Charity case?

ScholarInRed · 2017-05-17T22:33:44+00:00

Hypergamy demands she get her best deal. If her lawyer story is true, why the fuck is she still hanging around me?

Because it's not true. If that guy was really into her, you'd never know about him, until she updated her FB status hours after she broke it off with you. It was either a shit-test or she tried flirting with him and got rejected, and hamstered aloud to you.

I've known this girl for about six months. Realizing AWALT and I'll just get anothe model of the same thing, when to next her?

ASAP. Today. You've slipped off the ball, my friend, and it's extremely difficult to get back on with the same woman. I intuit that you're a man of advanced years (correct me if I'm wrong). This will make it harder to change, but having said that we're all in existence because of a lineage of alphas going back to monkeys in trees.

Have you read all of the sidebar? Do you lift?

ransay3277 · 2017-05-17T23:15:05+00:00

I don't know your age, but if she is 56 (Probably closer to 60) her value is very low. Now to the questions... The Lawyer story is BS. Just on the facts here it makes no sense. Why would a guy worth 10 mil be after her? For the second question... Dump that B___H! You can't plate her because you spent to much on her already. She is High Maintenance and probably broke. People who are loaded don't go around chatting about it.

My two cents... Harsh but fair.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-05-17T22:32:40+00:00

https://rationalmale.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/smv_curve1.jpg

Objectively her SMV at 56 years old is as the chart predicts. (about SMV 1)

Unless you need her money I'd say find a younger girlfriend.

A 56 year old male should be able to get a 35 year old female rather easily.

I know because recently a 27 year old bartender was ready to Branch Swing with me and I'm 56 years old. Her fiance threatened to kill me. (actual story)

Word humor:

Fiance
Finance

..."finance" is for a woman spelled "fiance".

HappyScribe · 2017-05-18T00:44:49+00:00

Her constructive feedback are shit tests. Read the section on the sidebar.

she said she wanted to spend all my spare cash so I wouldn't have any money left for any other women.

This explains how she views relationships. She sees men as a resource that women tap into. It'd be interesting to know how she made her money.

[deleted] · 2017-05-18T06:44:55+00:00

Ditch her, she sounds like a gold digger. Where did she get her money? A previous husband? Fuck. That. Bitch.

Dragon_Garoo · 2017-05-18T03:28:12+00:00

Literal shit test. She may have even banged the lawyer, but he definitely isn't gonna waste his time on her. 56? Why bother. She's trying dread game on you bro.

My ex used to fish out my credit card statements and show my other GF, how much I was spending on my 3rd GF. She was livid, thinking that it was going to someone else. What did she do? Keep all her money to herself, rarely pay for living expenses, take her friends, etc., out on her dime, all whilst earning 10K a year. She wanted me broke, she figured it would reduce the number of plates I spun. Little did she realize, I won't date a girl if she's not willing to pay half, or even treat sometimes. Just no.

They want you beta, they want your cash, they want you broken so they can justify swinging to the next branch (of the ATM. lol). Then when they've wrecked your sense of self esteem and taken all your value (monetary or time, etc) they will shit talk you to others, to keep you as a viable plan B.

She learned this from her late 40's mother who loves to talk about her 'clients' (literal ho), and how wonderful they are, paying for her sex, taking her out, etc. Meanwhile, she feeds them cheap vodka in a grey goose bottle.

Women will work every angle they can. It's just how much you let them. Next when you're tired of her shit.

aanarchist · 2017-05-18T03:52:58+00:00

bro dump that whore and find a woman who's more feminine.

Thotwrecker · 2017-05-18T07:44:04+00:00

Here's the thing - at 65 and 56, you two may think that shit is different because you're both older and different rules and so on. But really, it's the same deal. She's not going to be as driven by sexual hypergamy (aka, getting a young Adonis seed up in her belly), but she will be driven by seeking a good stable provider. So that is why she is probably going to just keep you around - you're safe and reliable and because she knows she can keep enforcing this frame of "I'm the high value one, I'm the catch, you're lucky to have me", she feels confident that she can keep you in control. Some women want that - it's a good deal for them, especially when you fucking pay for their cruise where they flirt it up with lawyers.

She is trying to have her cake and eat it too. Like you said, the wall isn't real to her because she feels that she's high enough value to essentially spin you for cash and support, and keep you leashed and run mild dread game on you. Which is what she just did - that's her version of dread game, like "maybe I'll leave you for this lawyer, maybe not... ooo you got lucky this time, but you better play your cards right or next time it's Mr. 10 mil up in my ancient cunt!"

So what do you do? Let's review options

You either one up her, dread game the bitch until you shatter her self esteem, and then enforce firm boundaries, like withdraw attention completely if she nags or tries to do this shit again.

That is a lot of effort and requires you to be cold and consistent.

The easier option is to go get a better girl. She's entitled, self-centered, 56, and uses you as a provider. This is how you wind up cucked. Just forget it, send her the bill for the cruise, cancel all cards she has access to, and cut her off. If you are weak, then go extra hard and cut her off sexually too if you know your dumb ass will get roped in - I would recommend that because no offense, if you're buying the bitch cruises and letting her spend up your cash when she is richer than you already... you're not really capable of beating her at her own game. Just accept the L and move on and fuck better women next time.

BudRock56 · 2017-05-18T00:07:23+00:00

She's 56?!? Jesus Christ!! You should off pushed her old ass overboard! The fuck is wrong with you?!?

Andreas1871 · 2017-05-18T03:08:46+00:00

I think age has nothing to do with this. She can be 56 or 25, doesn't matter. It sounds like she is acting sporadically though and the bragging is a red flag.

JBrogrammer · 2017-05-18T12:57:48+00:00

Asktrp is on the sidebar.

That said:

She is making it up, no $10million lawyer is chasing after her, that's her fantasy, it's not real.

Her snarky comments? Don't tolerate it. Next time she starts it, tell her to get out and come back when she's learnt how to behave and is ready to be a good girl.

holmesjp · 2017-05-18T17:56:08+00:00

That relationship sounds like pure hell. I hate when people say "dump the bitch" from reading only a couple of paragraphs but seriously. Dump. The. Bitch.

Based on the conversations you laid out she wants you to be under her thumb and she's doing whatever she can to make that happen. Demoralizing you, embarrassing you and purposefully making you feel inferior.

Why on earth is she worth it to you? Because she fucks you? There are a lot of women out there and I doubt she's the only one who would.

I'd seriously consider jumping ship.

Conceited-Monkey · 2017-05-18T19:15:09+00:00

I think you should dump her and find a woman who is actually nice to you. If you can't find that then a good escort is likely a way better option.

[deleted] · 2017-05-18T20:41:41+00:00

Why would any man want to be some woman's charity case or pity fuck?

grewapair · 2017-05-19T05:15:30+00:00

56? SMV=0. Tell her to go chase the lawyer.

juliusstreicher · 2017-05-22T22:38:49+00:00

"In a candid moment on the same cruise, she said she wanted to spend all my spare cash so I wouldn't have any money left for any other women."

THAT is when you should have nexted her.

Title	Charity case?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	9
Comments	35
Date	May 17, 2017 10:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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