Hi everyone. I swallowed the pill two years ago. I dedicated 2017 to hardcore monk mode, while 2018 has been my first year really applying game and plate spinning theory. Over the course of the year I fucked 20 girls, plating half of them, bringing my n-count to 40. I had ups and down, dry spells, broken plates and so on, but right now I'm currently in the most abundant state of mind regarding sex. I never had so many options at hand.

I wasn't particularly thinking about an LTR, but I recently met a girl who I think would be worth a shot. If you read the post about green flags on this sub, she almost have all of them. Ideally I would plate her, but she's not down for it. I've seen her once a week for the pas month, and the last time she initiated The Talk. I was honest about the fact that I was seeing other girls, but said I could also envision something more serious with her, even if it would take me some time.

I have two questions :

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- Obviously, you should never enter a LTR with a scarcity mindset. Since I am in an abundant mindset, it should then be the ideal condition. However, I'm still not sure if it would be really worth the sacrifice. Real dilemma. How did you guys cope with it?

- One month is too short to know a girl enough and become exclusive with her. Ideally, she should stay a plate for a few months before I upgrade her. However, would a real LTR-worthy girl accept to be a plate ? I don't think so. The slut who easily accept to be a part of my rotation, I would never LTR any of them. There seem to be some kind of paradox here. How do you deal with that ?