"I'm a lawyer but not a divorce lawyer.

My sister in law is mid-divorcing my brother after 30+ years of marriage. She's met someone else, so far so normal. It happens, right?

The thing that's destroyed him is her emptying their son's savings account which my parents (very far from well off) have paid into once a month for years. That's his uni fund wiped out. I don't know about fucking over your spouse but it's the one betrayal my brother can't come to terms with."

after 30 years of marriage, 30 YEARS, she meets someone and decides to fuck over her son and her husband. I'm sure she would be bad mouthing him to all her friends "he didnt treat me right" only to receive the usual "you go girl!" while her "family" is left in shambles