety she isn’t afraid of losing you and you are in her frame.

Mr_Badass · 2020-11-19T02:40:59+00:00

Teach her how to squat.

alex_de_tampa · 2020-11-19T06:44:31+00:00

She won’t lose weight because she knows you aren’t going anywhere. I’d start scoping slimmer chicks. Or get caught checking out others women.

kmanju5683 · 2020-11-18T13:30:19+00:00

Tell her you'd like her more if she was more healthy

Title	How do you tell your girlfriend (ltr) to lose weight
Author	br0lock
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Date	November 18, 2020 1:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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