TL;DR you can have a great thing going but the moment you reveal what you’re dealing with she will fade in a matter of seconds

Been at the TRP lifestyle going on 3 years. First two years in a LTR (this LTR experience lead me here) and one year single. Finally getting to the physical self I want since I split up with her, better looking women hit on me yada yada yada.

Anywho I’ve been vetting this girl for a bit who I may LTR eventually but still seeing other women. She has her shit together and makes good choices from what I can see. She buys me meals, treats me to shit and brags about me, her friends I’ve met confirmed this.

Recently my father had a huge medical emergency that could have been fatal, I was scared shitless for him. During that medical crisis I wasn’t a wreck but some other shit about him came to light that had me thrown off my game. Here’s where I fucked up.

She asked me how I was doing with the situation and I said a little too much. I didn’t get emotional but I let my guard down and told her how I was really feeling. My god the look on her face and the tone of her voice changed so drastically. She stopped calling me babe and I could tell she was wanting out of the conversation. That was during the day. We had plans to meet up and watch football that night and magically “something came up” and she couldn’t go.

Since then I know my armor took a beating and I had lost a lot of value. She reached out the next day and she asked me about it and I just said everything’s fine and didn’t touch on it anymore. She didn’t pry because well let’s be honest, she doesn’t give a fuck. She’s slowly coming back around but I know the damage is done.

Moral is, you need to vent hit up your homies and get it out and talk it through. Since TRP I have been pretty solid at keeping my emotions at bay but this situation got me worked up and got her turned off.