Does jealousy even work on ANY guys?

kwengman17 · 2020-12-25T04:50:00+00:00

Recently the girl I’ve been messing with keeps telling me about other guys trying to talk to her and ask for her number. Probs tryna scare me into cuffing her but I couldn’t care less.

And I guess when she showed me her insta picture with 600 likes or so, to show me she’s getting a lot of attention from people.

BlondeHornyElf · 2020-12-25T05:05:54+00:00

maybe it works on some guys but i'll end an LTR if she plays games like that

MattyAnon · 2020-12-25T07:56:26+00:00

what are girls trying to achieve by pulling jealousy stunts?

commitment

And does it actually work on some guys?

yes.... but it works better on girls, so they think it works on guys.

Musicgoon · 2020-12-25T05:18:25+00:00

Trying to make you jealous is a shit test. It can work for weak beta males and cucks.

I don't have that happen anymore. The girls I date know I will bounce to the next chick quickly if they give themselves to a new dick.

To me it's a gift. I get a new girl and they get their simp.

AshyBoneVR4 · 2020-12-25T07:03:50+00:00

Speaking from experience Most girls, ESPEICALLY the insecure ones are jealous creatures. They deal with, and get controlled by their jealousy on a regular basis. So they think if it works on them, it'll work on us. So that's why most girls will try to manipulate guys by trying to make us jealous. If a girl tries to make a guy jealous, she's not worth your time. That mentality is childish and will take you down a road that's filled with drama and nonstop bull shit.

They types of guys that shit works on are also insecure, but mostly possessive. It's ass backwards, but the type of dudes those tricks work on are actually the worse type of dude a chick could get.

4everrekt · 2020-12-25T10:56:49+00:00

It's less so jealousy and moreso loss aversion imo.

Most guys can't handle the thought of their girl getting railed by someone else. Though this is a mostly emotional reaction, there's a bit of rationality to this response.

Time is the most valuable resource you have as a man, and it's a real pain in the ass to invest a significant amount of time and other resources in someone/something only to have it sprout legs and walk away.

It'd be like a company taking a new grad, putting said employee through their training program, building them up for years to the point they're capable of being a manager of a large part of the corporation, and then they leave to work for a competitor.

In addition, being desired plays a big part in a woman's self esteem a lot of the times, so they'll continually look to validate their desirability. Thing is, if she were truly as desirable as she is implying, she wouldn't feel the need to say it.

A counter:

Whenever she brings up how some guy finds her attractive or something, you could say, "That's because they don't know what it's like to be around you 24/7."

When she asks you to clarify, you're presented with the opportunity to clearly explain the difference between you and her. All you require is a decent looking girl that's pleasant to be around. For her, finding a guy that posseses all your positive attributes, that's open to commitment, and that's willing to commit to her is a tall order. Furthermore, as time goes on, you'll just get better and better, making it even rarer to find a guy like you.

Essentially, whenever they threaten or imply that they're leaving, acting indifferent with a slight sense of relief goes a long way. In a way, it kind of is. Instead of having to negotiate with an emotional terrorist, you now have way more time to work on achieving your goals. This kind of abundance triggers their own loss aversion ironically

LouTheMan2020 · 2020-12-25T06:57:06+00:00

It works on way to many guys sadly. I think its great shows exactly how a girl is . I dont even give dick to girls that play games like that all you can do is laugh em off.

throwitdownman · 2020-12-25T16:40:01+00:00

Girl I knew did this a lot. We hooked up multiple times, and I went to another city for holidays with some friends. Throughout she kept talking about how people were hitting her up, people sliding in her DMs, she asking for ‘permission’ to go to a party, etc.

I was in such a weird IDGAF/aloof frame that I honestly didn’t feel jealousy and was like ‘cool go for it! I’m going to one as well’. Whenever she texted me, I texted back pretty quick and wasn’t avoiding her shit tests, just straight up IDGAF replies.

She eventually took a fucking plane to find us because she ‘missed me too much’. Shit was insane. I‘m not sure I can ever recreate that solid of a frame, but it’s evidence that RP theory does work. Can’t be soft, can’t be butt-hurt. Nothing you do matters if she truly wants to cheat, so focus on yourself.

ClickKlakk · 2020-12-25T09:32:20+00:00

They want a guy it doesn’t work on

xJaegar · 2020-12-25T10:23:44+00:00

Jealously doesn't work on those with the abundance mentality.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-12-25T22:55:53+00:00

B.A.S.

The reason they use it is bc THEY GET JEALOUS EASILY. Remember females project all the time, so she'll try to make you jealous bc THAT WOULD WORK ON HER if the tables were turned.

And to answer your question,yes, it works on INSECURE guys who fake high value,but get shook whenever a real high value guy appears. When I see a better dude,it motivates me to up my "smv power level". Insecure fake alphas and beta cuck motherfuckers go into playerhater mode in such situations.

Focus in Leveling up homie,the rest will handle itself.

SIR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2020-12-25T10:57:43+00:00

Because it works on them they think it will work on us. They never seem to understand that for us it's actually a massive turn off.

cunningcaring · 2020-12-25T11:18:53+00:00

She wants a relationship, more than you are willing to give her.

It's a shit test but it also means she is eventually going to shit you and look elsewhere.

AshyLarry27 · 2020-12-25T18:15:47+00:00

Its another form of shit testing. Of course it works, lol why do you think this community is so big?

You remain unfazed by it when she brings it up, or joke about including him next time but only if he's hung like a horse.

testing8382737 · 2020-12-25T18:48:15+00:00

Jealousy works very well on women so they assume it works on men too. In reality it just turns men off.

juicy-asssss · 2020-12-25T20:26:48+00:00

Not on guys who are red pilled, being red pilled over laps everything just be red pilled and you’re good

HurricaneHugues · 2020-12-25T23:33:52+00:00

Most guys are super weak and very jealous. So yeah, it does work on most. But you're not here to be part of "Most guys" though.

badtwothebone · 2020-12-26T00:28:18+00:00

They do this a lot, it's a shit test and just a way to rush you to commit.

I have a plate who is a model with loads of orbiters and followers. She keeps telling me about guys hitting on her and trying to get with her all the time. I usually encourage it and tell her go give them a chance. Really fucks with her head and makes her want me more haha

kclanton80 · 2020-12-25T22:57:35+00:00

I mean....MOST men are betas.....so yes it works all the time.

Jetrous · 2020-12-29T15:19:01+00:00

It works wonders on everyone with scarcity mentality. So almost everyone.

Title	Does jealousy even work on ANY guys?
Author	smellybuttox
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Date	December 25, 2020 4:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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