How many of you have noticed the effect of age (The Wall) on girls/women?

WN5h · 2013-07-24T00:32:10+00:00

I've noticed the wall come WAY faster too. Especially when they have kids.

browndelicious · 2013-07-24T05:16:31+00:00

I'm 29 and still know most of the women I knew at age 16 and earlier. Yes the wall is real, very real. Using my extremely anecdotal evidence, only about 15% of them haven't smashed into the wall head on at this point, and that is due to quality of life, genetics and diet. Most women eat what the fuck they want and never exercise because let's face it, there's lots of fat people in the world. They see nothing wrong with turning into their mothers and use orbiting beta's as rationalization that hitting the wall is natural and O.K. The ones that haven't hit the wall come from a long line of beauty and have slender mothers, they have learned to value either diet and exercise or both.

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2013-07-23T22:45:22+00:00

I'm still young, but I have a friend who is 26 and she moans constantly about how she can't "find a guy". Funny, since I've seen her taking a guy to her place every time our friends go on a night out. Not sure if this counts or not though.

That made me laugh.

The wall has everything to do with:

Biological clock. It's ticking. Fertile years are running out.
Youth. It's fading.
Biology in the body is changing. Changing the way you think and operate.

ChaoticParadox · 2013-07-24T01:21:30+00:00

I'm 25, I'm starting to see early signs of panic in my 26-27 year old female friends. A LOT of women pushing their partners for marriage proposals and starting to complain about not getting as much attention.

A lot of the less desirable ones, and similarly all the beta un-coupled males that I knew towards the end of uni all had what I call ubiquity panic syndrome, where they have all realised that they have 3 months of university left and they have found no partner/long term bf/gf. At this point, they all start hooking up and pairing off with whatever they are willing to settle for during these 3 months, as they realise there will never be a better opportunity to be among so many eligible people of their own age. Funnily enough, all the engineers that went 3 years with hardly any sex are starting to bag half decent looking girls that have been riding a different cock every other week during uni.

There is one particularly interesting friend of mine who I've had some history with, she's definitely been hopping on and off cocks since she was about 19. She's 25 now and has fucked loads of guys, but after getting pumped and dumped routinely, is now starting on the "that's behind me I'm going to settle down" routine. Having her around has been good, as I've been aware of all her behaviour for the last 10+ years and can slowly watch her change into wall fodder.

cma6250 · 2013-07-23T22:47:09+00:00

I see this all the time. It seems to start at between 26 and 29, but the panic doesn't seem to set in until they hit 30-32, depending on how hot the girl is to begin with.

I know a woman who hit the wall at about 25 due to obesity. Now she's 33 and can't get a date to save her life. I know another who's 32, but who's stayed in shape; she starting to realize that she's hit the wall, and seems to have laid of the carousel for the most part to focus on finding a mate... Through internet dating............... Let's just say she gets attention, but not the type of attention she wants.

Another who's 27 who is in a relationship she's not haaaappeeeeey in, so she's trying to monkey branch to some other dude while she can. Dunno if she's cheated, but I would bet a dollar that she cheated with the last prospect she had, who then rejected her.

And on it goes.

The women I know who are about to hit the wall and who realize it start changing their behavior from fucking-around-and-riding-the-carousel-mode to I'm-gonna-try-to-get-me-the-hottest-guy-I-can-while-I-have-a-few-total-betas-on-backburner-in-case-I-fail-mode.

The one's who have hit the wall and failed to land a suitable mate are getting cats. Or killing themselves slowly by eating too much and working themselves to death.

Actually, I know a bipolar 35 y/o 4 (and that's being kind) who has ridden the carousel and who's now trapped a total beta who's about a 4 himself. If he gets his shit together, she'll have scored a jackpot relative to what she could've gotten. Which isn't much, but hey, beggars can't be choosers.

SystemHalifax · 2013-07-24T00:37:07+00:00

What would the chances be of getting a girl to settle down when she can actually have kids?

nicethingyoucanthave · 2013-07-24T02:18:56+00:00

Here's a song about it

2013-07-23T22:47:33+00:00

Worrying about losing her looks
Worrying about a decrease in attention from men
Worrying about seeing her friends and siblings getting married and having children while she remains single
Worrying about how she will have time to meet a man, get married, and have children while pursuing her career

It becomes much more obvious when they are close to turning 30.

kjax67 · 2013-07-24T01:59:29+00:00

Huh?

Just check out profiles of "women" online, aging from 30+. 'Nuf said. The Wall is not difficult to understand. (OKC/POF)

vengefully_yours · 2013-07-24T02:46:16+00:00

I am 44, and have seen it quite a lot. They get desperate, then they get bitter. Right now my wife is going through this shit, thinking a 24 year old kid can make her younger than 31, and more attractive. Sure thing there darlin, but how about you pick one that has a future, isnt a hardcore desperate beta/omega, and doesnt live with his parents?

She did this because she is afraid of getting old, and a few other things where I fell down on the job. Its all insecurities, and they get desperate when they hit 30. It happens again when they hit 40 and 50 too.

2013-07-24T03:59:51+00:00

If you look closely, you can see the signs of aging in a girl when she is 23. Wrinkles around the eyes and mouth, their body is not as 'tight' and their tits and ass start to sag. A lot of this is due to personal choices such as fucking horrible dieting (jesus fucking christ, 20 year old women literally are shoving garbage into their stomach) and bad/lack of fitness routine. Another thing that I consider a factor of the wall is a woman's personality.

They have an enormous change of attitude whebnthey realize they are not able to get dicked as often as usual. Regardless of how old they are or what they look like, their shift in attitude is a tell tale sign of where they are at in their inevitable journey to the wall.

2013-07-24T07:12:22+00:00

I have female friends around 32 who are basically more and more desperate about finding a good man, and even getting desperate about sex like 16 years old insecure guys do because even that they are getting less and less. On the second part, I think that ballooning waistline has a lot to do with it, perhaps up to 38 or so more than age does.

2013-07-24T01:30:42+00:00

One of the things I have noticed is girls who "never want children" all of a sudden want children. I think something must click inside them that makes them subconsciously realise they are about to fail doing the one thing that they (and we too, but our situation's different) were put here to do.

James_Coook · 2013-07-24T00:16:06+00:00

I have seen it firsthand. Most of the chicks in my elementary school class have hit the wall hard. I see their post-wall versions on FB daily Either they are a fucking land whale or they are just look weird now. Some are cute but they are not as hot as I remember them being when I was young. Some have become quite bitter with age and have defriended me for saying anything remotely critical about them.

Rampaging_Bunny · 2013-07-24T03:12:09+00:00

I'm 33. One thing I've noticed recently is that of all the female friends around my own age I've ever had, the only ones I'm still hanging out with are the Asian ones. All the white ones have vanished at some point along the way, getting married or into long term relationships or otherwise disappearing from the social scene. All the white girls I hang out with are in their twenties.

But I still have some 33 year old female Asian friends, because... well, Asian women don't hit the wall until much later, so a 33 year old Asian woman has a lot more in common with a 33 year old white dude, whereas a 33 year old white woman lives in a totally different universe, having either already settled or being desperate to settle immediately.

I think I'll marry a 33 year old Asian woman. When I'm 45.

IllimitableMan · 2013-07-24T00:41:43+00:00

Do men have a wall?

2013-07-24T14:28:19+00:00

New to this place, I kind of like it. Some women can put it off for a long time, esp. if they don't have kids. In NYC there are entire professional industries built on these women: hedge fund and pharma sales. Just a bunch of fit and decked out single women who flirt with overworked fathers into closing deals. Can't be too young because these guys are highly educated and don't want to feel like pedos (they probably have young kids), so they prefer maturity coupled with preserved beauty. I met a smoking hot girl two weeks ago at a bar, 1/4 Irish, 3/4 Thai. She looked, no joke, 28. Actually she was 45. Obviously that includes a ton of working out, no kids, careful diet, professional make-up, and maybe some nip/tuck. She had a boyfriend in every major city and just flew around the world on their dime.

2013-07-24T05:13:18+00:00

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steelonyx · 2013-07-24T09:40:13+00:00

Sorry for hijacking the post but what happens to women when they do hit the wall?

Or rather what do they do when that moment comes?

How does she overcome the wall?

Thanks for any replies.

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