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[–][deleted] 44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your formatting needs help. Use two returns to separate new lines.
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[–]1Entropy-742 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I have what I refer to as "Me Mode". It is sort of Monk Mode Lite in that you don't totally withdraw and take shots at targets of opportunity. However, you come first and your goals/mission comes first and everyone else - male or female - has to take a number and get in line.
[–]SylarTheWolf5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This exactly... I don't see anything wrong with being social and go out in Monk Mode. If anything, it just makes it more challenging.
Plus, being completely focused in yourself, AND still going out with an IDGAF mentality will become a lifestyle if you do it right from the beginning.
[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's my default mode. I'll take or make an opportunity, but it's not my focus. I have shit to do but I'll get some social time occasionally.
[–]aanarchist1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i'm the opposite where like if i have my mind set on something people won't hear from me for a while. i've had friends who've been like bro i thought you died or something LOL. i should probably work on that tbh.
[–]1MrTheFalcon1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope someone sidebars "Me Mode". I've been Monk Mode for a couple months, but I'm open, not closed. I'm not pursuing any women, but I freely talk to anyone I meet. The strange thing I have noticed is that both men and women approach and talk to me. It's like, I guess the "monk / priest effect". I'm giving out this vibe that I don't want or need anything from anyone, and I have no agenda whatsoever. It's like an invitation for people to talk to me.
I'm actually enjoying this plus no alcohol, plus no fap. I vent angst and stress through meditation, and blow out the rest in lifting and running.
[–]prostaddict13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Let me add one thing to the lifting thing. Being an alpha isnt just about looking good, but having a leg up to your fellow men. When i only lifted, i definitely looked better. But when I added muay thai and boxing to that? I started feeling much more confident - and able to hold my ground/become healthily confrontational with others when needed. I highly recommend a combat sport to suppliment lifting
[–]Psychocist0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love to but not worth the arthritis. I'd rather do something I can do for the next 30 years and still be healthy. Krav Maga is my go-to at the moment. All the confidence without any of the gradual damage.. until somebody breaks your neck in a class :{
[–]Perrero10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, the best advice from TRP is everything regarding self growth and self improvement. I agree with your list
[–]NeoreactionSafe10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
Rigid summaries (condensed) will never give the full understanding of the Red Pill.
You missed the number one most important aspect of the Red Pill:
...and Game is a fluid mode of thought, not rigid.
You must develop this fluid mode of bending reality to your will or you are just intellectually understanding the Red Pill while missing it's most important aspect which is intuitive.
Game is played with smooth moves (fluid) not canned routines. (rigid)
[–]GuruDev10000 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Have you written on this fluidity? Can you point me to it?
[–]NeoreactionSafe7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Game is the manipulation of reality.
Basically you take a "given reality" such as say a persons present way of thinking and then apply your "spin" on their emotions so they move in the direction you want them to go.
If you want a woman to desire you then you Game them so they suddenly get the Tingles for you.
It's the core of PUA.
It's also the core of Blue Pill Mind Control and Brainwashing.
A good example right now is this "fake news" thing about Russia.
By repetition the MSM ("MainStream Media") keeps inserting the thought Fear Russia, Fear Russia into every story and the idea is to create this narrative to bring down Trump.
It's a trick... it's Game... it's Mind Control... it's Brainwashing... it's Propaganda... it's Blue Pill.
Game is using manipulation to bend the reality of a situation.
It's a magician's trick.
[–]GuruDev10000 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is there any non kabalah style you can explain further about your outlook on this?
[–]NeoreactionSafe0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You might start with "The Manipulated Man" in the sidebar.
Desktop mode to access it.
[–]aanarchist0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
you know i think another really good way to see game is being able to process information, and to be able to attach a story that is both intellectually and emotionally stimulating/satisfying for the people on the receiving end. like when you say something witty that hits a person just right, that even when they tend to be serious or whatever and they can't help but laugh out loud or whatever emotion you were going for, that's game at its finest.
[–]NeoreactionSafe1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Most definitely true.
Just being able to get into the flow of the conversation and bring out something that others are excited by or are able to laugh at.
That's all you need for Game, just steer things in ways they will go willingly.
You can't force anyone with Game they must choose to go along.
[–]aanarchist0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
there's some people though that are like, they've got that bug where they're just stuck in a negative frame and refuse to move out of it. i guess it's beta to go into another dude's frame but if you ask me the most beta shit you can do is be stuck in a shitty negative frame and refuse to move out of it when someone's showing you a better way, that's like what most blue pills do as if they want to be miserable, the programming runs that deep that they're addicted to suffering.
[–]NeoreactionSafe0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I've tried that with a friend about three to four years ago.
It just doesn't work.
They must through Free Will choose the Red Pill.
[–]aanarchist0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
it's really sad cuz like i have people in my life who've been there for me in my darkest moments in my life. what better way to pay back someone for their kindness than to give them the red pill, and they don't want it. just gotta learn to let that go but it's tough.
[–]NeoreactionSafe1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The more you wake up with the Red Pill the bigger of a gap you create.
Every old friend might have to be abandoned.
It's rough.
I've got a friend from kindergarden (50 years ago for me) and he is stuck where I was a decade or more ago. He gets angry when I push the thinking outside his comfort zone.
All you can hope is you plant seeds that grow... maybe they eventually wake up a few years later.
[–]aanarchist0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
men especially have particularly sensitive egos so you have to be very subtle in your suggestions, and frame it in a way that's like here is a new idea you might find useful rather than you are doing something wrong stop that. it's that trivium sharing mindset rather than trying to correct a child, no one really likes being treated that way.
[–]NeoreactionSafe1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The problem is whether they use the Trivium Method or not.
My friend is unknowingly a mix of satanism (material survival) mixed with high levels of fear of nonconformity. His emotions become heightened whenever his comfortable conformity is threatened.
And he (predictably) prefers the "randomness" view of reality.
Randomness is the "easy out" because that permits your emotions to cease all gathering of any evidence that might threaten randomness. Once you get close to getting the guy to connect a dot he flips out.
Randomness is a sort of religion... it requires you to deny the Trivium Method because the Trivium Method is about connecting dots.
So you get:
Trivium Stage One : Gather evidence ----> Blocked.
Trivium Stage Two : Think and connect dots ----> Blocked.
Trivium Stage Three : Summary wisdom ----> Blocked.
Essentially randomness theory jumps to Stage Three and subverts the Trivium Method entirely.
The great irony is the self imagined "skeptic" thinks he's "rational" which is a joke.
Amused Mastery is observing the Skeptic preaching randomness.
[–]Shakydrummer1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's what I've been working on as far as taking what I can from TRP - Inward focus and self accountability. It's all about maximizing your own potential as a man and really learning how to roll with the punches better than you could the day before.
[–]Alpha_Jedi1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice write up, I look forward to seeing more of your full-length posts
[–]MrAnderzon1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good post. I'm waiting to read the rest of what you promised
[–]circlhat0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Monk mode. It hasn’t been talked about lately on the main sub but I feel everyone should start their red pill journey with a solid monk mode. Don’t focus on women, don’t care about gaming them, and don’t use the internet except for work in school. Find hobbies, lift, read, and hang out with friends doing productive things. Honestly a monk mode at any point in the red pill journey is good for you.
This is blue pill advice, hey don't focus on women, or gaming just become a better person. In reality this is like saying if you want to learn guitar focus on yourself first. Women should be a very small part of your life and once you understand what attracts them it's easy.
It seems people are content on making the red pill less about perception and more about blue pill ideology building a better beta, even though the mods have stated this is not a self improvement sub, many blue /purple pills flock to this because it is acceptable by the female imperative, what female doesn't want a better beta.
There are much better subs such as bodybuilding, and male fashion that specialize in this sort of thing.
[–]TangoZulu7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are misunderstanding. Most that find TRP are broken in some way and looking for answers. The point of monk mode is to give yourself time to digest the new ideas here and recalibrate. If a former BP jumps right into gaming women, chances are good that they will simply fall back into their BP ways once they have a bit of success. Old habits die hard so monk mode is a way of separating yourself from them.
Monk mode isnt for everyone, but it's not what you claim it to be.
[–]topapito7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There is so much wrong in this comment.
The Red Pill, true redpill is to start from yourself. You absolutely have to focus on yourself to learn to play the guitar. You absolutely have to focus on yourself to do anything in life. You focus on yourself, and through yourself, you can focus on anything else.
You are the mirror that people see themselves through. If you're not absolutely spotless, they won't see anything but the spots. Concentrating on yourself first shows people that you lend weight to their needs. True Alpha.
Measuring RedPill by fuck counts is about as shallow as the bitches you're trying to fuck. The sidebar is full of advice on how to concentrate all your energy on self, the reflection of this powerful focus is what people sense and feel, and ultimately attracts them.
Pussy is a byproduct, a result rather than a main focus. Anything you focus on other than your self is time wasted on shallow non consequential bullshit that ultimately points back to an empty shell. People see this, it is the biggest red arrow to a wannabee.
[–]Dr_D1amond1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Measuring RedPill by fuck counts is about as shallow as the bitches youre trying to fuck"
Nail on the fucking head
[–]circlhat0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You study music to learn guitar and practice , you study game to learn about women
You know women graduate in psychology at higher rates than man because of you are only concern with yourself in a democracy you are bound for failure
[–]DadOnDabs[S] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most people who start here have hit rock bottom from a break up or oneitis or something like that. Most of them "just want to give a girl the world". It's better if they take time to focus on themselves first, read the sidebar, and set the building blocks of an attractive lifestyle before they dive deep into the matrix.
[–]1The_BitterTruth0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Use double spaces to get the formatting you're looking for.
[+]Andreas1871-8 points-7 points-6 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
"Your friends, family, and girls will come and go. Keep them all close but realize you are the only thing that will be around forever so you should come first." You won't be around forever either.
[–]RedFellow2125 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No shit, he is saying you're the only constant and reliable thing in your life. It's not that hard to gather that bud.
[–]Andreas1871-4 points-3 points-2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I can't tell if you are agreeing or disagreeing with me.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He's saying you're a dick for pointing that out. It was needless.
[–]Andreas1871-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope, just catching a contradiction.
[–]ManonFire63-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Monk Mode -
Secular Humanism is Luciferian. Secular Humanism takes a lot of religious language and twists it. They have created a false or artificial religion. In their religion, they hate men, Christianity, anything traditional, and you. You are the bad guys. You cannot win this fight without standing in The Truth of The Lord.
Feminists are against the Patriarchy. Christ is to man as man is to woman. (1 Corinthians 11:3) The Bible is the Patriarchy, and Christ Jesus the head Patriarch. The early church had five Patriarchs:
The Patriarch of Constantinople.
The Patriarch of Antioch.
The Patriarch of Jerusalem.
The Patriarch of Alexandria.
The Bishop of Rome.
Any female who says she is Catholic or Orthodox could not possibly be against The Patriarchy. That would mean she has false idols in her heart in the form of ideologies, or worse, she is a knowledgeable offender. She is actually a Saul Alinskey type person working to lie and deceive the Church.
In the 1960's they were fighting "The Man." The Man was a code word for the establishment. For anything traditional and righteous and good.
For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus, (1 Timothy 2:5)
Jesus Christ is The Man. Like "The Man" Aloe Blacc? The Man like "When The Man comes Around" Johnny Cash?
God is a square. A square may be someone in 1960 who dresses well, is polite and good mannered, works hard, excels in work, and in school, and general, is a great guy to have around. He may be like a Clark Kent or Superman. In the US Army, the saying is "Square yourself Away." That is, you are messed up (and possibly gross) you need to fix yourself. A Square in The Army works in particular ways.
God is a square. He works in particular ways. He is Holy and Separate from sin. He tells Israel that no one but a Levite is to touch the Ark, and someone touches said Ark who is not a Levite, that man dies.
There are Spiritual Laws. I receive cause and effect with the Spiritual. Someone else out there seems to know what they are doing to a degree. Words have power, and may have definitions in the principalities.
[–]dilzo999 points points points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
y'all act like lifting is the holy grail and it'll instantly solve all your problems.
[–]eatinrice22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
its probably the most important thing
[–]ISwallowedRP4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The most important thing is your power, your alpha-ness. Having a great body might make it easier for you, but make no mistake, as long as you are at the top of that alpha ladder, you'll slay. There are countless examples of ugly, old men having bombmshell women for wives, girlfriends because they were rich, famous, powerful.
[–]eatinrice8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fair enough. I like lifting because even just beginner gains could probably bet someone a whole lot of net worth of SMV and SMV drives everything. Its an easier way to raise your value compared to lets say moving up the economic/social ladder
[–]Dark_T100 points points points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Are you retarded? What kind of people has TRP been infested with? Go read the sidebar
Yup typical trp, just insult me and direct me to the sidebar instead of discussing. Anyone who speaks out is just instantly down voted. What would you tell a guy who's lifted for 10 years who can't get a girl and has a shit job? Lift more? Read the sidebar? Go read some more bullshit 'things that didn't happen stories' on here? What you going to tell someone who developed an eating and bdd disorder from lifting to the point where its taken over their lives? Lift more? You're an asshat.
[–]thetrpthrowaway2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go and get a therapist.
I've been lifting for roughly 4 months, I'm on meds due to depression and anxiety, and oh boy - Since I've started reading TRP, stoicism related stuff and general self-help fluff, I'm feeling my best like I haven't felt in years.
[–]Mckallidon1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
All other aspects derive from being physically fit and strong. The confidence, halo effect, etc. read sidebar.
No it doesn't, being physically fit doesn't imply you'll be more confident, and being confident doesn't imply you're physically fit. It goes much deeper than that.
[–]Mckallidon1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whatever dildo. You have it all figured out. Why don't you school the rest of us with your infinite pussy slaying wisdom.
[–]AladdinHussein1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It's the root of self improvement
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No it's not - there are plenty of swole guys hanging around Sydney that are fucking morons, shit for brains, shit for jobs, no money and no power. They can pull when they're out in the shitty parts of town but they never make any headway in the nicer parts because they can't physically afford to be in some of the nicer places.
Getting into shape is important but to say that lifting is the core of everything is bullshit - plenty of swole meatheads that get some easy lays but never really make anything of their lives, that's beta as fuck.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Just a lurker here. But really it's about the mind body and spirit. I'm not religious so I have my own interpretation for sprit but you are right. There is not enough emphasis on this sub about exercising your mind and sprint as well.
I think alot of these guys constantly talk about lifting is because it's the easiest one to achieve.
And just talking about OP. He said he swallowed the pill 8 months ago and now wants to start giving advice with his 8 months of experience and somehow making such a turn around in his life that he is able to teach the rest now. It's bullshit.
Alot of these posts are from like 17 year old kids that's don't know shit about shit and regurgitate whatever they read last week. They don't have any new information to offer. Just like this post
Not all TRP posts are like that though. But most of them are. There are a few that I saved and actually do go back to from time to time because it offers a new perspective.
Problem is that for some reason people feel the need to post the same exact information with no new perspective or different ways of trying to approach the subject and they want to make a post so all the other people subscribed to this sub can all swing off each other's nuts. It's a big circle jerk most of the time. Everything mentioned in this post for example has been mentioned repeatedly and I understand it is important however if a new person really wants to learn that's why they can search from top rated of all time. This post just like almost every other post except the one that appears in a blue moon just keeps scratching the surface of the same exact shit. That's the problem with this sub
Edit: maybe i should make my own post on TRP. Well just copy this and add some more to it
[–]DadOnDabs[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You seem to be missing the point of all of this. Yes you can search the top posts of all time and learn a lot. Fresh perspectives offer new ways to look at things to develop a better understanding of the subject. Example science. You could say science is all one big circle jerk because it is.
I agree I just scratched the surface on these because there are other posts that discuss them in detail. I will end up making full posts on these at some point but in the mean time it gives others something to look up and read into.
Solves most of them.
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Forget the drawing become a broker it is money for nothing and vacant sluts love it
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This needs to be downvoted to the shithouse.
[–]douglas4321 points points points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I studied fine arts was an "artist" became a broker (did a reverse koon's) no offence but someone with experience in both be careful about this follow your dreams shit unless it involves money. When you have enough money go be a rockstar if you want if you have not made it by 30 you are not going to unless you are 1 in a couple million, how do you like that red Pill?
[–]DadOnDabs[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Money doesn't really mean anything to me. As long as I can pay rent and have food I'm not out here to be a millionaire.
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