So there was this thread on Red Pill Women where she is dreading being seen as not attractive by her alpha boyfriend. The way she describes herself sounds quite attractive, but when she asks him what he likes about her, he says intelligence, and it is driving her hamster so hard she posts on reddit about it looking for social support saying she's considered dumping him for a lower SMV man so she can feel better about herself.

And I thought to myself, most women's self esteem is tied to their physical beauty. Especially women who put a lot of effort into their physical appearance Re: Hot girls. So what if you double down like this chicks boyfriend on only ever telling these attractive women that you only like them for their brains/personality. You're actively complimenting them, they can't complain - it's a socially acceptable response (it puts you in some kind of moral limelight as well for not being seen as shallow), but you're not giving them the satisfaction they're looking for of hearing that they're beautiful. They will constantly dread (like the woman who authored the link) that they are not attractive enough despite you COMPLIMENTING THEM. You're just not complimenting them in the way they want to be complimented. They could be extremely attractive, but you will never admit that's why you're drawn to them - because then you're just like every other guy and she gets the validation she wants.

HB9: "Honey why are you attracted to me "

Redpiller: "I'm attracted to your sense of humor."

HB9: "What about physically?"

Redpiller: "I don't know babe, I've just always been drawn to you more for your personality, you know that."

I am definitely going to be fiddling with this.