Single mother seriously asks why she can't get another man to raise her children. She is also "financially independent".

Sir_manalot · 2020-01-17T16:06:26+00:00

Yes, children need a good father.

But no man will want to raise another man’s child.

The exception is if he is several points low then her.

ShowMeWarFace · 2020-01-17T16:06:44+00:00

At least she acknowledges the truth.

ShowMeWarFace · 2020-01-17T16:20:11+00:00

Financially responsible. Okay. Where was all that sense of responsibility when it came to making sure that her children had a father in their lives?

DangZagnut · 2020-01-17T16:28:57+00:00

She's financially solvent, which is why she needs a man.

Currently she's spending her money and woman can't do that. So since it looks like alimony or child support is coming to an end, then she needs a man to spend his money.

iForceM · 2020-01-17T16:46:33+00:00

Where is the real daddy?

ironmanknowsjoe · 2020-01-17T17:19:21+00:00

This is one of the pillars of MGTOW. Do not ever connect with a single mother. At no time will you ever come before her child.

Jadedoldman65 · 2020-01-17T18:11:49+00:00

As I've said before, and I'll question again. If single mothers are so great, why aren't they dating each other and wifing each other up?

guestere · 2020-01-17T16:21:40+00:00

How awful. Did her husband and father of her children die in a terrible accident? A war? Disease? Well whatever happened, at least she is financially responsible and solvent. I guess her ex at least taught her how to be good with money. Or something like that.

Come on guys, step up and raise her children. Be a real man!

DavidLoPan13 · 2020-01-17T16:00:05+00:00

What can’t they figure this out before they have kids?

rabbit8lol · 2020-01-17T16:06:51+00:00

Self reflection in the update? Was that a troll post?

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-01-17T16:35:45+00:00

Why would they drive a used up old car, when they can afford a new car/newer car?

Gutsybuckel · 2020-01-17T17:47:16+00:00

A strong, independent woman when it suits her needs.

MikeRocksBoat · 2020-01-17T17:34:00+00:00

Step right up! Everyone's a winner! Three Unicorn foals for the loving! Unicorn included!

drago8452 · 2020-01-17T18:42:26+00:00

Thank third wave feminism for your predicament. Men are not dating or pursuing women anymore. For the last 10 years the male gender has been shit on, made fun of, emasculated. If by chance he does run across the proverbial unicorn she will not have children from and earlier marriage or hook up. I am sorry to say single mothers are at the bottom of the dating game. Sucks to suck!

2020-01-17T16:38:49+00:00

I dont want my own kids to take care of, why THE HELL would I want some other dudes kids.

14392 · 2020-01-17T19:29:24+00:00

The simple answer is that real man with dignity don't want your kids and pre-owned pussy

frikabg · 2020-01-18T04:25:09+00:00

women are such a compleat retarded hypocrites it is actually tragic. It is not a rocket science honey! If you were asked by a men who earns less than you to get into a relationship with him where you get to be his emotional tampon help him pay his bills pay the bills of his child be expected to raise someone else's child be expected to be supportive in every manner possible and be 'rewarded' with less sex and affection than you would be if you were in a relationship with a childless men what would you do? Go for the single dad with a child or without lol?

The fact that you are surprised and unaware of why men don't want to deal with someone else's child just goes to show how fucking retarded you are... and no one wants to be in a relationship with a demanding retarded person who thinks only highly of herself and her child!

frikabg · 2020-01-18T04:29:44+00:00

Unfortunately for me, many of these are negative and accurate.

Yeah well fuck you YOU SELFISH CUNT! Things might be unfortunate for you but can you for a second stop and think what that means for the man you are trying to imprison ? Because as bad as things are for you (which you did all by yourself to yourself btw) it is very fortunate for the men who doesn't have to take responsibility for someone else's fuck up! There might be some men who are willing to put up with this bullshit offer but make no mistake those people are getting fewer and fewer by the day because women have done fucked up with your endless lists of demands.

Stop thinking about yourself and your child and start thinking of your future partner as well maybe when you do that and put yourself in his shoes you will be able to get into a real relationship until then fuck off with your unreasonably high expectations and demands!

Throwawayabdi_95 · 2020-01-18T10:02:12+00:00

Society should be merciless to single mothers to teach other women of the consequences of leaving a child's father and mating with the wrong men. They knew exactly what they were doing when they went for these bad boy chads or even when they left their beta boy husband's because they're "bored ".

FreezyArigato · 2020-01-17T17:47:57+00:00

HVM is what she's looking for. She needs to lower her standards dramatically. Single mother's are a bad idea for a reason. At least, she acknowledges that much.

Broseph_Broestar · 2020-01-17T19:05:34+00:00

The audacity knows no bounds. She needs us to take care of her crotch spawn, us getting some mediocre slash in the process isn't even mentioned. Begone, vile harlot.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2020-01-17T19:06:05+00:00

What's ultimately sad about the situation is that she has made it years into life and only just now learned this. In general, I think most women do not understand that men do not want to date single mothers. They see so much propaganda about how awesome single mothers are that they are not aware of the very real downsides, which are never mentioned.

Until, "Yeah, dating single moms sucks" becomes so commonplace that it can be said by morning talk show people without anyone even blinking, that information is going to be only discovered by women when it is too late for them.

CorrectObject · 2020-01-17T23:02:15+00:00

Raise another man's kid. Where is the actual father and what was so wrong with him?

EternulReactionar · 2020-01-18T00:05:31+00:00

Grab any accounting/economy/finance/investment book and slowly read about Depreciating Assets until you find your answer.

Kurt751990 · 2020-01-18T00:15:03+00:00

It's not my kid, plain and simple.

American__Jedi · 2020-01-18T00:52:33+00:00

Your kids have a father. Where is he?

sebastian0801 · 2020-01-18T01:17:29+00:00

And what the childs real father?

beesajknees · 2020-01-18T02:03:59+00:00

She should've thought about the importance of a father before she became a single mother, not after.

TheValhallaBoy · 2020-01-17T18:01:10+00:00

She can't see the irony of her statement? Like she is looking for someone to be a dad specifically, even if you remove a financial burden expecting someone to just become a dad of multiple kids when he is in the casual dating stage of his life is ridiculous.

RoboMandrake · 2020-01-17T21:59:36+00:00

Though unlikely she'd never consider it, take the sensible approach that a single Dad might and hire a 'Manny' to fulfil the manly role for her kids. Seems to me the most reasonable approach in today's world for a man that wants to have kids is to go with surrogacy and then have a Nanny to help out as an employee.

Mr_M0t0m0 · 2020-01-17T22:03:41+00:00

If children need Fathers then hold the male who sired the child accountable and responsible.

And don't get me involved in a love triangle by ping ponging between me and baby daddy.

z31fanatic · 2020-01-17T23:02:08+00:00

Look at the username she chose. Then she makes a post about how she is financially independent so the man she is looking for won't have to provide. Just needs to be a dad to her children.

You ain't fooling anyone lady.

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-01-17T23:12:45+00:00

She just needs to ask herself. If you were single would you raise someone elses kids...

horonlapsi · 2020-01-17T23:47:15+00:00

The only people that should date single mothers are single fathers

Cool_Trash_Panda · 2020-01-18T00:35:44+00:00

As a woman you could of adopted already existing children, rather you had a strong preference to have your own and were not really interested in spending resources to raise some one else's pre-existing children.

Imagine the shock that Men, maybe just maybe operate the same way.

Insert you were not supposed to do that meme here.

MassiveMD · 2020-01-18T01:26:45+00:00

Yes.

2020-01-18T01:48:15+00:00

Men have a lot of preconceived notions about "single moms".

Good on her if she's financially independent, but there just won't be many men out there looking to be a husband and father to a 37 year old mother with kids.

Doctor_Red_Pill · 2020-01-18T05:01:10+00:00

I had a conversation with a coworker who is a single mom. She was telling me she only slept for 3 hours because her one year old shit himself in the middle of the night, got out of bed, smeared shit everywhere, took off his shitty diaper and woke her up by placing the shitty diaper on her face.

My response was laughter and “I’m glad I don’t have kids.”

I am assuming she wanted some sort of white knight/protector response about how I feel so much for her. I don’t. I actively avoid her and her shitty life.

ettins619 · 2020-01-18T07:08:55+00:00

The username is quite ironic

kayfab · 2020-01-18T07:33:33+00:00

Fuck single moms, after my online dating stint and sadly only meeting and getting rejected by those useless cunts, i decided to stay single.

Single mom have nothing what so ever to offer, nothing a part mental issues, and they will use you and abuse you to raise there kids that are not yours.

Where does any man win going out with trash like that

Grant1412 · 2020-01-18T08:10:28+00:00

If I was look for a woman to have in my life, I would want a woman in my life. Not a woman and her (and a another guy's) kids.

I think every man feels the same. I think any man who chooses to date a single mum is compromising. And I think any man who is makes that compromise will never find happiness or satisfaction in his life.

SontheHedge2 · 2020-01-18T15:15:44+00:00

Men don't date for cash nearly as much or for the same reason chicks do. Women will project their flaws unto men to avoid looking wrong.

eduardkoopman · 2020-01-18T15:37:43+00:00

She asks extremly alot: "man needs to give her children the love of a father".
What a massive task, burden, and risk; for a man. Even if a man would be okay to give that to kids that are not his. he takes massive risk: because;
- he has zero say over the children;
- if she leaves him he will also lose all contact with the kids. So it will be a double loss, and a double wasite of invested time and efforts.

GrandpaLeiho · 2020-01-19T07:02:13+00:00

I’m a single dad and it works for me, not against me. 🤷🏽‍♂️

Title	Single mother seriously asks why she can't get another man to raise her children. She is also "financially independent".
Author	Nexus-9_Replicant
Upvotes	240
Comments	73
Date	January 17, 2020 3:48 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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