EDIT: I know most of you guys are saying in the comments oneitis is when you’ve been with a girl and you can’t let go after she has dumped you. I’m talking more about getting oneitis when you see a girl you’ve never met before and you think she’s the one, and as a result you start acting all weird, freeze up, head over heels type of deal. If that applies to you, read on!
Hi guys!
I recently looked up how to get over oneitis, and I didn’t really see any posts in this sub that I felt really helped getting over that “falling in love” feeling you get when you see an attractive woman. You can work out, look good, get a haircut, etc but you can still be weak in front of attractive women! To get over oneitis is all mentality!
So today, I’m going to help you new redpill guys out with this, and share what mentally worked for me! May not work for everyone, just letting you guys know. Hopefully this can work for you and should actually be a fun process for you guys! No effort needed!
NOTE: This method is just one of many methods and is not going to be a one all wonder. I suggest also improving other aspects of your life, reading sidebar, reading material from this sub and books. It’s the combination of everything that really makes a difference. Think of what I’m presenting just icing on the cake or a different perspective on passing through oneitis. Anyways back to this post!
Getting over oneitis is not a quick process so do have patience with this. This can take anywhere from 1 – 3 months for you to naturally get over your crazy attraction towards attractive women. (That’s how long it took me).
So the way I got over oneitis was by adding hot models, attractive females on snapchat and watching their daily stories, and really understanding what their day to day life was. THAT’S IT!
In the beginning, my god, was I hooked, spending every second of my life seeing what these girls were up to. You could say I fell in love and beat my meat every other night. In a sense I was a loser, letting these women dictate my life (which women find unattractive). Ironic!
BUT the funny thing is, just like a new game, or a new toy, etc, it starts to naturally get old. And yes this will happen to very attractive women aswell. THIS IS KEY!! You will get sick and tired of listening, watching all of them. Your body will get used to the the over stimulus of attractive women. Once you do, that’s how you know you have overcome!
More detail:
After 3-4 weeks my brain started picking up on how these women were not actually interesting and boring for the most part, their personalities kind of sucked. They all did the same thing. Here are some things you will see in common:
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selfies everyday - selfie with friends (heavy filter usage),
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duck face,
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showing off their bodies,
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showing their dog/cat,
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partying on weekends
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Making her orbiters make weird faces or showing their non caring boyfriends
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No depth, talking about things that don’t matter
The most important thing you will realize, while watching, is how being in a relationship with these girls would actually be short lived and lame. From watching, your brain will start to associate these attractive woman as turn offs instead of turn ons. You will realize how personality is IMPORTANT! This will help you realize that there are a lot of attractive woman out there, and that you should have an abundance mentality.
Don’t worry, you won’t lose your normal biological attraction, but you will definitely be done with watching these girls snaps on a daily basis, after the 2-3 month mark. And for those who think you’ll get PED, it’s not going to happen, Porn is way worse than looking at clothed models on snapchat. When I mean I beat my meat I was doing it mentally with their picture in my mind.
Anyways I want you guys who suffer from oneitis to follow all these hot ass girls on snapchat to get idea and visuals to accompany with what I’ve said. (I will update list and add the remaining, I couldn’t add them all at once):
Snapchat usernames: angel_long Adriaraexxx rebellefleurxx alessasavagexxx alexgrey18 alixlynx amandacerny misslhommedieu amenavarre9 nekoblah amynicolem82 ana_montanaa anabellepync anny_aurora asaholeakira princessmdma beckiejoon lizabellab3 bretiesi cassasslive cheriedevillexx christymack cgcofficial onedaisymarie suckingallthed danitamayo11 daveneynicole demirosemawby emmysdiary evanotty gatorrbaitt hooters iambridgetteb jadeinwondrland hello_janey jaydenicole2 jenselter thejessejane jessica_james missjuliakelly juli.anneeee kaylani_lei khloeterae kimkardashian kindly0083 kylizzlemynizzl thekrisondra leannecrow88 leeannstar lindseypelas lisawhite95 lizzyacosta madisonivysnaps mjonez_23 belnmel meltmemeow msbadgirlblue nicole benzmafia iamnikkiphoenix theabbycross baddiessbitches raynaxo6 sashaj.rated tattedupcaligir tabygarneata tawnyjordan misstealconrad toochi420 realtrinityxxx
I want you guys to go through the motion and watch these girls, get hooked, and then naturally fall out! Have fun! And please don’t buy their membership programs, waste of time!
So where am I (the writer of this post) with all this, and what you can expect?
Short answer: I’m over these girls.
Long answer: I’m still attracted to these girls from a biological standpoint (being a heterosexual male) but other than that I could care less. I treat these attractive girls as the same way I treat an average girl. I don’t care too much.
When I see attractive girls in person (gyms, clubs, malls, etc) I don’t “fall in love” anymore. I can now look at them from an objective point of view and really ask myself if being with one of these girls is going to build me up or waste my time and tear me down? I run my own business, so from a business standpoint I have to ask will investing in one these hot chicks help me?
Answer: most likely NO
Do I want to fuck em? HELL YEAH! But then what, that’s it.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not using this as an excuse to not approach the women I want to be with. I actually HAVE TO approach for the sake of finding out their personalities. But the difference is that I’m in charge, and she’s the one being tested to be apart of my life. Which is how it should be. Maintain your frame!
If I’m at the club, I’ll approach with confidence (knowing that I’m most likely doing better things with my life than she is with hers) and dance with them and have my short term fun with these chicks (as you should), but I wouldn’t pursue an LTR with MOST of them.
Last thing, once you are done with this, know that not all attractive girls are boring and lame. There are always exceptions! Some have great personalities that can be great for LTR! So do not completely generalize, all I’m wanting for you guys is to be AWARE of your surroundings, and QUICKLY analyze each situation differently! It’s not black and white. However, personality matters regardless of how average or hot she is!
Take away: Personality, personality, personality, and a bit of looks!
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