TL;DR She is willing to have sex after seeing my car.
Like any good Saturday morning, waking up with morning wood and refreshed from last night's workout after a good 9 hours of sleep, I check my tinder to see who I'll be seeing today. We'll call her "S".
I had matched with S that week, she gave me her number and I had yet to contact her. Messaged on Whatsapp, told her I'm going to give her a call (Thanks Omaha, calling really does raise attraction more than texting I've found), and set up a meetup at a cafe not too far from either of us.
I drive over, she's late, so I order some coffee and browse through my tinder in case she flakes. She ends up showing up. 6-7/10 looks wise, but has an exotic feel to her.
Date goes alright, we have coffee, talk a bit, escalate to kissing, some heavy making out, etc. She suggests we go for a walk or go somewhere else, but to be quite honest, she's not quite up to standard in the looks department for anything more than a quick fuck, so walking around with her, seeing the sights was not quite an appealing idea.
I suggest we go to a motel. Of course, her Anti Slut defense kicks in immediately, though I figured I had a decent chance granted my SMV was significantly higher than hers. I go a bit cold, suggest it again, she tells me she's just not very comfortable with the idea (but I can tell she's still invested in making the day work). After more making out, and a third attempt, I just tell her I'll drop her off at her place.
She accepts. Now, I drive a Porsche Cayenne, and when I came out of the parking lot, things immediately changed. She got in and tried to act normal, but I could tell it made a difference. Short way towards her place (she lives with roommates) and me still acting uninterested (I did kind of lose some interest), she placed her hand on my thigh suggestively. Needless to say I didn't ask and drove instead to a nearby motel for a round of fun and that's the end of the story.
Being good looking and having game is important. I could have prolonged the day, switched to 2-3 more locations, and turned that night easily into sex that she was comfortable with (if I thought it was worth the effort. But pictures lie, and sometimes you'll end up with landwhales, other times with girls who are just "fuckable", but nothing more).
Lesson Learned: Women want sex with high SMV men. But it's not always enough to be good looking and have game. The higher your SMV, the less effort you have to put in, and the more she will be willing to sacrifice morals and go out of her way to please you.
Being good looking and knowing game could have gotten me laid the same day, if I spent a few hours with her first. Add to that a nice car (showing economic success) and my SMV is high enough to have sex right after a quick coffee. If on the other hand I was an A list celebrity, well, I could probably skip the coffee and start my tinder conversation with "I'm in need of a blowjob".
So raise your SMV any way you can, it's an investment that pays dividends in terms of time and effort for getting laid.
Extra: Other facts had their part too, but this is mostly how I presented myself. Me suggesting taking her home for example is a principle of abundance mentality and makes her feel like she's losing something (me, the prize).
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