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China Doesn't Like That I'm a Single LEFTOVER Woman, Here's Why

by askmrcia | February 14, 2020 | WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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Title China Doesn't Like That I'm a Single LEFTOVER Woman, Here's Why
Author askmrcia
Upvotes 114
Comments 153
Date 14 February 2020 01:36 PM UTC (4 months ago)
Subreddit WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/341954
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[–]Borsao6681 points82 points  (30 children) | Copy

The look on her face when the interviewer says "But you're old" is priceless.

[–]askmrciaJr. Hamster Analyst[S] 58 points59 points  (16 children) | Copy

The interviewer was a savage lol. I had to re-watch that part again to make sure I read the subtitles correctly. She didn't sugarcoat anything.

[–]Borsao6652 points53 points  (1 child) | Copy

"You may think you're pretty..."

LOL

[–]ColdStatistician10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

The de facto of all women.

LOL

[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz47 points48 points  (12 children) | Copy

She was quite fine with not being a traditional beauty BUT being OLD that killed her, she couldn't handle not being young bc it means not being competitive for that High value men she wants

[–]Thinguy12339 points40 points  (7 children) | Copy

She was quite fine with not being a traditional beauty

TBF, i dont mind ugly girls, i feel they also know whats like to be rejected or ignored and appreciate the interest in them

But thanks to tinder they also now get a huge buffet of chad cock and inflates their egos to unrealistic levels.

Just because chad had a dry spell and fucked you, doesnt mean you have the credentials to marry one

[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

The entitlement is so big even her entire family is aware but she refuses to accept it.

[–]DeterminedLogic9919 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao. Love this. Holy fuck. Accurately summarizes the current mess we’re in.

[–]limbojunkie16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

This. I met an ugly one on a date (which I still regret) and she started talking about her ex who used to live in a luxury condo with six figures job in a third world country. He used her as a babysitter for his son for a year before he dumped her. She expects the same level from that time forward which is impossible for her looks and age.

[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, that is how volcels are born. "But I have muh standards".

No, you have your entitlement and ego.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Was she Chinese?

[–]limbojunkie2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She was Filipino.

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you took off the makeup and couldn't see below the neck, she looks quite mannish.

[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

she's not high value at all for sure

[–]Yagyubagna1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's an interesting part in the clip where she talks about how girls are frowned upon and having a degree basically puts you just about into the same bracket of a man. Maybe she's just naturally a tomboy. I've got a sneaky suspicion she tries to fit the stereotype look to give her parents the son they don't have seeing as her other sisters are married and technically more feminised (and not shaming the family). They're not, obviously; but that just how it came across.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Chinese culture doesn't fuck around. Chinese families want the next generation produced PDQ. In part, due to ancestor worship (if you don't have grandkids, who the hell is going to worship you when you're dead?). In part, the legacy thinking is that you MUST have kids in your 20s so that there will be someone who (you hope) can take care of you when you are old. That's why her family was so harsh on her.

[–]rp_whybother15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

That was the best bit!

[–]RedditisCANCER99926 points27 points  (6 children) | Copy

im annoyed they didnt mention her haircut.

its 100% man repellent, its screams "I am an entitled angry feminist with mental issues"

[–]PeterCornswalled20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy

That’s not the message I get. That haircut reads “guy in drag who lost his wig” to me.

[–]drewc99Jr. Hamster Analyst0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Her jaw isn't doing her any favors in this regard either.

[–]PeterCornswalled0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

His jaw. I’m pretty sure this is a trans.

[–]drewc99Jr. Hamster Analyst0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think so. Just a slightly homely, but not un-marryable lady who is taking her SMV massively for granted.

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

She already has a mannish face, her short hairdo only makes her look even less feminine.

[–]Borsao665 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Or lesbian. Or both.

[–]kyledontcareChristian Comeback Kid9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

If looks could kill. . . .daggers in her eyes.

[–]PeterCornswalled5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

You sure that’s a “she?”

[–]Borsao665 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

TBH..... No.

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That is the question that came to my mind when I look at "her".

[–]ColdStatistician0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is the comment I was looking for. Glad I wasn’t the only one. Guess we’re going to hell now. XD

[–]MGTOWManofMystery1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

In China, she is indeed considered old.

[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz72 points73 points  (11 children) | Copy

OMG! Father of the year!

"All that schooling makes you dumb. You're highly educated and you don't want someone with a low social status. The ones with a high social status wouldn't show interest in you"

Big point: her family and also her is(was for most of her life) low social status, mother said she worked in the mud but daughter despises low-income guys.

[–]reinaldo86652 points53 points  (9 children) | Copy

Man, old people are very wise, "all that schooling makes you dumb", my grand father used to say something similar

[–]EmervilaSpinning Dis On The Fritz34 points35 points  (2 children) | Copy

He is correct, IDK who downvoted you but he's right. If you end-up being an entitled bitch your degree is shit. That's why her mother reminds her where they got food from, working the mud. There's nothing to be ashamed of but there are no grounds to demand such high social class man when she's not beautiful, she's not young and she's not a socialite.

That's feminism failure. Man traditionally reached such high places to provide for the family that's why every princess tale is a girl living in poverty being rescued by wealthy guy, but women refuse to date down and go bonkers on hypergamy even if their entire family is telling her such behaviour is self-destructive.

[–]DevilComeKnockin12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

This goes for SJW men as well as women. Alot of them (myself included) felt that "equality between sexes" meant that we were human beings instead of human doings. The women were having a wonderful time letting us think that while banging Chad. Ultimately, that's where Soyboys come from. The internalize feminist rhetoric and fully believe they are being Noble (hello white-knight). Little do they realize women despise their gullibility, until the wall hits.

And we all know how that goes.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was the same way. SJW and BP through and through. Women were oppressed and could do no wrong. Now that I've awakened, I see their nature (women, like many other humans, suck). I have seen how I was manipulated over several decades by Feminists and the Left while they were, indeed, banging Chad (and, in some cases, I could have been Chad ... but I was too BP to see that).

[–]ColdStatistician14 points15 points  (5 children) | Copy

I can’t help but feel a little sad for her honestly. She lived her whole life listening to her parents, studying hard to have a great job one day, only to be called “dumb” for following orders. Don’t be too hard on the girl. She is nowhere near the degenerate whores from r/IncelTears or r/FemaleDatingStrategy. She comes from a poor background, and just wanted a husband who worked as hard as her and knew what it was like to achieve the same goals. Let her be, mates. This girl has earned her respects.

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla[M] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

No, she does not deserve any respect. It is true that her parents worked in the mud and rain to elevate her to a level that is higher than them. But, her father only understood later on that higher education did not give his daughter any culture. If it had, she would have been in high demand and would have been married way earlier. No, her education only led way to more demands, expectations and uncompromising selfishness. You can see it very well in her interaction with one of the guys featured in this "woe is me" sob story. She asks him indirectly if he is a sexist. And this being China, he gave it to her straight. That is her problem. She is going against the cultural norms of her country and as a result, she is further narrowing her pool. Her father understands this, which is why he had that remark about how all her higher education rotting her brain. The only difference between the women in FDS and this one is that the women in FDS have a culture and an environment that is supportive of their ego. This woman does not. Either way, the both of them feel justified in being entitled. They just won't face up to reality.

Consider this woman. She is in a market that is highly favorable to women. The male to female ratio in China is high. Basically, any woman in China has her pick for marriage due to inequality in the ratio of men vs women. And even still, this one has not only sailed past the acceptable age for marriage (25) in her society, she has crossed beyond her turning point. Her only option is to compromise and settle for a guy who is in the same status as her family (which she would consider as low status). Undoubtedly, her family has brought up this point before and that is why her father tells her that the high status men she wants will not even entertain her. He is right. They do not have the family background, they are not wealthy, she is not young, she is not beautiful, she is not graceful, she is not in demand, she is not very kind and she is just not special the way she thinks she is. This girl will most likely end up alone. Notice the title of the video: "**China** does not like that I am a Single woman, here is why". She does not hold herself responsible for anything. She does not think that she is wrong on any level. She thinks the entire country does not like her decision to stay single.

Let us just assume that she does not want a man better than her and consider for just a second that she wants a man who is exactly like her: A man who comes from a farmer's family but elevated himself up to a lawyer. He would have two choices:

* To marry into a wealthy family.

* To marry a beautiful poor girl.

To go for a mannish looking, selfish, past her date woman like her would be a downgrade for him. Men, especially in traditional societies like China, work hard to get a bigger price. And she is only a price to a guy who is way older than her or a guy who would be below her in her eyes. So, she is fucked.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

You wrote "she is beautiful." I wonder if you meant to write "not beautiful." In fact, in China and Asia, she would not be considered beautiful at all. Her frame is big; she is thicc (which I guess is prized in the West but not at all in Asia); her skin tone is very dark -- like that of her farmer ancestors; her facial structure is also quite "Asian" which, ironically, isn't considered attractive in Asia.

Add to that her sense of entitlement and age, she'll be completely unable to find a husband in China -- unless she dates down -- which she won't.

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yes. I did mean to write she was not beautiful. I just edited it. Thank you. I know enough to know that no matter what she does, she probably will not ever live past her country bumpkin image. Some good looking women can have that privilege. Genetics was not kind to her on that regard. And to top it off, she made herself even more ugly, both in appearance and personality, by following the feminist mindset. I read in one of the comments that left China for Germany. While that might certainly improve her prospects, she will never get the man of her dreams anywhere because men everywhere like a very beautiful woman of any race. She does not fall in that category.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Traveling to the West to grab a bluepilled white guy is getting more and more common for Asian women.

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's all thanks to the fantasy of the submissive Asian women.

Any attractive man (that she would be interested in) has two options: Asian women who are in Asia or young, Asian students who travel to the west. With the former, you have to be shrewd enough to keep her in Asia. With the latter, you have to be shrewd enough to understand that she will turn on you eventually, thanks to the cultural influences, and make sure that she does not fully integrate. This might mean that you keep her in China town and in contact with old fashioned Chinese people who would hold her accountable for her behavior or something similar. None of this applies to rejects like her. Sure, her prospects has improved. But, she is still going to attract the same demographic. She is not going to get a western Chad. She might get lucky and find herself a greater beta husband if she is willing to compromise on age. But I wonder how long it takes before she resents him.

Contrary to their insistence, women do not want a man they can control. Eventually, resentment seeps in. I've known tomboyish women a lot. They only want to submit to an apex man. They can shit test relentlessly to figure out if you're such a man. The only winning move with these women is to not indulge them at all and to treat them with contempt. As soon as she understands that you are more dominant than her, she will become very submissive to you. The problem is that a naturally submissive woman takes far less effort and you don't have to be on guard for your entire life against her. There is room for occasional slip in your dominant frame. Women like this one are simply high maintenance. They are destined to fail. They are rarely lucky enough to grab themselves a man who would invest in them that much. Her father understands this very well. He knows that she has no chance of getting the guy she dreams of. He's in damage control mode and probably wants to pair her off with a guy who is in the same level or beneath that of their family. But, as per the recent update, she is having none of it. She would rather chase after her impossible dream than to face reality.

[–]Zodiamaster1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That old man threw a red pill at her face, she is not the kind of woman to be picky, to be honest only the most desperate men would consider her.

[–]The_mightiest_puntHe's Been There49 points50 points  (4 children) | Copy

"Please don't think you're in a good position".

Fucking wrecked her whole world.

The sad part is that the dating market is disgustingly skewed in her favor and, thanks to hypergamy and unrealistic expectations, she still manages to fuck it up.

And that guy... "In my marriage, I'm hoping to be dominant." HOPE IS NOT A COURSE OF ACTION!

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey24 points25 points  (3 children) | Copy

You could see written all over her face, not wanting to submit to a man especially a man that talks about wearing the pants and telling her what to do. She makes her own money but can't make her own family and it is destroying her that no one will live up to her standards.

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Someone sure will. She just would consider him to be beneath her.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Due to the one-child policy (now a two-child policy) and sex selection (aborting girls), China has a huge surplus of men. These men can't find wives. They do crazy things like literally steal farmer girls from Vietnam and force them to be their wives.

My point is, you are spot on. There are so many hundreds of thousands of single Chinese men who would consider her in a heartbeat -- despite her superior economic and social status, age and bad looks.

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Like every spoilt woman, she wants the best of the best. Too bad she cannot afford it.

[–]ReasonablePerception47 points48 points  (2 children) | Copy

Damn, that reporter and her family gave her nuclear truth bombs, and she still hamsters it up.

[–]Thinguy12326 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

her family gave her nuclear truth bombs

chinese traditional families are one of the most savages and harsh ones, but as harsh as they may be in their discipline, its not without wrong, they survived communism for 60 years, they know what they are doing/saying

[–]MGTOWManofMystery1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not just Communism but Japanese invasion and a few thousand years of horrible wars and famine, etc.

[–]Velvet_Hammer_Sapiosexual Tingler45 points46 points  (5 children) | Copy

Wow, the whole thing was cringe-inducing! I thought it obvious that she does want to get married, but she refuses to give up the "Go girl!", "equal partner" claptrap that she almost obviously picked up in college. Except for simps who she will not respect, there aren't any men wanting what she does. That leaves her all alone, by her choosing.

[–]askmrciaJr. Hamster Analyst[S] 24 points25 points  (4 children) | Copy

Wow, the whole thing was cringe-inducing! I thought it obvious that she does want to get married, but she refuses to give up the "Go girl!

I'm glad you pointed this out. I was going to comment it myself, but wanted to wait for someone else to do so.

She says she doesn't want to get married, yet she is still going on blind dates and speed dating events. After her parents confronted her about her choice on not wanting to get married she was crying. If she really didn't want to get married and was really happy being single then her actions in the video would show that, but they didn't.

I read a lot of the comments on the video and none of them pointed this out. They all claimed that she should be able to do what she wants and not be shamed for it. I actually agree, however they are failing to see that she actually does want to get married but she priced herself off the market.

I'll give her credit as she does look good for her age so I can still see a guy trying to lock that down. Problem is her standards are sky high with her being a lawyer that the guys she believes she deserves will look to date younger.

[–]RRFdevSr. Hamster Analyst23 points24 points  (3 children) | Copy

She has to marry for money after all, not for love and companionship. She doesn't want a partner to grow old with, to be weak, sad, sick, dying together.

She has NO intention to experience love in a relationship, because to experience that she will end up submitting to a man, which she refuses to. You can tell by the expression on her face whenever the men mentioned it.

She is looking for that fabled Tiger Mom marriage where she either sits at home and bosses the husband around, or still continues her career and keeps her money to herself while still bossing the husband around, and depriving him of sex and companionship while her world would consist of only herself and her children, who she would in turn treat harshly, humiliate and shame endlessly to make them pursue ridiculous heights of materialism at the expense of their own happiness.

This desire is especially prominent among the urban Chinese as opposed to the rural, traditional ones like this woman's parents. They knew that love is THE most important criteria in a relationship, over status, over wealth, over material gains, over everything else.

[–]askmrciaJr. Hamster Analyst[S] 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Liking your comment isn't enough. I had to comment to your post to say you are spot on. Great reply and I couldn't agree more.

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

u/RRFdev has proven to be senior material. Thank you for pointing this out.

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

He's on track for Endorsed.

[–]RRFdevSr. Hamster Analyst36 points37 points  (5 children) | Copy

In clown world dating, hookups are for love. Marriage is for money, or in China's case, to get your busybody puppet-master parents to shut the hell up and leave you alone.

[–]RRFdevSr. Hamster Analyst29 points30 points  (1 child) | Copy

Also to further add, you just can't ask a woman to submit to you, just because. It doesn't work that way.

Women will submit to you, automatically, if they genuinely, and I mean GENUINELY are attracted to you, and this is regardless of whether or not they are high-powered career women. You have to earn that submission by displaying attraction and power.

In this case, this women in this video never really was attracted to any of the men she went out with. Not a single comment about her expressing physical attraction with the men. Zero physical contact. No holding hands. Conversations went on simply on a platonic, friendly level.

Like how that one guy said he is past the age of falling in love, yeah, this woman specifically had a goal of NOT seeking love in relationships, and the men can sense it.

[–]CoolGuySauron7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

You have to earn that submission by displaying attraction and power

Not only to the woman, but to the woman's family. Given their culture, you'll have to please them as well and probably take care of them in old age, both physically and financially.

It's a hell hole for men in terms of dating and family.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It could be argued that in many traditional societies (including those in the West), marriage wasn't about love. It was about creating wealth for the next generation and protecting the previous generation. In China, it is still that way primarily.

[–]lottalogs-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

I feel for her in that she shouldn't feel pressured into marriage if she truly is OK being single.

If she wants a partner, she will need to get realistic and make some moves.

[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It will not happen. She will do some minor things like going on dates, but she will not find what she is looking for, as naybe only Elon Musk would be "good enough".

[–]goodmansaysfuckyouBig 🍆 energy misogynist31 points32 points  (2 children) | Copy

Dad's comment was the best:

All that schooling makes you dumb.

--It made her dumb (to wife/mother)

Supply and demand folks. There is a surplus of dick and a shortage of pussy in China. It should be easy for her to find a man, but men would rather be alone than have to deal with her pretentious attitude and feminist doctrine edumacation.

Unfortunately, we can no longer assume that she (or others) will remove themselves from the gene pool by not procreating. The single mom stigma and shaming is no used.

[–]thainarv226 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Uh, maybe in America. In China? Its a different world. Slut shaming and shaming for single motherhood are still VERY strong.

[–]GenericCancerCell1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And should be, unless the single motherhood is due to being widowed.

[–]souldrone24 points25 points  (11 children) | Copy

She hit the Great Wall with light speed.

[–]WATASHI_NO_CRESTA31 points32 points  (9 children) | Copy

Pretty good looking, not fat, no tattoos, no kids. This woman doesn't seem that bad at all compared to the average western trainwrecks that gets posted in here.

Only fault I see is too high standards.

[–]CoolGuySauron13 points14 points  (5 children) | Copy

That haircut rekt her appearance. She can gain 10 years easily if her hari were more...feminine. Like young women tend to have longer hair.

[–]RRFdevSr. Hamster Analyst9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Also her lack of femininity, and inability to charm, flirt with men.

The only thing worse than a hover-handing soyboy, is a contact-phobic shy soygirl.

You just want to chat, sit a whole table across from me, and talk about strictly unromantic topics the whole day while dressing in the same clothes you go to the grocery store with? GTFO.

[–]minitntman15 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

The only thing worse than a hover-handing soyboy, is a contact-phobic shy soygirl.

I think a whore who became a prude would be worse than a virgin girl that is contact shy

[–]RRFdevSr. Hamster Analyst0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Given how promiscuous mainland Chinese women are, it's definitely the latter when you see a mainland Chinese going all pseudo-prude contact-phobic with a man on a date.

[–]Cristoff13Jr. Hamster Analyst2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Plus the gray round the temples.

But being not fat in America, especially at her age, would get her a lot of credit. In China, not really as the obesity rate is much lower than America (catching up fast though I bet).

[–]MGTOWManofMystery2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is too old, her skin is too dark and her body is too thick for Chinese tastes.

[–]souldrone6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is supposed to be too old for china, though.

[–]Bane-o-foolishness[🍰] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nothing wrong with her, I like short haired women anyway. I doubt anyone would refuse being with Audrey Hepburn. She's not exactly a big time carousel rider having only two relationships either.

In fairness, someone who has gone as far as she has in the world has a lot of earned and deserved self-confidence. Unlike the western nations, China really is a tough environment for women and she's managed to do well for herself.

Honestly, if most western women were no worse than this lady would this forum even exist? No baby daddys, no disease, no bailouts. You could do a lot worse.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But in China, she's considered quite unattractive. But I agree with you, looks better than most land whales in the USA.

[–]Rottinghere1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ha!

[–]MGTOW_BEASTMODENo Longer Muted, but We're Watching Like Hawks21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's almost like.. there's.. this.. I dunno what to call it.. tall structure that pops up around 30 for women.. ah.. if only there was a term for it.. hmmm.. oh well.. back to the drawing wall for me.

[–]The_Man1110 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

There’s a great big one in China somewhere...

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”19 points20 points  (5 children) | Copy

If you’ve been left behind in a country where unmarried men outnumber unmarried women thirty to one, you have been left behind.

Good grief. Classic case of “focused on my education and career at the expense of my soul.”

PS: No, I don’t respect women. Respect is earned. That’s your problem. You want it handed to you because you have a vagina. It never crossed your mind to climb the ladder to earn it.

[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Best part for me was the family argument at the end.

Juicy.

[–]joedude15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

BASED AS FUUUUUUUUUCK GRANNY, SAGEPILLED.

you don't care, you just do whatever you want.

DING DING DING clownworld in a nutshell, rename it satan world tbh.

edit: oh shit that's the mom, they're just all so old lmao.

[–]Imperator_RedTheRedPill's ShitLord1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Amazing

[–]rvail13615 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

You have to understand, that if you're over the age of 26 in China and female and not married your chances of ever getting married are even lower than they are here. Their society is far more conservative than ours is. Women over there dont' fuck around like they do here.

[–]animistspark12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

The commodification of love and relationships really does poison people's brains.

[–]RRFdevSr. Hamster Analyst6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's toxic and sickening to me too that sex instead of being a free expression of love is now a transaction for favors and money. Clown, clown world.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some might argue it's always been a transaction.

[–]Unusual_Chair12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yo this video is great. I really like how the interviewer and her family kept it real with her. That's what these thots over here need.

[–]darthwhopperx11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

She's still waiting for Lon Wong Thunderdong to call her back.

[–]RRFdevSr. Hamster Analyst4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's another possibility. She is an alpha widow.

All the Crazy Rich Asians fucked and chucked her back in college. So now she is love-phobic and doesn't want to feel that while seeking marriage, because that would betray the tingles she had for the alpha studs who fucked her back then.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

"All that schooling made her dumb. She is dumb."

[–]NolanKnowstheTruth9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Her biggest problem is she has a "I am the prize" mentality in a country in which men are the prize. You made your bed, now sleep in it.

[–]rp_whybother7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

[–]Thinguy12315 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy

Similarly, shengnan (剩男) or "leftover men" has also been used... Scholars have noted that this term is not as commonly used as "leftover women" in Chinese society and that single males reaching a certain age will often be labeled as either “golden bachelors”(黄金单身汉) or “diamond single man”

Based

edited to add more context because reddit mobile is dumpster fire trash

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

because single men still have value to society.

[–]joedude3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

lmfao what a reality accepting culture.

[–]Thinguy1235 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Like or hate chinese culture, it has survived communism for many years, you can't survive communism living in a bubble like most western middle-class women

[–]derealchad8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

She couldn't find a husband in China with that male/woman ratio imagine anywhere else lmao. Next gen of post wall women gonna be fun to watch, this is just starting to explode.

[–]Itchy-Bung-Hole7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

The YouTube comments are full of white knights and hamsters as expected.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had to stop reading those YouTube comments...

[–]MuscleT8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

China has 30 million extra men due to the one child policy.

How the fuck would any reasonable woman become leftover

[–]RRFdevSr. Hamster Analyst6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Plenty of opportunities to ride the cock carousel, and suffer the consequences of doing it, ending up with the few available women becoming terribly damaged goods.

[–]RedditisCANCER9994 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

as the odds of having a boy or girl are 50/50 those 30 million extra men mean that 30 million females were aborted or murdered or abandoned.

that's pretty fucking shocking

[–]MuscleT2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Correct.

Population control measures have never worked. It turns out that people adjust their reproduction to suit how well they can feed their kids.

And yeah people keep multiplying in poor countries, but in almost every case the children are NO WORSE OFF than their parents are, in terms of nutrition, disease, etc..

[–]The_Man116 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m not getting much of a “straight” vibe from this lady.

[–]NetherIndy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're not the only one thinking that. The disinterest is obvious. She can't tell her old-generation parents (who will never have grandkids, and lose her to Germany).

[–]NetherIndy5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

In the West, "I've got a BA from SUNY-Oswego" leaves you at dead-center average. You could marry a truck driver or a doctor.

In China, college-educated-professional is still 5% of the population, men or women.

If college-educated women demand college-educated men, and college-educated men have basically no preference at all (really, an anti-preference, because a non-college-gal is going to be younger), something like 95% of those women are going to end up disappointed.

[–]ColdStatistician1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Jesus christ, are you serious? No way is only 5% of the population college educated! Chinese people are the most education-driven people on the planet, afaik. I always thought at worst like 50% must have have degrees. Man, I gotta look more into this. If things keep going the way they are now here in the states, China may be a glimpse into the inevitable future. Women as a whole are going to find themselves in the same boat, and it’s going to be at their own hands...

[–]MGTOWManofMystery2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

China doesn't have enough colleges and universities. Demand far outstrips supply. That is one reason for the Chinese invasion of Western universities.

[–]psypD5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

LoL that interviewer is so based.

[–]ColdStatistician1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Savage level > 9000 doesn’t even begin to describe the emotional scars she dealth on that woman. That was instant fatality.

[–]z31fanatic4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wow, that interviewer tore her a new one.

[–]LTDlimited4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

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[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla[M] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

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[–]ButMessiDeservedIt1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sorry, my bad.

[–]moorekomUrban Hoe Guerrilla0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No worries. Enjoy the sub. Please make sure to follow the rules. We don't want any unwanted attention.

[–]psypD2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Imagine the NY times doing a documentary about the social stigma associated with being one of the millions of single man in China. Now imagine it didn't end up being about how women are the most affected...Yeah I should have been a fantasy writer.

[–]jrpark053 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

A couple of thoughts/questions:

  • This woman says she has "high standards"
  • If she doesn't want to get married, then why was she dating? What happened with that man who said she looked better than in her picture?
  • I live in China (but not now, left in early December), and this is just the beginning with these leftover women. They are educated, have good jobs, but either lack personality or are shrew harridans, and have ridiculously high standards. Much of the time their high standards are a mask for a deep insecurity, that men won't find them attractive, and the inevitable realization that they've done nothing to deserve a good man (meaning working on their interior, their attitude and what they bring to the table)
  • Interesting her parents say she wants a man with high status, but as is said on this board, they will not be interested in her

This video shows that no matter how the feminists may try, and no matter how far this cancer spreads, "empowered, strong, brave" women cannot change the ways of the world. Her tears show her realization that no matter how much she tries the wall approaches. I have little sympathy for her, but feel sorry for her dad. She wants to marry, but her standards seem unrealistic.

[–]Rottinghere2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Modernity...

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She thinks she's at a good age... for spinsterhood perhaps.

[–]Gibits2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Her crying in the end is so telling. She knows she’s over the hill and can’t have the life her other friends and family have.

Go read the comments section. It’s pure gold of other delusional women saying how great she looks. I am surprised to not see more red pill comments there. Seems perfect for it.

[–]Imperator_RedTheRedPill's ShitLord0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She knows she’s over the hill and can’t have the life her other friends and family have.

No she’s just crying for because crying is effective in getting women what they want, whether that’s attention, sympathy, or for you to stop using logic and making her feel uncomfortable.

[–]Zodiamaster2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She looks like a dude

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Watching Asians try to get married and date is like watching zoologists try to get Great Pandas to mate. It just isn't going to happen.

[–]Schmerbcicle6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

There is a ton of them though. They must be doing something right.

[–]Imperator_RedTheRedPill's ShitLord0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Rice

[–]kyledontcareChristian Comeback Kid1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is this a show or the real thing? I'd say it's a show but it reflects reality. And I can tell you Chinese New Year is often unhappy.

[–]DrJamming1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"You look better then that photo" - he says. Did they give him some pictures from slaughterhouse, or alleged sasquatch pics? Seriously, with that face, hairdo and dressing style, only way she's getting any man stiff is with strychnine..

[–]Imperator_RedTheRedPill's ShitLord1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Notice how men are in no way naturally inclined to kiss women’s asses or worship pussy. We were all taught to think this way in the west. In most societies men are borderline cruel to women. They regard them as a lesser form of life.

[–]drewc99Jr. Hamster Analyst1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The video is 100% red pill, and the YouTube comments section is 100% blue pill. Incredible contrast.

[–]reinaldo8660 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

What amazes me of this video was the interviewer "You're not a beauty", and then surprise, the bitch is ugly as fuck with her rat teeth, I mean I'd take the leftover over the interviewer any day now

[–]psypD6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

The interviewer is much older probably married with kids. She is not looking to get married so her looks are completely irrelevant. .

[–]maruadventurer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She will find it gets worse. The coronavirus is killing mostly men. Their high tobacco use and reduced lung function sets them up for a death ride.

[–]Running_nipples0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She look very nice and clean. Just not feminine. I think it is ok to be single if it's 'too late' to find someone. Could be destiny.

[–]RadioFreeColorado0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

>... [Ms. Qiu] is the second-youngest of five sisters"

Fuckers cheating the system. An entire generation had to make due with one child and her family slipped the fuck through.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

For sure her family had to pay big fines for having more than one child. However, if you are dirt poor farmers already, there's not much the Communists can do to squeeze money (fines) out of you -- but they will make your life miserable if they can.



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