I'm currently working a stupid backpacker job and living on a farm camp with about 25 other people. Among these people are 3 girls only, and only one is somewhat attractive. I'm friends with everyone but I don't really participate in their activities, or their "parties" which consist of playing drinking games in the kitchen while playing shitty music then going to bed at midnight.

So this girl, let's call her C, just never pays attention to me. It's alright because I'm not trying to get her attention. Every guy is trying to get in her pants so I leave them the cake, she's not worth it. But on the other hand I can tell that she perceives me as some kind of loser, and a loner who doesn't know how to have fun. Not to mention I don't have a car, so I'm pretty much condemned to follow other people whenever they go buy food or whatever that implies leaving the camp, making me look sheepish.

Last weekend, we all decided it was time to have some real fun so as a group of 10 we hit the road towards Sydney for a day and night of wild clubbing. For once that's my jam so I tagged along. I lived in Sydney for 4 months so I know a shit ton of people there. I invited a lot of people to catch up with. So we arrived around noon, and went to the beach. I had organised a bbq at the beach with my own people, and we were about 15. I introduced both groups and I could already tell that they were surprised that I knew this many people and was doing some "cool" stuff that they had no info about. A few hours later we go to a rooftop afternoon party in north Sydney, with them and a few of the people from the bbq. I call a dealer mate of mine because everyone is looking for pills, and we meet in front. He asks me to pick a few people because he can get us inside for free without having to go through the queue as well. Once again everyone is like "how the hell do you know all this people" and I can tell that C is quite confused as well. We get inside and I meet some chicks that I didn't know would be there, and they're super happy to see me (and high) so they literally jump me and all kiss me playfully. Fast forward, we go to the night part of the party which is somewhere else, and the same shit happens. I kind of ditch them for most of the time and have my fun on my side. I'm also a very good dancer and a party animal, something they were totally unaware of.

Anyway, next day we drive back and take the day off, and the whole day, C is sitting next to me and trying to chat with me, asking me questions and generally showing IOI's. Today back to work, she purposefully went to work in the row next to mine and spent the whole morning talking about her sex life and asking me about mine. She wanted to know which of the girls she saw in Sydney I banged etc etc.

Later today she saw me texting, and she came beside me and playfully asked "who are you texting?". I just ignored her and she said "stay faithful to me baby" while winking.

So yeah, I haven't changed the way I acted with her at all, I look exactly the same, I didn't game her, and barely talked to her the whole weekend and I went from completely invisible to C to now being the crux of her desire. Shows how valuable their perception of your status is to women.