I know I’m going to get shit on for this but just thought I’d share the story. I clearly don’t understand how to act with women yet. Sorry for making this so long. I know I got played.

This girl I met on Bumble started talking to me. I said I was open to possibly dating. So she says we should go to a restaurant and get Froyo after. But she also expected me to pay for all of it, which would be like $60. I explained that since I barely knew her that I wasn’t comfortable spending all that money.

So she called me cheap and that I was supposed to be the one paying. I also didn’t think she was hot enough to do so. The next night she asks me to tea but said I needed to buy hers. I didn’t really care about that since it was like $5. She also said that me and her friends should chill at my place. I figured why not.

So next night she asks me if I wanted to get tea again. But this time she said that she’s bringing her friends along with her. I had to make sure I wasn’t paying for all them. So I meet her and friends to walk to get tea instead. I only met them because I’m open minded and like the chance to meet new people, especially girls. It was also Friday and I had nothing else to do.

Immediately I felt this weird vibe that they had some negative perception of me. When we were walking there I felt kind of out of place since I was the only guy and they were talking between themselves. I notice the one girl is giving weird vibes, not seeming too interested in me. But one of her friends was pretty nice and I talked to her the most that night.

So we head back to my place, I’m unsure why. We’re chilling in my room, I show them my cool wall lights and play music for them. They are just sitting in my room and eating my food. The one friends seems like the only one interested in getting to know me, as she kept asking me about myself. I almost felt like asking her number right then and there.

After doing some quick stalking I realize she has a one year relationship with some guy and lose interest. After talking they try to get me to order a pizza. I’m hesitant saying they should help pay me. But it took too long to make so we didn’t. Eventually they all leave. I message the one girl I knew if we would chill again. She said probably not, because “I’m boring and don’t talk much”.

I’m not sure why this made me so irritated but I started getting angry at her for saying that, since I brought them over and got her a drink. I don’t have much to do in my room. The funny thing is that she was a lot uglier in person and I knew when I saw her that I wouldn’t ever date her. But I was still annoyed. Eventually she unfollowed me from every social outlet.

I guess my question after all this is how do I be less boring and more fun around people? I notice other guys, probably extroverts, who talk way more than I do at a much louder volume. But I just can’t entertain people like that. I’m not going to lie I barely do anything outside of school so maybe I am boring to people.