A DailyMail article on the differences of men in women in the context of infidelity.

I found an article riddled with RP truths. Its so filled with them I honestly thought someone in the community wrote it while pretending to be a woman... Nope... Its pretty long but the entire thing is a fucking gold mine. Article Link

According to Dr David Holmes, a psychologist at Manchester Metropolitan University, women are having more affairs than ever - recent studies say the figure is around 20 per cent for men and a bit over 15 per cent for women - but they behave very differently from men when they cheat. 'The biggest difference is that women are much better at keeping their affairs secret,' he says. 'If you look at the studies into paternity, even conservative figures show that between eight and 15 per cent of children haven't been fathered by the man who thinks he's the biological parent.' That's a lot of women keeping a lot of secrets.

So women are better liars and a pretty large percentage of men are raising kids that aren’t theirs.

One woman I know - let's call her Juliet - has been married to Adrian for ten years, and having an affair with Mark for the past two. She has told me and her sister - otherwise, she says, she's '100 per cent certain' that nobody else knows. 'I won't allow Mark to call me on my mobile or email me, ever. Mobiles and email leave a trail. I insist we talk on our office landlines, and when we meet for drinks or dinner, we pay with cash. 'We work in the same field, so meeting for lunch doesn't look suspicious. If we meet in the evening, I tell Adrian I'm with my sister, and meet Mark a few miles away, where we won't bump into anyone.'

Absolutely wonderful. Look at the tone here. Cold as fuck about betraying her husband. Talks about it with pride instead of shame. Don’t trust these hoes.

Does she feel guilty about the affair? 'Not so long as Adrian doesn't find out. You know the 11th commandment: don't get caught.'

Do I need to spell this one out for you?

We lie so much that often we don't even think of it as lying at all, but as 'relationship management'

And this is the absolute most important look into the female mind. As men we cant even imagine that level of cognitive dissonance and rationalizing but women can. They don’t even view this as betraying their husband.

Why do women lie? Because we must, and because we can. In spite of apparent equality and a more sexually open society, we are still more harshly judged for our sex lives than men.

Remember the whole rationalizing thing. Its ok for women to lie because womenz.

But we also lie naturally and instinctively, as a way to manage and control our relationships, to protect our partners and our families, and to keep our options open. In fact, we lie so much and for so many reasons that often we don't even think of it as lying at all, but as 'relationship management'.

At least she admits it.

Many women also develop a habit of secrecy about smaller issues in their relationship as a way of maintaining some kind of control.

Shes telling you not to trust her. I honestly don’t need to type this shit out.

'My mother always used to say that you should never tell a man everything,' says Clare, 38, 'and I thought it was rubbish. I believed in total honesty. 'But now I agree with her. Why explain yourself over every little thing? Why have a huge row over something he needn't even know about? I never tell him about my girlfriends' secrets, because he'd be judgmental and disapproving. Women are better liars because they're more psychologically sophisticated

Women are better at lying because they have no sense of honor, shame, and trust. "Something he doesn’t need to know about" she says. Fellas please be sure you’re not getting cucked.

'You can argue about whether it's nature or nurture, but women are programmed to be much more relationship and people oriented than men.

This is a very simple truth.

'Emotionally, they make plans and have strategies, while men are more impulsive.' From a young age, he says, women will start to consider the kind of life they want, what kind of job or house they aspire to, how many children they'd like and what kind of partner. 'Most men don't really develop that facility until they're much older. They live, psychologically, in the moment, while women think around corners and two steps ahead.'

See the way women developed that plan at an early age? I almost admire it. Its crazy to think they started playing the game to get what they want at such a young age.

We're also better at mental multi-tasking. 'You can keep all the different strands of a lie in your minds, remember them and make them convincing.'

She will suck his dick scream she loves him then come home and tell you she loves you. She wont leave a trail and there will be no guilt.

Women are much more cool and rational, even when they're in the grip of passion. 'It's a myth that they're more romantic. They may confide in one or two very close women friends, but they compartmentalize their emotional lives and don't let the affair bleed into the rest of their lives.'

Hamster, Cognitive dissonance, etc. But notice they admit that men are the romantics. Hierarchy of love.

Like Farrah Fawcett, a former colleague of mine, Susan, now 50, had a long-term affair with Brian, a salesman she met, ironically enough, when she was buying her husband a car as a surprise 40th birthday present. 'I was clear from the start that I'd never leave my husband and family. Brian kept me sane during some of the tougher years of my marriage, but he was strictly for snatched afternoons off and the odd "working weekend" away,' she says.

Again with no shame. She needed it to get through the rough years

Susan adds: 'We made each other laugh and our sex life was wonderful. But Brian was a permanent "man-child" - a great lover, but not the kind of man you'd marry.

Don’t be the kind of guy she marries. The safe beta. A shoulder to cry on. Be the fun “man child”.

The affair ended amicably after eight years, with her husband none the wiser. Cheating is never pretty, but lying about it doesn't necessarily make it worse. Often, our lies are meant to shield our partners and families from pain. We tell ourselves that if nobody knows, nobody gets hurt.

Damn that's some strong rationalizing. Its OK to lie because I'm not hurting anyone’s feelings.

Dr Holmes says: 'Often, women keep the secret because they're much more conscious of how much there is to lose, and to protect the other people involved. If she has children, she'll be especially careful that they aren't hurt in any way by the knowledge of what she's doing.' If you asked unfaithful men if they think their wives or girlfriends have had affairs, too, they will be shocked at the very thought

Beta on the side while fucking Chad is the goal. Dual mating strategy at work guys.

Like my friend Juliet, who has become so good at lying to her husband that she surprises even herself. 'Adrian and I have drifted apart, but he's a nice man, a good father. He doesn't deserve to be hurt, and I have no intention of letting my son grow up without his father.'

Its all about her. Fuck how that man being cheated on may feel about it.

In purely evolutionary terms, men are programmed to sleep with lots of women, and women are programmed to attract and retain a quality mate.

Be honest did one of you guys write this part?

Dr Holmes adds: 'She will be very canny and keep her options open until she decides which of the men she is going to choose.' Another reason women lie more about their affairs is simply that they can get away with it. Historically, a man has put a higher value on the fidelity of his woman because he needs to be sure that any children she has are really his. This seems to produce a strange kind of emotional blindness in many men, once they've selected a partner to settle down with.

Branch swinging, cucking, and calling us blind when really we just have a sense of right and wrong.

In other words, men want to think women don't cheat, and women want men to think they don't cheat. No wonder we're better at secret affairs.

Let that sink in.

Lessons learned...

Don’t trust em

Don’t get married

They have dual mating strategie and will do what it takes to keep their lifestyle.