This TedX talk by Mandy Lee Catron brilliantly captures how and why women want to feel the full range of emotions in a relationship with a man.

They want to feel miserable, irrational, furious, devastated, crazy - because those feelings legitimise in their minds the thought that they must be in love with the object of their desire.

Moreover, neurochemically, romantic love and mental illness are not dissimilar. It can lead to obsessive thinking about someone (Oneitis), for example. Love is literally addiction, and the neurochemical results of a breakup are similar to that of cocaine withdrawal.

So, love can make someone feel really unhappy. But women think that being unhappy or miserable about someone proves that she must be in love with her man, and that must mean that eventually they will be together. They believe in notions such as romantic destiny!

They feel this way because they are taught to feel that by literature, films, music, and it is all around us in our culture. We/they are literally bombarded by it every waking second. But men also succumb to these ridiculous notions and become Blue Pilled.

What does this mean for me, in the light of reading TRP? Well ..

  • Don't pedestalise. She doesn't want to be treated nicely all the time, even if she says she does. She wants to feel the pain of love, even if she says she doesn't.
  • If you want to keep a LTR you have to be unpredictable; romantic and nice some of the time, and a bit of a prick at other times. She needs to feel subordinated to your decisions, even if she says she wants equality.
  • She wants to be rewarded for good behaviours, which means you should let her do stuff like paying for you, buying and making you gifts, sending you love letters, and you need to reward her for those things with passionate romantic sex - because that is what she expects from a real man.

If you do these things I am sure your girl will let you fuck her endlessly, in every conceivable position, and will never say no to an opportunity to have your hard cock inside her pussy or mouth. In fact, she will be demanding that you let her suck you off because it will make her feel subordinated to your sexual power, and that is what she really wants for herself to feel safe, secure, wanted, desired, and loved.

I hope this is useful. Watch the film from the perspective of understanding Red Pill philosophy and it all falls into place.