The problem is you guys aren't asking the right questions and therefore the right material isn't being put out, stop obsessing over female psychology.

MattyAnon · 2017-04-29T16:05:28+00:00

Would have preferred a title more like "Be the man you want to be, female psychology isn't your problem".

Great post, +1, would read again.

kelvin_condensate · 2017-04-29T18:29:05+00:00

An understanding of female psychology allows you to better understand and internalize game. Game is how you get women. Game is how you have multiple teenage and very young twenty year old girls in rotation even when you're a penniless destitute guy living in his dad's basement, sleeping in a sleeping bag, in your thirties. Game is how you pick up new women, how you keep them on the hook wanting more. Female psychology and game are the most important single issue for being sexually successful.

Sure it's nice to have a great life. It helps expand your options. Just like it's great having a killer muscular man body not a fat weak nerd body. It's nice having enough money that you don't worry about what you're going to buy. But girls aren't just gonna show up and suck your dick cause you built a life for yourself. You have to go out and get the girls.

That means approaching. That means understanding how to pass shit tests. That means understanding the girl brain so you know how to display all the subtle signs of alpha dominance. Which get almost no attention on this sub anymore. And your post adds basically nothing.

blackedoutfast · 2017-04-30T00:30:25+00:00

i know a lot of dudes in their 30s who are sad, sexless, losers (either stuck in a shitty deadbedroom marriage or doing the traditional BP style of dating where they spend lots of $$ on women but don't get much in return).

i also know (a much smaller number) dudes in their 30s who are living something close to that playboy lifestyle, partying and having fun all the time, fucking multiple girls a week, having an abundance of smoking hot chicks to choose from, etc.

tbh the thing that separates the playboys from the losers is NOT that the playboys spent their 20s working their asses off building a career and improving their looks and all that. if anything, it's the opposite- the bluepill losers were the ones who focused on their career and making money and all that. the guys who are playboys now mostly spent their 20s partying in clubs, backpacking around the world, playing in a band or being a dj, selling drugs, etc. they were improving their social skills, making valuable connections, having crazy adventures that would make good stories later, and learning about female (and male) psychology through personal experience.

looking good definitely makes things easier. having a good career and $$ makes things easier. but if you start focusing entirely on those kind of things, it's VERY easy to fall into the bluepill beta provider trap and still be unhappy and miserable.

there's no secret answer like "$1mil in cash + <12% body fat + 2,000 facebook friends = playboy lifestyle in your 30s"

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-04-29T18:09:37+00:00

The OP has an opinion.

His opinion (it seems) is that one should not try to understand but to simply focus on what you can do and be as happy as possible in doing it.

I would disagree.

Let's take the Trivium Method as our basis. (something I'm using more and more as my lense to achieve the Truth)

Step One : Be open minded when it comes to data. This here (the first step) is being attacked by the OP because he is saying to exclude lot's of information.

Step Two : When understanding the data be close minded and resist peer pressure. Here again (second step) the OP is trying to turn people away from thinking about things other than what he is defining as important. Again it breaks the Trivium Method and he's offering emotional programming as advice.

Step Three : Wisdom is shared. So for the OP he thinks he's sharing wisdom by his restrictive instructions. However, this is going to prevent people from getting to a point of greater wisdom. From this we are capable of deciding the value of what he writes.

Koryphae_ · 2017-04-29T16:44:07+00:00

I am no expert in the field by any means but could it not be that the reason so much female psychology obsession is going on is the fact that the men are looking for a 'guide', the so called 'easy route'? Do you think it has some sort of connection?

frrunkis · 2017-04-30T01:12:53+00:00

So based off of this post I'm assuming many here must hate the RSD guys

samosiazosia · 2017-04-29T17:56:24+00:00

Something to ponder about: If you want attention from women and then doing what's necessary to get it with help from TRP (or alone) — are you really doing it for women? or are you doing it in order to fulfil your own need? You can swap women with other things, for example resources.

TunedtoPerfection · 2017-04-29T18:52:39+00:00

A call to action is great, and I do agree many men on this sub really need to take more action. Completely putting down theory discussion will cause this place to be forever stuck in that intermediate stage.

Your correct, you don't need theory if your not working out, and building a life that attracts hot women. But theory is not only great for when you have those things. But also to look at after something that utterly blows your mind happens.

Once you start to understand why the other side does what it does, you can more easily short circuit their attempts or flip them to your favor.

it's a delicate balance, but if you want to get out of the median level of things you need theory. Although jumping ahead to sprinting when your barely able to crawl will hurt you more then help.

But this is just an extension of the conversation GLO started.

How do you introduce theory and high level thinking about this subject when most men can't even follow a damn how to for more then a week? The people asking for how to will probably never use them or progress past that stage. But if you introduce them the wrong high level theories they will just sit and make excuses incorrectly citing that theory as fact.

You have to be able to consistently and effortlessly talk with women you find attractive. You need to have at least had 2 or 3 girls in a rotation. You need the sheer experience, stress, pressure, failures, etc that come with doing those things first. Theory will hurt you way more then helps without these experiences. You are still at a stage where you need to brut force the basic ideas in your head. The big one I see time and time again is a fight against AWALT. Until you fully understand what AWALT actually embodies, you don't need to find the 1 in a million stat that you think disproves it. To fully understand AWALT you need to go date all the womens... so go do that before you try and disprove something that have been proven millions of times before.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-04-29T20:14:34+00:00

I've been saying this for years now

So many approach TRP with tunnel vision

"How can I use TRP to help my situation with this one girl"

You will never succeed with that mindset

I wrote a post about it a couple weeks ago

Yumey95 · 2017-04-29T23:53:27+00:00

I'm faulty in what this post describes.

It really is as easy as: if you don't practice it you won't get better. You can't learn how to play guitar by just reading tabs and not actually playing. Maybe this is the problem though with wanting to finish something before moving on.

There is this thought that before I can practice game and talking to women, I have to reach a certain level of self-confidence through improving at everything else than game everyday. But when do you reach that day? Is it even reachable now in retrospect?

Throwawaysteve123456 · 2017-04-30T01:51:53+00:00

The one thing I've taken from TRP is to focus on yourself, and ignore all the shit you can't control. So key.

Ketogainsmongoose · 2017-04-30T01:55:35+00:00

A-Fucking-men.

As a man who has gone through several deadly bouts with oneitis, this post is spot on.

You want success with women? You want to win back "the one that got away"?

Then get the Fuck off your phone.

Change your job if you hate it.

Stop playing video games, get your ass to the gym.

Put the Fucking pizza down! Eat right, for god's sake!

Train in a MMA, something, anything!

You want to be with women so bad? Increase your SMV so much that they'd be stupid to not go for you. Simple.

So many guys lack the discipline to follow through. Forget your "goals", set up a system for success. Be like Leonardo DiCaprio in The Revenant, be relentless in your journey of self improvement.

Thanks for posting this, needed it today.

pablodiablo906 · 2017-04-30T02:28:24+00:00

Finally a post that isn't full of angry dribble. This man is correct. Just be the man you want to be and don't look to ha e your existence validated by your penis. For fucks sake who cares why the girl you're not dating yet did something or why your ex cheated on you, focus on you, be a man, have boundaries, self respect, and be a good person. The rest will follow. Also do some exercise you fucks! Lift and run.

Yumey95 · 2017-04-30T04:29:51+00:00

Is it oneitis if for fear of missing out on other girls, choosing the first one is hard? Feels like getting "locked in".

slay_it_forward · 2017-04-29T18:42:47+00:00

Agreed. The "be on your mission bro and women show up" bullshit needs to stop.

Its_Mr_Bigglesworth · 2017-04-30T16:59:27+00:00

Amazing post. For someone finally fully getting the pill down & having an "ok, what now" moment, this hit it dead on

circlhat · 2017-04-30T17:20:34+00:00

What can I do in life right now that will build me a better future? How can I build a life where I have an abundance of women to pick from?

Two different things, you can be rich, millionaire , travel, and still suck with women, it's like a kid that wants to learn guitar, than you say, live your life and guitar knowledge will come.

learning about women is a specific skill set, that doesn't require a certain lifestyle, career, muscles, or anything else , but game, but you are correct about oneitis, there is no specific advice to get a specific women, but there is advice that helps you

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