Being outside the top 20% of men

Aposematicly · 2020-05-24T22:37:46+00:00

I am tall and a Dr, but after being through the mill of divorce/child custody, it has helped me realise, I can work part time and not be driven to mindless consumerism. There is a great wealth transfer tsunami going on, and MGTOW are riding the waves like champs!

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-05-24T23:06:14+00:00

I'm a 80-er as well. I'm using that to my advantage as much as possible and actually use my simp knowledge to the max to keep women away from me.

kayfab · 2020-05-24T23:11:50+00:00

i am tall and muscular even at 48 i been training for 35y, in my younger years i got a lot of women and some where pretty hot, the end result is the same.... lucky i never got married, but today i am and stay single no kids....

Any which way you look at it, a women even if you are good lucking or below average or else will never bring you happiness after all at 48 ya think i would wanna date an old high school hottie that is now fat obese single mom with full wrinkled face.... nah i will pass

blacktortoise69 · 2020-05-25T00:46:47+00:00

Bro I think the 10%ers get red pulled faster than the guys that don't get as much attention.

When famous and rich men cannot keep a woman, what chance does the average man have? When women I consider 9s have slept with me on the first night, why would I follow suit and marry one like all my simp friends did? No, I don't think I will. Why pay for this? They all put out quickly. If they aren't they just aren't for you because they want you to think they are "good" for marriage(they think you're a beta simp).

I am not signing up for financial and emotional ruin. It is a ticking time bomb. I'd doesn't hurt when you accept it.

riitguy · 2020-05-25T01:09:55+00:00

Two words: Jay. Cutler.

Cultural_Area · 2020-05-25T02:17:42+00:00

Top 20%? It's like top 5% now.

boltjamison · 2020-05-25T03:05:47+00:00

I think being in the top percentage of men can be a blessing and a curse. Being extremely attractive (even as a man) makes a life easy mode. Not as much for men obviously but u do get some perks. If u are attractive, people are always nice and pleasant around u. Ur popular thus making it easy to network and make money and connections etc. People want to be around good looking people.

The con to this is, people will want to be around u. People suck.

bieberblows · 2020-05-25T02:03:23+00:00

Women have broken my heart. I avoid them as much as possible. I have been getting metoo'd since I was 4 years old. Yes I said 4 years old. Women only knew me to whine to me ,want something, or be their "gay boyfriend ". I'm not gay but what I meant is I become her emotional tampon. I was never good enough to be boyfriend material.

At my age, the women are hitting the wall and looking to settle down. Oh hell no. I got my own place, life, money, and earned everything by myself.

Let the Chads and Tyrones have them.

mgtowmale · 2020-05-25T03:29:33+00:00

I'm 5'5 my man, and struggled for many years feeling... like I'd never measure up. (Puns!)

I have come to believe that significant part of maturity is realizing that no matter what you've been fucked over in some way shape or form, or had a bad hand dealt to you... and you have to accept that as your origin point, and it's up to YOU to make your life story from it.

It went from feeling like I was hard done by... to being happy that I had some gripes about my height, about my family being poor, about my sheltered childhood, about my old social anxieties... they were opportunities for me to be courageous, to face my fears, to overcome greater obstacles than some others would have had to overcome, to feel like I've achieved something.

You give me a bad situation, I'll give you a way to see it as a positive (anything short of your whole family being tortured and murdered, I guess). It is a great, great life skill.

tanakamarape · 2020-05-24T23:44:29+00:00

Despite being 6'1, you have really lifted me up and made me more content with who I am! Thanks for posting this!

slutslyainstud · 2020-05-24T22:43:09+00:00

Good looks and female approval only determine WHEN not IF one awakens.

DangZagnut · 2020-05-24T22:46:48+00:00

I've never thought of myself in the top 20% of men, if anything, I consistently rate myself at the bottom 10%, and a -1 on the SMV scale.

And it never bothered me for some reason. And it never seemed to prevent me from having lovers.

There's no jealousy nor hate, much the same way I don't "hate" or am jealous of billionaires.

Frankly I don't understand why people get so bent out of shape over it. You don't get to fuck the perfect 10? Oh well. These days you can purchase about any type of girl you want, so I never saw a reason to get into a tizzy about some woman giving a shit about wanting me without paying for it, as if you're not paying for it in someway no matter how you look. This is wear incels go off the track.

I just went into a sexual niche. I may be dog ugly, but I'm big and scary dog ugly, so I leaned into it, and went the BDSM route, where being big and scary isn't viewed as "bad" compared to the pretty people on magazine covers.

And plenty of women like big and scary looking. Bikers get laid, punks get laid, scary men get laid. It is what it is. So that's the way I went.

I accepted my "lot" in life without a problem. I never wanted marriage as a child, and that hasn't changed. I instead went out to seek my fortune, found it, then went on to be happy. Pussy was always a side dish, nothing to consider part of life's main meal.

Focusing on pussy is how you undo everything you every did, and ever will do, as you said. You could end up with that high end unicorn that you don't realize, until years later, was a soul sucker of your dreams and you accomplished nothing but being far and balding in a cubicle somewhere.

You can't go back in time. Be rich and successful, and you can buy all the young virgins you want if that's your thing. I've been around enough of the world to know their parents will outright sell them to you if you don't mind being a slimy piece of shit.

The problem, is when you use a girl to validate your self-worth. No one gives a shit. Some guy with a hot wife is meaningless to me, because her personality could be the shittiest in the world and personality matters far more than looks.

Porn is full of looks. Guy's hot girlfriends are posing and acting for my benefit. Sounds like he has the problem, not me. My money goes to important charities like bourbon distillers and bartenders.

Being ugly or romantically unsuccessful or socially awkward means little. A life of adventure and fun is a better return on investment. Stop focusing on being an extroverted center-on-attention if that's not your thing. And just don't worry about it.

You're trying to fit a square peg in a round hole drummed up by the media to sell a fantasy.

All that other shit is just to impress some pussy, with the hope it impresses some other guys so you feel validated, who are most likely douchebags. And you'll end up one too.

BoogersAndSugar · 2020-05-25T00:57:54+00:00

Better to be single than swindled into a loveless marriage with some whore who settled.

Cfaraway · 2020-05-25T02:15:31+00:00

Well said, dude. But don't just accept it, use the opportunity! There's an entire universe out there in front of you, waiting for you to experience, and the poor guys in the trap will never even know it's there. Go for it!

ro_gtow · 2020-05-25T06:40:59+00:00

Yeah I always got ghosted when dating or another stupid excuse. After a while I realized I just was less handsome than other options they had. My only option to secure a woman is to go beta bucks, be a human dildo for tinder women who ghost me, or to go to escorts. No thanks to those options. Sex is not even worth it. Women are overrated... plenty of stuff to learn and discover in this world.

ProcedurallyCreated · 2020-05-25T01:48:08+00:00

Humans only question the hypothesis when the outcome is worse than the one they predicted.

R3dd1tSuux · 2020-05-25T07:11:51+00:00

Well-said.

This is a very insightful, philosophical video on the bane of being an 'alpha male.' Incredibly well-reasoned:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jrIlGmeAtS8

The entire channel is an intellectual tour-de-force of MGTOW philosophy.

Proof-System · 2020-05-25T12:33:47+00:00

I'll take being in the top 20% for wealth and health anytime. And both are well within your power.

Frankbond123bond · 2020-05-25T13:58:38+00:00

I feel the same way. Very happy with where I sit and what I know now.

3adbx0256kvac · 2020-05-27T19:41:17+00:00

Why do you care? I stopped caring long ago, I maybe average-looking. Times have changed. Things were different 20 years ago, when I was young. No Facebook, no Tinder, no Instagram in the very early 2000s. I think online-dating is to blame. Women have become so picky in 2020, even if they're ugly as fuck.I'm 40 now, so only single mom leftovers (yuck) "ready to settle down" or total psychos. I'm not the bailout guy.

The plan: - Financial stability - acquire wealth ( work hard, save money) - fulfilling dreams (travel, making music) - work out, be healthy - activities with friends

AWALT. Fuck what they want, doesn't matter to me.

Title	Being outside the top 20% of men
Author	TrooperRage
Upvotes	94
Comments	35
Date	May 24, 2020 10:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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