My ex wife got herself a boyfriend and....

ConstantChinner · 2019-03-20T03:33:06+00:00

Makes me sick that men still have to pay alimony.

Im_Talking · 2019-03-20T03:37:55+00:00

Make it so the kids want to stay with you, mate.

Spezzit · 2019-03-20T05:03:06+00:00

Delete this post until it's a done deal. Don't jinx it, bruh.

lone_nordic_wolf · 2019-03-20T03:31:35+00:00

Long game. Document, document, document!

FutureSquall · 2019-03-20T06:02:50+00:00

She got herself a simp and no longer wants her own children around so she can fuck around with this guy. Document everything.

QuantumSanta · 2019-03-20T03:39:15+00:00

> Maybe he’ll marry her and I’ll be free from alimony as well? Is that hoping for too much?

We are rooting for you pal. Encourage the relationship, and make him feel welcome !

The sooner you get out of all those payments, the happier you will be. I know this much, the day my payments stopped, I went and celebrated big time.

Lostyogi · 2019-03-20T07:17:50+00:00

I know a few guys who got full custody after the mother got a boyfriend. Kids really get in the way of all the sex and fun they want to have and if the boyfriend is not really into kids then sometimes the kids get shuffled off to dad........In the past I've thought of creating a charity where we get male models to date divorced narcissistic women and convince them to give the kids to the dad. I think it would work a good chunk of time and any fee we charge would end up cheaper than family courts.

Tonyb33 · 2019-03-20T07:33:23+00:00

Like the poor fool who took over my ex wife. I came back from working offshore and popped around to my ex to see my kids. I picked up on a card my ex had been hinting to her new bf that he had better propose otherwise I might snatch her back (like that was going to happen). He duly proposed. The poor sap now works long hours 6 days a week. On his day off he looks after his heavily mentally retarded child from his prior marriage. He smokes 40 cigarettes a day but is not allowed to smoke in the house. She doesn’t take him on holiday as he is too busy. In the evenings he works on the house I bought her. She has had five kitchens over the last 13 years he has had to have his kneecaps replaced (he is a plumber and he had worn them out). I worry that the poor sod will drop dead shortly he is only 55 I cannot see him making retirement.

Starchman · 2019-03-20T10:09:38+00:00

I have full 100% custody of my son and my ex ~~has~~ too pay child support. She doesn't ever pay it but every tax year I get her entire tax refund. Usually 4K to 5K which is nice. Not to mention she constantly gets in trouble for not paying it, like loosing her license and what not, but you will find women tend to get away with being dead beats for a long long time.

Good luck my friend!

Gibits · 2019-03-20T06:00:41+00:00

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oliver_21 · 2019-03-20T03:56:27+00:00

Got your back bro! ALL THE FUCKING WAY!

ALL THE BEST!

divorce33 · 2019-03-20T07:29:38+00:00

Getting with a single mother is always doomed to failure. Hey, at least the simp might get red pilled. We'll see him on the other side.

Yashugan00 · 2019-03-20T07:19:43+00:00

so unfair you have to pay alimony

Jonlife · 2019-03-20T08:50:41+00:00

Jesus, this simp's Punch drunk love will determine your freedom over the family court ruling. What a tangled web we weave

U-94 · 2019-03-20T10:08:14+00:00

If money wasn't involved, I often wonder what gender would fight for custody more. Every single mom I know treat their children like impediments to their fun. I hate children so I get that but it seems here most men want their progeny. Eh.

Vegasus88 · 2019-03-20T07:03:12+00:00

Let us pray the simp gets as much pussy as she can grind out.

EconomistMagazine · 2019-03-20T10:20:27+00:00

In most states having majority custody doesn't remove the obligation for child support by the way. Maybe your place is different though. Make sure you lawyer up before changing terms.

AverageLedditor · 2019-03-20T06:47:32+00:00

wait what youre country has a law that you dont need to pay alimony if you have primary custody?

my guy, ive seen guys here pay upwards of 2k while having 80%

Mideanon · 2019-03-20T06:47:49+00:00

Good luck

strangerthing7 · 2019-03-20T09:20:40+00:00

Good news

truthserum23 · 2019-03-20T10:56:01+00:00

Don't seem too eager, though you may be. I know I would. Since, AWALT, she probably prefers you be unhappy vs happy, so she may reconsider if she notices this request doesn't bring you down.

Sandbagicus · 2019-03-20T13:06:25+00:00

BTW, at least here in GA, "primary custody" means that, by law, the other secondary parent MUST pay child support.

Source: I get $500/month!

2019-03-20T14:03:25+00:00

Get full custody and then hit that bitch up for child support!

212th_batallion · 2019-03-20T10:09:13+00:00

Please give us an update if you know more...

AvailableGuava · 2019-03-20T12:05:29+00:00

Even with primary custody id be shocked if you don't have to still pay her if you're making good coin and she's not

jimjames1967 · 2019-03-20T12:37:17+00:00

Is it weird that I'm rooting for both of you? I want you with your kids and keeping your money, but I also don't want simp boy walking head-first into vagina dentada.

2019-03-20T13:37:47+00:00

I don't believe in God, but I do hope your wish will come true.

turtlearther · 2019-03-20T06:57:45+00:00

Hoping marriage on an unsuspecting man is some evil shit.

turtlearther · 2019-03-20T06:59:25+00:00

Like honestly what the fuck? I just read all the comments. Y'all are supporting this shit? So marriage is ok if it fucks over any other man except you? Isn't that how we got the current judicial system? This is some cancerous shit.

Saint_DoSin · 2019-03-20T12:16:16+00:00

Ur ex wona drop off having the kids the moment she got her hooks another man's wallet.. Much for actually loving her kids, so sad.

Much love man and good luck with ur end game. I am praying for allah to aid ya.

Malactha · 2019-03-20T13:29:26+00:00

Congratulations. Good luck brother.

a17c81a3 · 2019-03-20T13:31:47+00:00

Good luck mate!

Fyodor007 · 2019-03-20T14:25:20+00:00

Congrats buddy!

Similar thing happened to me 6 years ago. Ex called me, new guy didn't like the dog and asked if I wanted her. 6 years later and she's asleep on my lap as I write this. Best call I ever got.

MuleFool42 · 2019-03-20T14:39:24+00:00

Crossing fingers. Good luck!

2019-03-20T15:00:38+00:00

He'll never marry her as long as she's getting alimony unless they're both morons.

As for the custody, document everything and move to modify child support and custody after a few months.

teslaistheshit · 2019-03-20T15:50:50+00:00

He's not marrying her until the alimony is over. She knows the game. Good luck.

xevolverx · 2019-03-20T16:18:00+00:00

I understand but I still hate the idea of sacrificing another man in order to be free.

2019-03-20T16:30:09+00:00

I'm filled with envy. Congrats at the possible change.

Severian_99 · 2019-03-20T17:14:50+00:00

This is vey good news, I escaped alimony the moment my ex wife moved in with her new boyfriend, he then married her about two years after, the day he moved in I had a big drink to celebrate, I realised I was free, started planning all thee things I was going to do with the extra money I would save. Be thankful that she has found a guy, you are very fortunate as you will soon be far more free, and she will be another guys headache.

2019-03-20T19:50:27+00:00

Can't have the kids getting in the way of Chad and vacations and such

irishluckk · 2019-03-21T03:13:28+00:00

Also means you get to raise your kids right

wowitskapow · 2019-03-21T03:39:25+00:00

Don’t celebrate for long bro. I imagine it’s still possible she could resue and try to take the kids back.

HereWeGoAgainTJ · 2019-03-21T10:02:45+00:00

Godspeed OP. We're rootin' for ya!

Title	My ex wife got herself a boyfriend and....
Author	Gibits
Upvotes	638
Comments	119
Date	March 20, 2019 3:28 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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