Hey guys.

Atm Im in the midst of a depressive slouch, so take what I say with a grain of salt.

But I really feel that the need for sex is really the single reason why I date women. I thought about my previous relationship, and although I did find my ex fun, I have a hard time imagining investing time with her if sex wasnt part of it. In the end it crashed because I felt she didnt contribute, and I wasnt into her sexually anymore(it felt rubbish when I knew we disagreed on so many things).

Ive tried to go out and meet chicks, and I had a romp where I met a new girl and hooked up every weekend. However, most of them where mentally ill, didnt work out and where clinically obese, the sex was terrible and the effort to get there immense. I just cant motivate the time and effort it takes to get laid.

Anyone else come to the same conclusion?