Long story short. Was visiting family for thanksgiving and my sister in law was in town, along with her husband and 2 kids (4 and 6, important later) everyone is having a great time but legit ALL WEEKEND she couldn’t stop talking about taking trips and new car and this and that and money money money. But along with constantly talking about money, she can’t stop mentioning how EXHAUSTED she is and how badly she needs a break from it all. Now back to the husband and kids, they are 4 and 6 now, from the time kid 1 was born she has been a STAY AT HOME MOM. Yes, raising kids is by no means easy, but neither is what her husband does. 60-70 hours weekly including commute as a construction manager. That’s for the PAST 6 YEARS since they had their first kid and she became a stay at home mom. But this thanksgiving was different, as the kids are both now in school (pre K and first grade) she has THE ENTIRE DAY TO HERSELF WITH NO RESPONSIBILITY. And only works 2 nights a week as a waitress. Meanwhile her husband is literally slaving away every single day so she can whine and complain about not having the newest Louis bag or car on the market. Just made me sick to listen her complaining to then look at him and see that look in his eyes, that “am I seriously not doing enough for her?” Look. It’s sad to read all the stories on here, but even worse to see it first hand. I’m 22 and already have such a bad taste for marriage