There's a couple mindsets that get emphasized here and they are exclusive of each other.

The first is how to get laid. The second is being indifferent to whether you get laid or not.

I see this confuse people because posts often make it sound that by not caring, suddenly girls will feel challenged and do the work for you: opening, closing, and consistently hitting you up to get fucked. That is generally not going to happen for 99% of men. Especially not with hot women.

Being indifferent, going monk mode, or having the IDGAF attitude generally will not get you laid. If you're a pro-athlete, big dick in your industry, or the hot DJ this week it'll happen. Otherwise, you need to work. Don't be a clown, don't be needy, but get to work and care about the results of your work.

It's freeing to have the indifferent mindset at times because it allows you to perform at a high level with other things. For example: I was indifferent to chicks during law school and achieved the things I needed to do. Immediately before and immediately afterwards, I fucked everything that moved. There's a time and place for both.

If you want to get laid and spin plates with regularity then it takes work. You have to care about the goal because that means you pursue and own the results. It requires a mindset completely opposite of the former. It requires an outgoing personality. It takes consistent lifting and eating. It means being persistent with opening, leading, closing, and following up with chicks that you want to fuck or want to keep fucking. After that, they're hooked and will hit you up. You don't get hung up on chicks who don't pan out because you're already onto the next, and you're constantly restocking the pool of potential plates. That is the IDGAF aspect of this mindset.

When you have the time in your life to pursue getting laid, then you need to get laid, a lot. You need to study game and get big. Every man needs to fuck a lot of women to understand the feeling of ownership and leadership that men need to experience. You need to feel that dominance over women because it's in our nature. It takes effort and persistence to sharpen your game and frame. That way, when you need to adopt one mindset or the other, you have the experience and confidence that you can do what you need to do, when it needs to be done.

TDLR: There is a mindset to getting laid and there is a mindset of being indifferent. Both have their roles. When you're going to adopt one mindset, adopt it fully.