I am hoping that other Endorsed and senior members will post their own field reports titled "Endorsed Contributor Field Reports" if this is received well. I have no doubt you can learn a lot from real stories told by experienced guys, rather than just reading theory. I have never been much of a nightclub guy and approach is the weakest part of my game. My rapport and seduction is very good, so for me online dating is great. So I will give some basic details of the way I operate and include the story of one night. I have done this night dozens of times with only minor variations. Hopefully other Endorsed contributors who have excellent approach and are good at day and night game can post some helpful tips in a subsequent post/ Field report.

Here is a story from my dating exploits. I have a great deal of success online. There have been some great posts in the past about how to do a good online profile so I wont repeat. I am older but I prefer women in their early 20s. I see a cute profile of a 23 year old, exotic looking HB8 so I flip her a message, it is the standard message I send to 90% of the girls I contact online - "Nice pics, tell me something you are passionate about". I have played around with other messages but this one seems to work the most for me, so I stick to it. She messages back that day with "Hey, I am passionate about helping people". I message back my standard second response - "Cool, if you promise me you are not a serial killer, I will message you my number". Nearly always after this message the next message I get is "LOL, here is my number __"

I generally have no problem organising 1-2 dates every week. I get plenty of messages in my inboxes and I send plenty of messages out. I use a few different websites. I always organise the same date, Friday or Saturday night, at one of a few nice cocktails bars I like. I have two rules, firstly, I always sit next to her, never opposite, so a bar with stools or a lounge is compulsory. Second, I am more than happy to buy a few drinks, but no food before sex (unless I get hungry, in which case she gets to come along, I never organise a dinner date before sex). I always escalate very quickly, the idea is to have sex that night, which is why I pick Friday and Saturday nights. Rapid escalation is also good to weed out timewasting girls who are not DTF. I always have my logistics worked out as well. Make sure my place is clean, have red wine, coffee and some cheese at home. Go somewhere close to my place (or hers, sometimes they will want to meet near their place, this is always good).

So this girl turns up on time and sits next to me on the lounge "Hi, I'm Melanie" she looks great, she has dressed up, she knows how to dress, she is wearing red (this is always a good sign), she looks even better than in her photos (now I think she is a HB9). I look her up and down without smiling, but making it obvious I am looking. I say "I'm getting a bottle of sparkling wine, do you drink?". As soon as she sits down I lock eye contact, put my hand on her knee and say, "Nice to meet a girl who knows how to dress herself", she smiles and says thankyou, she makes no move to remove my hand, her eyes are inviting. I leave my hand there and continue. "So tell me about you darling?" (I call all girls darling and sweetheart, it reminds me of the way my Dad spoke to women, and that way I don't forget her name). "Well I'm studying to be a doctor, I go to Harvard."

"Wow an Ivy leaguer I say, your parents must be rich". She says "yeah, they have always been on me to make something of myself, Dad wants me to be a dr". We chat, I never smile too much and I always keep tight eye contact. The talk is easy and I am enjoying her company. An hour and half later we have finished the bottle, she is smarter than most people, not as cheeky as most girls but she is lacking in confidence. I keep up the kino, touching her face, grabbing her shoulder, run my finger through her hair. Keep solid eye contact. I keep the information about me sparing, and let her talk a lot about herself. I am my usual cocky self, I tease a little on some of her stories. She throws out a few very minor shit tests about my age, how bold I am, being a player, which I either ignore or agree and amplify. I say "let's go for a walk, it's a nice night".

We leave and walk for about ten minutes. I hold her hand, when I squeeze her hand gently, she squeezes back, I already know I am in tonight. We find a bench near the water and sit down to talk some more. After a bit more chit chat I start to look more intensely at her, like she is prey, I move my hand higher onto her upper thigh. She says "OMG you're touching my leg a bit high!" I say "yeah" lean in and kiss her, just lightly at first, she kisses gently back. I break off the brief kiss and then resume talking, my hand stays in place. She says, "I really like you, is there some place we can go?" I say sure, my apartment is only a short cab ride from here. She says "You have to know that there will be no sex, maybe just some cuddles".

For any of you who have never had the "I am not having sex with you" line, it is the biggest tell in the book. I give her my standard "of course not, do you really think I am that easy". We make out in the taxi. When we get back to mine, I turn on the lights, not a word is spoken, she heads straight to the bathroom. I hear the tap running, I know she is cleaning her pussy (if she goes to the bathroom to clean her pussy you know she wants you to go down on her - be a gentleman and do that first). I sit down on the lounge and turn on some music. 5 minutes later she walks out in a red g-string and bra. She sits down next to me, I lean in and kiss her while grabbing one of her big perfect tits, fade to fireplace.