Post locked in r/relationship : "My GF of 3 years admitted she cheated on me". Now I'm going my own way.

Krazyrobus · 2019-11-12T23:56:53+00:00

Of course it was locked. People need to keep that shit in here.

LifeIsStillTestingMe · 2019-11-13T00:42:01+00:00

Women, always giving other people (men, women, and children) horrific advice backed up by shit logic.

AverageatUFC3 · 2019-11-13T03:12:50+00:00

My ex wife cheated on me while I was away making money for my family.

We divorced, even though we have 3 kids together.

Best decision I ever made.

My life is amazing. I would not have the freedom I enjoy today were I still married. Yes it was tough, initially. But easily within a year I was doing better than ever with all my newfound time.

WaywardStag · 2019-11-13T03:09:27+00:00

In woman speak "it's fine as long as your bf doesn't find out" means "I'd like to have some more leverage in our friendship, so please do something that I can use to ruin you if I need to. I also love drama, so it's win-win".

Jonlife · 2019-11-13T03:47:44+00:00

Understand that she's going to be coming at you. The blame is on you. She is still the victim here. She's going to blame society, her friends, Christopher Columbus, the president of the United States.

It will never end. Women cannot be held accountable. Society, especially woke society, deems it so. White knight cucks will also deem it so. You dodged a bullet, but I would watch your back for a good year or so. Best case scenario is that she disappears and leaves you be. Worst case scenario is that she's plotting to get you arrested or fired or ostracized from those around your radius.

I wouldn't lower your defenses until you know for sure

Ukhupa · 2019-11-13T02:59:35+00:00

At 26 year old you only slept with 3 different men

I can't stand this stigma against virginity and not dating (sleeping) around and the encouraging of a consequence free, hedonistic lifestyle for both men and women.

Slapnuts711 · 2019-11-13T00:39:24+00:00

2 weeks? Should have changed the locks on the house!

Abusedhusband123 · 2019-11-13T02:45:57+00:00

This happened to me. She Never had sex with me but cheated on me after 5 years with a guy she only knew for a month, gave him her virginity. After confessing to me, she told me she was dumping me. She wanted to dump me even though she was the one who cheated on me lmao. Stunned by this sudden whirlwind of circumstances, I asked her what I did wrong. She couldn’t think of a reason and just told me “you are a good man anon and you didn’t do anything to deserve this, it’s not you it’s me”. Yup the old it’s not you it’s me routine when you can’t find any reason to dump a man.

Reminder that women will find a reason, any reason to dump you, if some other guy so much as gives her the “tingles”. GYOW.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-11-13T00:38:08+00:00

Even the friends tried to get her to do it. Got to impress the rest of the herd.

strainer123 · 2019-11-13T01:30:31+00:00

This happened to me too, but she was gone the same day, she wanted to come back and I said nope, you're going back to your parents house not here.

DeplorableToast · 2019-11-13T00:47:54+00:00

Freedom within reach! Don't lose it again!

JihadNinjaCowboy · 2019-11-13T03:38:37+00:00

At least they are honest about what women have to offer. "You need to have sex with more before settling down".

LOL.

Its better to pay for sex I think, than to have a gf live with you. I have a gf but she will never live in my house.

Hawgster · 2019-11-13T06:09:14+00:00

Not sure if that guy was you or not, Sorry to whoever. I found out that my ex-wife "girlfriends" were a big part of her cheating on me with a guy at work and then serving me divorce papers. We had kids together and everything. A woman having slutty friends/man hating friends is huge if your relationship gets a little rocky and real life happens. Its selfish and pathetic. Not to mention at the time they went to the new 50 shades of gray movie together. Showed the whole tone of what was to come for this exciting new relationship with no problems. Thinking the grass is always greener on the other side. Women are so delusional.

StBlops2cel_is_Lord · 2019-11-13T02:20:18+00:00

'Post is locked'=mods are asshoe.

Reddit is PATHETIC.

Friendly-Casper · 2019-11-13T04:05:43+00:00

I had a similar experience with a woman I got engaged to many years back. Her excuse while I was away on family matters was that she got lonely and all her friends were saying things like how she was too young to settle down, that she should be out having fun (those were mostly other men trying to hit on her at the time). The best advice to something like that is to cut all contact with that woman. They'll use whatever emotional blackmail they can to keep men from dumping their sorry asses until they find a good enough grip on another branch so they can be the one that does the dumping and claim how you were such a horrible person. Worse, they'll make certain the entire spectacle is an emotional rollercoaster ride to your detriment. Anyone that claims it'd be in your best interest to salvage such a relationship should just go dive off a cliff with the rest of the lemmings.

OddPhilosopher1 · 2019-11-13T01:48:04+00:00

Was this you? If it was, good for you. Now you know who she really was the whole time. She saved you from youself, be grateful for that.

Welcome to the right side of history. We all win here. No power to women.

Tellnone25 · 2019-11-13T03:37:30+00:00

Good. Nothing on the plantation is worth it in this day and age. Not even kids unfortunately.

VetteVet83 · 2019-11-13T03:47:47+00:00

Good job bro. She had no respect for you and you should have no sympathy for her.

MrMagtow · 2019-11-13T05:01:04+00:00

Step right up ladies! Step Right Up! Tickets for the Carousel are yours for the taking!

ReverendCatch · 2019-11-13T01:48:00+00:00

Good on you. Sucks you can't just throw her out, but cucked countries these days... can't be holding people responsible or feeling negative push back for their poor life decisions.

BellyHunter · 2019-11-13T02:29:11+00:00

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2019-11-13T04:00:59+00:00

Grats, man

alpacapelz · 2019-11-13T04:05:19+00:00

Same here man, hope you are feeling better. Lmk if you need someone to talk to, happened to me recently too.

Also as others said, be sure to make sure that she can’t do anything to you, she will come at you to take what she can from you.

boltjamison · 2019-11-13T08:48:36+00:00

The friends a woman surrounds herself with will always tell u about the person she really is.

churchill72 · 2019-11-13T11:09:09+00:00

Not sure if its been mentioned yet - but there's no need to get into a pissing contest with this person. Keep it respectful and un-dramatic as possible. Your job is to exit the situation with as little negative blowback as possible....not to prove any "point" to this person that's been ejected from your life.

Be safe......if you want to tell this person off, do it after they're at a safe distance from you and not while living in your house.

thotprovoker69 · 2019-11-13T06:03:33+00:00

"You know I, thug 'em, fuck 'em, love 'em, leave 'em cause I don't fucking need 'em." - Jay-Z

iloveskinnyteens · 2019-11-13T06:06:56+00:00

2 weeks?! Kick her to the curb NOW!

Velsoxof_25 · 2019-11-13T12:44:51+00:00

Congrats, you dodged a bullet.

AdrenalineJunkySloth · 2019-11-13T18:45:48+00:00

It's actually better to have less partners, learn to commit, and love someone but have some regret of not sleeping around more

than to

Have a ton of partners, are unable to love and commit, and constantly regret (std, kid, or mental) not being able be in a solid relationship.

Pair-bonding is a real thing and it applies to both men and women. Men can get away with a bit more but women cannot pair-bond after a few number of sexual partners. You cannot have EVERYTHING in life. You have to pick and choose your battles and make proper sacrifices. Too many people think the world revolves around them and that they can do whatever they want without any consequences.

They think they can whore out, sleep with a ton of people, hit the wall, then find a good quality man to love and live happily ever after? Read the statistics. Sorry, you and I aren't the exceptions. We're humans just like everyone else.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-11-14T00:39:44+00:00

That's what she gets for listening to her dumb female friend. Good riddance! Cut her out of your life completely.

LotBuilder · 2019-11-13T05:51:15+00:00

Two weeks? Too long

Saigon_Lager · 2019-11-13T05:54:57+00:00

In 2 weeks? Bloody hell, she takes a long time to pack.

demaistre2 · 2019-11-13T14:17:27+00:00

link please. I need to see the comments

Mythrobo · 2019-11-13T14:30:45+00:00

Well, atleast somebody doesnt have a new person in bed every week. 3 at 26 is rlly modest, too bad she cheated

2019-11-13T15:14:22+00:00

Sue her for emotional distress.

mukhtar24 · 2019-11-13T16:36:53+00:00

Amazing 👌👏👌👌

human304 · 2019-11-13T17:24:03+00:00

Ahh that same old story women and her friends.
"Yo go girl. You have never had an apple. Whaaat . Just take a bite."
to

"Yo go girl. You have never had a fivesome.Whaaat. Just have one."

2019-11-13T17:58:48+00:00

your wallet thanks you 🙏

TheNoNonsenseMofo · 2019-11-13T21:32:33+00:00

Freedom, sir, freedom!

jacketguy · 2019-11-13T22:07:12+00:00

whores r the worst

conscious-ape · 2019-11-13T01:58:55+00:00

You sir... sound like a beta. A real alpha male would have dicked her down so good, that she wouldn’t have to look anywhere else for curiosity. First step is you let her make YOU....an option. Not the other way around. We all take falls soldier. You’ll come back stronger.

Title	Post locked in r/relationship : "My GF of 3 years admitted she cheated on me". Now I'm going my own way.
Author	BellyHunter
Upvotes	777
Comments	124
Date	November 12, 2019 11:42 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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