Finding another way to change myself for the better
TlDR;while I go to the gym, fashion, game etc still isn’t enoughIk going to get surgery
I’m, 5 foot three inches tall (which is very short), I have a receding hairline, an ugly face, I’m not really complaining about my situation but no body understands the struggle of being extremely unattractive grants you. From my experience and from backed up evidence, Game isn’t going to work if the girl can’t stand looking at you or being around you.
Wearing nice clothes isn’t going to work when you get told that you make the brand look bad because you are ugly as shit. Having a cool hobby doesn’t mean shit because whenever the ugly guy had that hobby it’s “nerdy” or “lame”, your life is ruled by your looks but money and status can come close, however they aren’t substitutes for that.
I’m going to try to improve my looks other than the gym, and skincare (I already do both)
All hope isn’t lost though I’m planning to make a lot of money for I can can get 1 essential surgery that is critical to my success and below I will show why.
That Surgery is called limb/leg lengthening and basically you pay a surgeon to shatter either your tibia or femur into two separate parts, install a rod and over the course of a few months you can grow a few inches with a maximum of 6-7 inches. I plan to do 5 inches which will drastically improve my dating pool. Since I am only 5’3 as of now, only 6% of women are willing to date 5’4 men and below.
If I am potentially 5’8, that will drastically improve my dating pool to 50% of women.
My goal isn’t to become tall, just become as average height as possible
I can do other things as well like laser surgery for my acne that won’t happen away despite my medication but that will come second and I will likely be getting a hair transplant for my nw4 hairline as well (I also have a bad skull shape)
Wish me luck guys
And of course if anyone gets salty at the way I want to do things now and blames all of my problems on my behavior, just know that your behavior doesn’t matter if the first place if no one wants to get to know you in the first place once they laid eyes on you.
This is my own personal advice that I’m giving myself and I want to come back and read this every day to remind myself, looking good is the path to success and you can come close to it with money (you can buy looks though) and status but nothing can truly replace that.
I know a lot of people will disagree on what I plan to do and yadda yadda yah “surgeries don’t work!” But how you like to be 5’3, have a receding hairline, a protruding forehead and small chin. You don’t really have any options to get over these issues besides surgeries, I already read the sidebar front and back, left to right, up and down and it doesn’t do shit because there is a minimum physical attraction requirement between you and women for game to even work in the first place.
Yes this is going to be quite painful and set me back a minimum of 100k however I’ve been living in unimaginable pain for my entire life from isolation caused by my looks. This imho is much better than just getting hookers because atleast surgeries will change something about me and make me more attractive.
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