Women want the finished product. To rail against this is to be angry because your dog can't fly.

Journey? You fell out of your mom with stubble and a six pack.

You were born this way. And you hardly go to the gym, you can eat whatever you want. Good genetics, great metabolism.

Anything else is exposing your magic as cheap parlour tricks.

StfU. Never pull back the Curtain.

Women are like flowers.They grow, attain beauty, then wither away. Can't do much with a flower, it's potential is innate and finite. From seed to compost, they take in the resources necessary to exist. You get what you get.

Men are like rusty chunks of steel. Not much innate, but infinite potential, greatness is there if you know how to forge the raw material into something of value. From lump of ore to a damascus blade... but you need to be heated and hammered and bent over and heated and hammered again and again without breaking.

Women want a pretty blade, they're not interested in the process to make one.

Sure, eventually the blade cracks and wears down, to be discarded in the trash like any tool that's lost its' utility. The point is men have constant external stressors that forge them into the man they are, whether a horseshoe, destined to be stepped on and dragged through shit until ending up in a ditch, or a 20 fold katana with an artful hamon.

Here's a neat little experiment.... women drive cars, right?

How many women know... how does a four stroke engine cycle work? What's rack and pinion steering? What is Ackermann geometry and why is it so important? Why do some cars require higher octane? What's a heim joint? A CV joint? How much blinker fluid is in the average car? Does it flash faster or slower when it gets too low?

As a man, we love to pull back the curtain and see the backstage sets, understand the layout and the script tempo, meet the stoner puppeteers. Hear the director's commentary.

We love getting under the hood. Getting greasy, dirty. Fascinated in the process, the layout, the shift forks.

How many women mechanics you know?

Women want the world to work for them on the front end.... The purpose for having a puppet show is to entertain them... They don't want the backstage pass, in fact that breaks their experience a little.

Women want to be able to get in a car, turn the key, and go. The purpose of a car is to serve them. No interest in the thousands of parts and systems working to keep her alive as she rolls down the road at 80mph.

See how women only want the finished product for their own benefit?

Yes, yes, these are generalities... I'm sure you can find a mechanicgurrl or a guy who doesn't care about cars. We talk in expansive generalities, of course you can find outliers.

Does nothing to disprove the original argument.

A flower can't exist in a forge.

They want to see the blade, not how it was made.

Never pull back the curtain.