This still bugs me because it doesn't make sense. And the times where it'd happen, the girls were hot too, so it barely makes sense because it's like just by existing, they were reactive to me. Zero effort put into frame control ,or any of that shit when this happened in the past and I was pretty needy too. That said, I was pretty involved, I hit the gym and played sports, I was getting good grades, and I was involved in the party scene a bit. But at certain points, that value couldn't have been known by each of the girls. Now, I'm not getting as many opportunities to be in large groups repeatedly, and I also haven't been cold approaching lately, so it's been dry at this point. But it's happened not once, not twice, but multiple times in the past. So then now I'm confused.

Anyways, I get the mindset that "I'm enough" and that this should be frame that I'm operating in, but it bugs me how it doesn't seem to make logical sense. Because it takes so much more effort through cold approach to get someone who's lower SMV, and then there's these high SMV chicks just popping out of nowhere who are completely down. And it's not like there's money or anything to entice them. The old logic I can find in it is that during those times I was so focused on a task and doing my own thing, that I was basically in not give a fuck mode. Maybe there's also personality compatibility in there.

Like I remember being in a basketball game and this chick and her friend coming during half-time, and I literally straight up ignored them. It's harsh, but that's how dedicated I was to the game. And she was still down for some reason. But at the same time, at that point in time, I had way worse mannerisms, I was socially aids af and super unaware, and I was super shy. I'm still baffled by it to this day because anything I'd say... they'd follow. Like I'm not proud of how I acted, but I would straight up say some fuck-shit and they would be giggling. I was kind of sociopath-like when I was younger so maybe that's an aspect of it. Anyways, I'm just confused about it.