TLDR: Thought that I had been applying every RP principle that I know with great success on a girl that I like. I later come to understand that I have unknowingly failed a range of shit tests and that I in her eyes is an unfuckable beta. In other words, there is still work to be done on altering my core mindset.

I thought I would share this story with you guys since it is so easy to think you have full control and are doing the right things, while actually you haven't fully internalized the RP mentality and still cater to your beta core. This is an example of this misconception.

So there is this girl I like. She is energetic and playful, and I have become really attracted to her. Luckily, she appeared just in time earlier this year for me to adopt the pill so I could test it out on her. Passing shit tests left and right, keeping eye contact, kino, play fighting, dancing, teasing with a sexual vibe, charming tone, yeah I got it all in there. She seemed to like me, we had a really good time. She kept the teasing and the shit tests coming, showing an obvious attraction. This was until we one day went on a trip to the Beach With a friend of mine.

Sitting Down on the Beach listening to some Music and talking, she was being all nice to me. I sensed something was wrong when she started giving me compliments. She is never this nice to me, and we never give compliments to each other. It's something we joke about (A result of another RP practice on my part). After a while she starts to talk about some guys that she likes, classic shit test, and I answer with ignoring her. She blabbers along, and then says something in the lines of "...Oh, he's such a dick" about one of the guys she likes. That is what she usually calls me, a dick, so I turn to her with a smile and say "I think I should get to meet these fellow dicks one day". And that's when she says it: "Oh no, he is not a dick like you are, he is like a true dick. You are more of a cuddly-dick". I didn't think much about it then and there , but a couple of days later I started reflecting upon it.

She was being really nice to me, giving minimal amounts of shit tests, and did not think of me as a "true" attractive dick. I must have gone wrong somewhere. Some hours of RP Reading later, I realize that even though I thought I had been doing the right thing, behaving according to the pill, and gotten good results, I don't know shit yet. Even though I have passed pretty much every simple, verbal shit tests as it came, I failed the more complex ones.

The first fail I realized I have done is doing shit for her. I cringe at this mistake because I know it is wrong. I usually dismiss her and keep frame when she asks me about absurd things like carrying shit for her and so forth. But many times that fucking beta shines through and talks you into doing shit anyway. It goes like this:Her: "Get me that *ThingThatSheDoesNotActuallyNeed*"RP part of my brain: Wtf, shit test, I ain't getting shit for you, bitch.Beta part of my brain: But you are right next to it, she is all the way across the room, this is not a shit test, this is common coutesy. Comon! Do it!Me: *Gives her the thing* "Ok, here, happy?"

This was just one expample, but she has run this test over and over in many different disguises. I'm sure many of you recognize this. Lesson identified: If she asks you to do something: SAY NO. You are NOT her bitch, she should be yours.

Another test I failed is one on the dance floor when we were dancing together. She suddenly starts to dance in a sexual manner with multiple other guys on the dance floor who of course gets all over her. I let it shake my frame and drag her out of there. She then literally says (drukenly) "I could have any guy I want". Me: "You don't have to prove it, all of those guys are hungry wolfes". Shit-test failed on so many levels. Cringe.Lesson identified: Abundance mentality. ALWAYS.

The last major test I realized I failed was after a fight we had once. I was out having a beer With the guys and suddenly she appears With some friends of hers. I want to hang out with the guys this evening, but when I tell her she should leave she goes nuclear. I still try to make her leave, but as some of the guys were about to leave the venue, I end up being with her. In fear of having to bring the fight back up again the day after, I tell her apologetically: "You know I'm a great guy". Answer: "Yeah, but you were not so great tonight". Frame shattered. Shit test failed.Lesson identified: Outcome Independece. Be ruthless. Do not care about how she feels. Personally I find this to be one of the hardest of the shit tests to persevere.

Today I am still respected on her part, but have slipped into the friendzone, largely because I failed these tests. I have come to the conclusion that she is no longer worth pursuing and will find a new girl, surely being more successful with the shit tests next time.Hopefully you guys can relate to these experiences and learn something from them as well. I think it is great to sometimes just stop to reflect and analyze what you have done wrong and what you need to improve. I initially thought that shit tests was exclusively conversational, accusations and so on, but girls actually "rig" scenarios where you have to act in the correct manner to pass. I find it so fascinating that they manage to do all this automatically and subconciously.Keep your guard up guys, I certainly will from now on