I go to an outdoor bar, sit down next to this random guy and his girl at a table. After about 25 minutes of convo with them, I stole her right in front of him and he didn't even know it (until later). We were having a good time, her ioi's were basically straight off the checklist, I was telling a few stories and already had a somewhat interesting night talking to some other drunk thot just prior. Then the guy (bless his heart) offers to buy me a drink. I told him I would get them back at the next place, because I was already verbally making plans for "their" night. The host has been hijacked. As soon as this guy gets up to go to the bar, she whips out her phone and says "This might seem forward but can I have your number?" Straight to the fuckin point, if I was only sitting a little closer I might as well have went for a stealth makeout. Making mental note!
We down our drinks and I drag them off to the next spot, one of my favorite places. A loud and dark dancefloor. She's like 22 so I already know she's going to have a good time. I hold up my end of the bargain and buy them drinks. Halfway done, even in the dark I can tell the guy was starting to see what was happening. He was being kind of distant and awkward, while all her attention was on me. Then, hearts were broken: she goes in for the grind.
I was pretty much in at this point, but then I hear a loud glass break: it was this guy's fucking frame. He pussed out completely and walked out. This was BIGLY BAD for him, but not for the reasons you might think. After he storms out, she kinda had to go with him. I finish my drink and walk out to meet up with my friend who actually came out with me that night but was off in the corner on his fucking phone the whole time with his "girlfriend" from work he's been fucking for only a month and he's already getting owned by her shit tests. Don't shit where you eat.
So I texted her shortly after they left to see what was up, she immediately hit me back and said she wants to hang out soon and indicated the guy is being annoying, translation: committed frame suicide. It's funny, he was a very good looking guy and we got along fine when we chatted, but he just didn't have the charisma. It was no longer his show, he was there at her pleasure and she found something better, his poor heart! Remember what I said earlier about his frame? His frame break was worse than if he were the actual boyfriend, but I found out that he's not her boyfriend! She straight out told me he's just a fuck buddy. Totally discarded this guy like a used condom. You know what that means? This guy shit his diaper over a thot and went full retard. He's a walking dildo, a fucking gimp who publicly displayed his broken heart for a whore. I bet in his own mind, he thought they were on a date or something, like he was going to make her change her ways with enough good guy antics. The benefit of being older and genuinely not caring is realizing how badly he fucked up and really ruined his own night (and "future" with her), I might have done that in my younger BP days.
Anyway, I texted her again yesterday to nail down a meetup on Friday. She is moving out to her own place on the same day, I could move the meetup to the next day but I just want to see how badly she wants it. There is no fuck close to this story (yet) so I can't offer specific advice, but please learn from this other guy's mistakes. I know how easy it is to get some pussy and then think you can spike the ball in the endzone & go to Disneyland, but the game never stops.
Notes:
If another guy is present, move in closer when the opportunity presents itself
Always be "the show", especially if YOU are the fuck buddy, otherwise she will swing the minute you look away
If for whatever reason "your girl" openly gets with another guy, the worst thing you could ever do is walk away with your tail tucked in. You don't need to get into a fist fight. At least go dance with another girl, don't be the guy having his period on the dance floor. You can prevent all this by having a frame that isn't shit.
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