I have an LTR who only chases her own needs. She will put it above everyone and anyone else including me. It's her behaviour. My issue is related to this but indirectly.

She choses to kick back with her best friend (male), because they've been friends for ages. She'll choose him all the damn time, and will never initiate anything with me unless I force it.

The problem is that I feel rejected constantly, and this rejection eats away at my self esteem. What do I do?