So I'm in the middle of getting a divorce initiated by me. I filed last September and my court date is this Friday. Since I filed for divorce my wife came back at me with a domestic violence claim which was denied. she is currently staying at a domestic violence shelter for women and children and she's been there since September. She's doing everything in her power to make me look like an evil father, we have a 2-year-old daughter together who is staying with her. I've already been trampled on by the court system and having to pay full child support with only some visitation with my daughter. which is absolutely ridiculous because my wife does not have an income and lives in a shelter whereas I have an income and have a place to live. How does this make any sense? It doesn't because we live in a f***** up court system world.

Anyway, I receive restricted call tonight and it's my wife crying saying she needs to come home she doesn't feel safe where she is. Naturally I am concerned about my daughter's safety my wife abruptly hangs up and so I call the police department to see if they can do a welfare check on my daughter. Officer calls me back and says he cannot do anything because he thinks I'm trying to find out where my daughter and my wife lives. I already know where they live because my wife told me and gave me the emergency contact for the place, that's what I told the officer but the officer did not believe me. My wife calls me back after I talk to the officer and so she can explain everything once she gets back home and I tell her she's the one that got herself into the situation in the first place. As soon as I said that another lady came on the line saying some things I cannot understand. I could hear at least I think I can hear my wife in the background saying she's safer where she is then with me. I'm extremely confused because she called me not 30 minutes before pleading with me to come home. I'm not sure what in the world is going on over that shelter but I feel like my daughter might be in danger and the police will not do anything. I honestly would not be surprised if my wife is trying to use this incident in some twisted way in the court to slander me and drag me through the dirt even more than she already has.

I know for might be good women out there but I feel like the majority are terrible and will absolutely ruin and wreck your life if you ever decide you need to move on. Another reason why you should never marry or if you do do it very cautiously. Learn from my mistake, I'm dealing with some intense things right now outside of this whole divorce debacle. Keep going your own way guys, it's not worth it to get involved with women. I will absolutely be single for the rest of my life, this experience has destroyed any confidence that a relationship can be a good thing.