[42] I'm circumstantially infertile. I spent all my youth dating bad boys in the City. I'm in my 40's now and even as I cry everytime at least I still have hope that Alpha Chad millionaire will marry me.

Devilsgun · 2018-05-08T23:39:12+00:00

Great Job in New York City

Oh God fuck me running, this Sex and the City Powercunt Bullshit yet again...

God fucking DAMN Feminism

BiggusDickus- · 2018-05-09T00:54:06+00:00

Congratulations feminists! You have created a generation of miserable women who ran away from what would really make them happy.

thy_neighbor · 2018-05-09T00:16:36+00:00

as if we graduated college, burned our bras and got jobs to exhibit some sort of feminist muscle.

Um that's exactly what you did. You think men pursue careers for the personal fulfillment? No it's because they pay us. And whether we wanna live a high lifestyle, retirement dream, or have a family the career serves the ends of our life-goals not is the stupid life goal. Sure there are things for the I love me wall you get along the way. But be honest. If someone was willing to throw 6 figs at you for doing whatever you want, would you still be pursuing your career? So if you wanted marriage and a family, WTF were you dicking around with a career for two decades?

Lemme answer that for you. "to exhibit some sort of feminist muscle."

simply because I've 'chosen' to wait for love.

Amazing every word in that sentence is wrong. I could write a doctoral thesis on all the things wrong with that sentence but I'll give you the cliff notes version. At least 50% (It's more like 75% in actuality but lets be generous) of men are lovable. Meaning that they have enough personal character to be, once you get to know them, an object of love. If you couldn't find one of them to love the problem is you.

but I have to defend my desire to be married to someone I'm crazy about before conceiving.

That's right. "Crazy" about. Fourty-Two fucking years old and talking like a 16yo girl. You've got to be "Crazy" about this man in your little fairy tale. Tingles and butterflies. Reality check. This has to last longer than a high school prom date.

If you really wanted kids. You should have found a reliable husband decent father, and latched onto him like a bear trap no matter how he looked or how many tingles you felt initially. Then you would have gotten kids. I guess they weren't important enough for you take a pass on your tingles.

R41nmaker · 2018-05-08T22:09:01+00:00

Why would alpha chad want to get with this dry old hag when he can get a much younger, much prettier woman who hasn’t been ridden like the village bicycle?

Diogenes-- · 2018-05-09T01:51:15+00:00

I cautiously hold onto the hope that I [...] am still attractive to men who want children too.

Bahahaha

Hahahahaha

Millions of years of evolution has made men attracted to women under 25 for that purpose. The OKCupid data showed that men of all age groups, even 60+, were most attracted to women age 21-24, and I think their data only went down to 21.

So this retard expects Richie Rich to pass up gorgeous young women without 3 trainloads of emotional baggage... for her? Why, for her career? What would he care about money if he's Richie Rich? Oh, and then he's supposed to fork over $$$ for IVF and then hold her sobbing ass when it doesn't work? Why the fuck would Mr. Rich do that? I swear to god these morons think they're some kind of princess in a fantasy novel. Holy fucking shit lol, mind=blown.

moorekom · 2018-05-08T22:16:25+00:00

// Circumstantial infertility//

It's called evolution. And it's job is to phase people like you out of the gene pool.

OfSpock · 2018-05-08T22:18:51+00:00

All of the Chads are long married or dating younger women by 40. Even if she did have kids, I still think she would find something to complain about. I can easily see her shitposting how she has two kids (who she says she loves), but regrets not being a partner at a top firm.

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-05-08T23:47:14+00:00

Fascinating how her hamster puts her on the same level of grief over women that physically cannot conceive/bring a child to term. According to [research], that leaves 9% of all women are either biologically incapable OR "circumstantially infertile".

Can, we for the sake of argument rule out that wasting all her precious eggs to the sewers and trash heap was entirely up to her? I mean, don't women go through a cycle that makes them super horny to get sperm on those wonderful balls of zygote fuel before they knowingly flush them to the porcelain god?

Maybe I just don't understand the anatomy well enough to make an educated guess on the subject. Maybe not having any "skin in the game" removes any possibility from understanding her dilemma and what she must have went through every...single...month.. for 25 years... The trauma she must have gone through a week out of every single month, how could she even have managed to tell the world of her bravery while going through these tumultuous times???

Nahh, she is a dumb cunt who knew she didn't have enough time to do everything she wanted

I was mourning the loss of one more chance at the family life I always dreamed of.

I have to defend why I'm not a mother when it's all I ever wanted to be.

But she already revealed why she truly does not have this thing that she morns over.

I had a great job in New York City, good friends, some good dates.

So, no, no pussy pass of "woe is her for the trauma she had to go through" being that "she chose to have a career/friends/girls nights out chasing chad instead of actively pursuing the one thing she always wanted."

Bahh, what a stupid attention whore.

[deleted] · 2018-05-09T01:58:50+00:00

She is the kind of chick that I casually date and never mention my vasectomy. She can't call you out on it because she can't admit she's trying to get knocked up and I have kids.

tankriderr · 2018-05-09T03:33:45+00:00

Pffft... as if Chad would want a used up,loose, boring and entitled 50 year old hag over a 25 something tight thot with no emotional baggage?

JJ3314 · 2018-05-09T01:48:45+00:00

“ Grief over childlessness (link is external) for a single woman in her thirties and forties is not as accepted. Instead, it's assumed we just don't understand that our fertility has a limited lifespan and we are simply being reckless with chance. We're labeled "career women" as if we graduated college, burned our bras and got jobs to exhibit some sort of feminist muscle. Or, it's assumed we're not 'trying hard enough,' or we're 'being too picky.'”

‘Cause that shit’s pretty much all true.

no_its_a_subaru · 2018-05-09T02:28:13+00:00

circumstantial infertility

What a crock of shit.

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-05-09T13:02:21+00:00

Starting my own business, becoming an author and fulfilling my professional potential have been extraordinarily rewarding.

OK. Go cuddle up with those "rewards". Somehow, I doubt her claims here.

"childfree" -- a term coined by those who have chosen never to have children and have no desire to have children, simply because I've 'chosen' to wait for love.

If she was honest, she would admit that she was just flexing some "feminist muscle". To do so would be to admin that she was duped by an ideology that she never bothered to question, because it was espoused by others, who like her, have a vagina.

I have to defend why I'm not a mother when it's all I ever wanted to be.

So she's smart enough to land and maintain a "great job in New York City", but cannot manage to figure out how to find a decent guy to marry, even though all that she ever wanted to be was married with kids? Something doesn't add up. If it's all she ever wanted to be, she should have put more time into that, than emulating the cunts on Sex with the City. If she had done so, she would be conversing with her kids now instead of writing this personal ad disguised as an article.

Pew Research reports that half of this group has chosen that fate; they are childfree by choice.

That is the ones that will admit it. They won't admit that they are morlocks or incels.

Well, it looks like it didn't work out for her. This article was written in 2012 when she was 42 and then wrote another article in 2014: Single, Childless and 45: So What's Wrong With You?. She also wrote "47 Reasons Why It's Really, Really Good to Be an Aunt" in 2015. By now she must be about 48 or 49, and have given up on "finding love". No mention of her business or what it is/was, guess it wasn't that big to her. That pic of her at the bottom is probably very old, and it's still quite ugly. I would hate to see her current mug looking like an old catcher's mitt. She's, no doubt, way past the point of no return.

Barmacist · 2018-05-09T17:31:28+00:00

Gold from the comment section:

"I met a guy when i was 17 and he was 22. He was a saint really, kind hearted, wanted to get married to me and have 4 or so kids. I cheated on him before my 18th bday and he then found out and threw me out. I ended up with a series of relationships with jerks, abusers, and infertile or sterilized men with kids themselves. Im now 44 and childless and want to hurt myself everyday i threw away the one kind guy for a night of sex. Wrecked my life."

Whoops...

chutneysophietbone · 2018-05-09T04:40:59+00:00

Why not just get one from a sperm bank? Easypeasy

AllahHatesFags · 2018-05-09T14:11:57+00:00

This is how Sex and the City would have ended IRL.

These cunts think they can have it all because that is what feminism tells them. They think their wealthy and attractive Prince Charmings are going to patient wait for them to finish their long ride on the cock carousel and swoop in to provide money and a family for them after they racked up astronomical n-counts and hit the wall. Life doesn't work like that and they find that out the hard way as they enter their golden years alone. Instead of taking some fucking responsibility for the way their lives turned out they blame the wealthy and successful men who rather have a younger woman in the prime of her life with much less mileage than a used-up middle-aged cunt. They should be blaming themselves.

fromthecrypt8 · 2018-05-09T13:01:28+00:00

I just read most of the comments to the article; I was pleasantly surprised at all the red pilled comments from fed up guys there. Highly recommended reading

DatBoiCrazy · 2018-05-09T14:04:49+00:00

Read all of her articles. What is missing from her narrative is what she was doing in her twenties. Did she have any offers?

She's very urban and Jewish. I can see that if she wanted a Jewish man she'd have had problems in her twenties. There really aren't enough Jewish Chads to go around, and a lot of them end up marrying shiksas.

LimousineLibtard · 2018-05-09T13:29:10+00:00

Dumb bitch better start saving up cat food coupons. This is what happens when you waste your good years riding the cock carousel like those sluts on Sex And The City.

ransay3277 · 2018-05-09T19:45:29+00:00

No wonder that every country that embraces feminism does not have a population sustaining birthrate.

[deleted] · 2018-05-10T00:54:05+00:00

Circumstancially Infertile is Carol’s version of Involuntarily Celibate.

kyledontcare · 2018-05-09T22:34:02+00:00

May her eggs rot. Women are dumb. Bet she met at least 20 men before she was 24 who could have been her everything. Forget you lady.

Original_Dankster · 2018-05-09T14:07:20+00:00

Yes, there's still hope I'll meet a man who has the desire to have a baby with me

These women are delusional. I've met my share online dating, mind-blowing that they think they're still in the market for a father

Cristoff13 · 2018-05-10T01:18:21+00:00

Even seeing a woman swollen from seven or eight months of pregnancy would make my petite frame feel invisible and small.

See the humblebragging she slipped in there about how she's not-fat.

V1SoR · 2018-05-10T12:23:51+00:00

Usually I don't comment here (also she's an old hag and I'm nowhere near her age) but here's my 2 cents. Took 5 minutes of research.

Per that article (2012):

Once I hit 40, I realized that despite my dreams (and deep biological and emotional desire to be a mother), I was still happy for all the other things in my life. [...] I'm 42 now, and I've quietly moved on.

Per her little "blog":

May 7, 2018: BEING CHILDLESS IS PAINFUL FOR MANY WOMEN: HERE ARE 9 COPING STRATEGIES

May 1, 2018: THE WALRUS: MAY COVER STORY: Child-Free By Choice: A New Generation Is Changing What it Means to Live Child-Free

April 22, 2018: WHY NOT BE AN AUNT PANK? THIS IS THE SOCIAL PHENOMENON THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW: For a decade, that favorite aunt who cares for her nephews above all and has a special relationship with them is called 'PANK'

April 16, 2018: GLOBAL TREND: AUNTS “PANK”, A PHENOMENON THAT ADVANCES AND WINS THE HEARTS OF THE YOUNGEST

April 5, 2018: NEW YORK POST: THESES ARE THE HOTTEST TOYS FOR 2018: As the founder of Savvy Auntie, the lifestyle brand for women who love kids, I attend New York’s Toy Fair every year...

December 29, 2017: WHY BEING SINGLE SUCKS: WHAT NO ONE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT

December 26, 2017: FROM AUNT ‘SPINSTER’ TO AUNT PANK: WOMEN WITHOUT CHILDREN WHO LOVE THEIR NEPHEWS [AND NIECES]

And so on and so forth.

Moved on, you say?

michaelhohendorn · 2018-05-11T13:24:02+00:00

Hahaha mean while guy in 30s no sorry 40s, mmm let's make that 50s fuck it 60s can still pump loads in a fertile young woman, hahaha

The wall is real, and is coming

yenvalmar · 2018-05-11T12:24:16+00:00

I would have sworn this was written by an ex, except she's 43.. if that job was all that great she'd have been rich enough to have her kid(s) raised by nannies like actual power b's, and be able to attract the kind of guy she probably really wants. Of course said guy would then divorce her if she insisted on putting her career over raising their kid, and would probably even make her sign a pre-nup, which she would agree to do since you know the type. But she'd have the kid.

And the real loser in all this assuming she had managed to reproduce- the kid. I've known people like this and I've known children of this environment. Children of super rich families that weren't raised by their real parents tend to be even more insufferable than anyone who self identifies as anything on reddit. A bullet was dodged here, and she is already getting over her feels so phew.

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