I’m an idiot

constantbabble · 2019-07-20T14:06:59+00:00

Find something better to do with your time rather than cyber friend zoning.

Red_Liner740 · 2019-07-20T14:20:47+00:00

Classic example of keeping a beta orbiter. You were her backup. Words mean nothing to them. Seems integrity and ownership of spoken words are an alien concept to most women.

DangZagnut · 2019-07-20T14:27:59+00:00

Why are women like this? It’s always the ones tho least expect.

They're all like that. No matter what they "claim", they're all like that.

I 100% agree with her, it's her business and you can't control her. She can do what she wants.

That being said, if you're wasting your time on some girl do not give her a fucking thing no matter what she says. Never give money, much time, and absolutely no emotional energy. You must deny these urges to spend your money on her.

She is a hole and nothing else. No money, no emotional energy, zero investment. If you do you end up right where you are. Confused, perhaps angry, depressed, who knows.

Never invest. Again, they're all free spirits getting their moist hole pumped for free meals and entertainment. Never ever pay.

Norlamin · 2019-07-20T15:01:23+00:00

You were just another chain on her link, waiting to pull you up if she ever needed an emotional tampon or pay pig.

You started to become emotionally invested, which is a dangerous place to be if you haven’t learned to control “Sammy the Sasquatch”, aka. Your primitive brain.

Learn from this, notice the signs, be able to pull yourself back and observe the situation, grow as a person. You did nothing but hit a bump in the road my friend, LEARN. FROM. IT.

Isaac51290 · 2019-07-20T17:41:39+00:00

Oh man. I'm sorry. It's a shitty feeling, I've been there. I quit the whole online dating thing because of it.

2stepp · 2019-07-20T14:08:10+00:00

Get yourself to California. Book a balling ass Airbnb and get some awesome ganja. Take a train ride from Sacramento over the Sierra Nevadas and into Reno (it's a beautiful ride btw). Get a hotel there for a couple of nights. Call an uber and go to one of the ranches in Nevada.

You're welcome.

drago8452 · 2019-07-20T16:06:31+00:00

LOL...a great example of female trickery

GrisBosque · 2019-07-20T14:58:02+00:00

Why fish in a sewage lagoon?

"The first wise thought, is when you realize you are a fool." (Zen saying)

kaczan3 · 2019-07-20T16:33:13+00:00

" Talking to this girl " - this is where you fucked up.

BaffyBob · 2019-07-20T14:39:24+00:00

Read a book. Quit talking to them. They all lie.

adrianna528 · 2019-07-20T14:44:39+00:00

You’re not an idiot. You’re kind and nice, and she exploited that. Don’t blame yourself

JustinFaulkinTrudeau · 2019-07-20T15:22:39+00:00

If I'm messaging a girl online I don't know I have very low expectations. Keep messaging succinct, and transition to in person ASAP. You could be wasting time messaging a guy, or a girl like this who is hustling other men every day.

Throwviews · 2019-07-20T20:12:21+00:00

LDR's never work out. This isn't an opinion it's a fact.

eduardkoopman · 2019-07-20T18:59:34+00:00

Talking to this girl online for quite a while,

Would she make, or would she talk online with Brad Pitt (or whomever is hottest guy now) for a while/weeks? Or would she suggest to meetup soon (or say "yes" to his invite to meet up)?

Being online chat friends = she's not into you (sexually or romantically speaking). So it's a waste of time.
Even in my days that I still dated, and was blue pilled as fuck. I had a "no", or very limited "chatting online policy". Many women tried to get me on the: chat/email/phone - buddy program. But I always denied it. And from like 100%/99% I never heard anymore. So, I saved 100% of my time not doing that; and managed to waste 0% of my time.

That woman fucked your time.
I like Patrice O'Neal (RIP brothers, greatly missed) said about this subject alot:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuHMdbBcMb4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4hqIHAf0ZJU

CerebralAbrasion · 2019-07-20T20:16:54+00:00

She's going to be all cute and wholesome with you while letting Chad use her like a piece of meat. If you don't like it you're a controlling jealous psycho.

NYCCOOP · 2019-07-20T22:04:28+00:00

Out of the blue she tells me she fucked a guy last night

In her mind you're not a guy, you're like a girlfriend. Sorry bro.

totorox · 2019-07-21T01:58:19+00:00

that's called shit-testing. You failed.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-07-21T04:09:58+00:00

This is a blessing in disguise. She told you the truth! So the next logical thing to do is to ignore the bitch completely (no more communication!) and go do the things that make you happy. Don't waste any more time and energy on this female. No more simping! Wake the fuck up! She's used good anyway. Think how many cocks already ran through that she-hole. Big fucking deal!

TrueProfessor · 2019-07-21T05:24:38+00:00

Lmao a cyber orbiter. I was like you once, they always end up fucking someone else.

whyserenity · 2019-07-20T23:10:30+00:00

women are not men. They do not think like men in any way. All women are the same.

WhitePudding64 · 2019-07-21T00:11:36+00:00

Kinda going through same in a way. Im talking to a girl right now. And like she's a great friend. We've known each other for almost a year now. And literally have talked every single day. Like a good 9 month everyday. We've gotten very close to each other and she's even told me she has some feelings for me. But wants us to meet before anything happens. We are both 16 and and we only know each other online. Shes homeschooled so she hasn't been ruined by society if she were to go to a public school. Nothing like what op said has happened. But im afraid one day something similar will happen. She doesn't mention other guys or anything. Like she does but passed friends shes had and how they ended so those guys are out of the picture. I recently discovered MGTOW and I'm starting to fear the worst will happen if i continue to like and talk to this girl.

xinxinel · 2019-07-21T04:31:17+00:00

She was having exactly the same conversations with another 10 guys

HarryDyckenhaand · 2019-07-21T13:33:56+00:00

You can only blame yourself for this one, buckoo...

You know better.. How you say? Simple. You are on a mgtow sub.

You're not the only one that misses the smell of pussy, its just costs too much.

Stop playing with fire.

cohumanize · 2019-07-20T14:07:20+00:00

if you liked her why aren't you happy for her?

Title	I’m an idiot
Author	NonexistentCos
Upvotes	76
Comments	66
Date	July 20, 2019 2:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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