Ladies, have you told your SOs that you that you read RPW/consume this media?How, why or why not?

lovemylilfamily · 2020-04-20T19:33:51+00:00

I’ve told my husband about it and showed him the subreddit. Then we made the big mistake of looking at MarriedRedPill together. We thought it would be like RPW but with both men and women posting. My husband decided then and there that he didn’t want to apply any red pill ideals to his life, but he supports me being active on RPW.

DoctorNini · 2020-04-21T11:36:53+00:00

This is a side account. When he noticed I was following RP subs on my main, he cried until he threw up.

2020-04-20T21:16:13+00:00

He knows I'm active on this sub. I tell him about different debates and we have our own discussions. I'm not worried he'll start reading TRP, because he's generally disgusted by it.

We have traditonal and conservative values and this is one of the few traditional female spaces I can find. I don't, personally, claim terms like Red Pill Woman or Captain. They sound too much like some kind of role play to me.

Zakdoekjeleggen · 2020-04-21T09:44:55+00:00

Lol, he knew before this sub was even created. Strategy? This is sorcery and he likes it.

DunboyCastleInTheSky · 2020-04-21T13:48:53+00:00

Did not tell him about RPW or any of the traditional dating advice that I’ve been consuming or implementing.

He does enjoy all of the benefits from it though. He’s said multiple times that he likes how much I care about him, loves the different things I do for him, and that I make him feel like a man/special.

healthyelegant · 2020-04-20T19:58:51+00:00

My husband knows I view this subreddit, but he doesn't personally believe in following this philosophy, even though we have been following it for years unknowingly. He doesn't like to put labels on things. When I do the strategies advised on this sub, I don't point it out to my husband, but I do smile to myself knowing I'm making our relationship stronger because of it.

DoctorNini · 2020-04-21T13:52:41+00:00

He knows I am active here, and is active in MRP himself. He sometimes gets frustrated with that sub though, as there are many men who are in such a different position (either because of a terrible marriage with a feminist wife or because they are focussed on cheating and plates) that it doesn’t seem helpful. We discuss RP ideas and how they apply to our family.

2020-04-21T22:55:57+00:00

I've been reading this content for years. He knows and appreciates it. He has read a little bit of the men's stuff but thinks the men's forum is full of a lot of immature guys he doesn't want to be associated with. We discuss the concepts and dynamics pretty openly though. He says my consumption of these materials is likely part of why we made it to the altar through all of our early challenges.

HangOutHaveFunHookUp · 2020-04-20T20:06:58+00:00

Most men are not RP, nor are they open to seeing the code in the matrix. A RP man will appreciate you wanting to learn this info, but will be cautious to ensure you aren’t using it as a way to slip under the radar (he should vet your long term behavior for consistency just like you should his.)

Title	Ladies, have you told your SOs that you that you read RPW/consume this media?How, why or why not?
Author	ebitdankk
Upvotes	11
Comments	34
Date	April 20, 2020 7:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/g4yxls/ladies_have_you_told_your_sos_that_you_that_you/
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