Are You an Invisible Woman Just Because You're Over The Age Of 40?

SylvestorTalone · 2020-06-04T05:24:29+00:00

Oh boo hoo, some women are learning what it's like to be a man below the 90th percentile of attractiveness.

It's amazing how when a fate befalls a woman that is just the norm for men, it's some kind of big deal.

evergreen35 · 2020-06-04T07:20:12+00:00

Post Wall lady discovers what it feels like to be male... but instead of developing compassion for others, she just complains.

Women can't even gain wisdom from their experiences: They just become Karens when they finally get a red light after a lifetime of green lights.

The self-centeredness of females has no limits.

vesuvius_1_02 · 2020-06-04T04:33:48+00:00

This is the most unreliable, unrealistic and unbelievable load of bunk I've heard in a long time. To think that you aged, packed on pounds and all around just let yourself go. And the way to be seen? Smile eye-contact and compliment? Oh that has "The Secret" written all over it. Put out into the universe what you wish to receive. That's woman advice for you though. Dont sweat. Dont work your ass off. Dont sacrifice. Please dont do anything that will actually show signs of you wanting to be desired. Just....smile. give me a friggin' break.

I-am-the-lul · 2020-06-04T04:22:02+00:00

Invisible to any man who has better, younger options certainly.

mustangfrank · 2020-06-04T07:16:10+00:00

The non-written laws of attractivity (and youth). Welcome to a regular's man world, where nobody gives a shit about you and everything has to be earned. Do not complain. By the sole virtue of the Holy Vagina, even at 40+, you'll still get better treatment than most men.

Harry_Teak · 2020-06-04T04:30:20+00:00

You don't have to be. Go to a few European countries and you'll see women who'll make you weak in the knees and they're over 40. Now if the ring hit that finger and you went to shit, that's your fault Cuddles.

Don't be fat, don't be too crazy and you'll do fine at 40. That assumes, of course, that you weren't butt ugly at 18 but in these days of the obesity epidemic, even a butterface can be a respectable pull.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2020-06-04T09:09:56+00:00

The days of unwanted cat calls, sexy glances, doors opening, and men stopping to help them pick up dropped books were long over. [emphasis added]

I've seen a shit-ton of columns, other writings, videos, etc. over the past several years about how cat-calling is just bad, bad, BAD and that no one should ever do it, ever.

When it stops, women complain.

Consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!

p3ngwin · 2020-06-04T10:46:55+00:00

Women: "Stop sexualising me!"

also Women: "Why don't people see me as a 'sexual being' anymore ?"

JackReaper333 · 2020-06-04T11:33:19+00:00

"The opposite sex isn't interested in me. I'm extremely lonely and depressed. I just want love." -- A poor, oppressed woman.

"The opposite sex isn't interested in me. I'm extremely lonely and depressed. I just want love." -- A filthy oppressive incel

arturo_tamburo · 2020-06-04T07:37:04+00:00

"Invisible Woman" = Female Incel.

PhilNEvo · 2020-06-04T10:11:28+00:00

Imagine.. Just imagine a dating coach, coaching men, telling men to practise their flirting on children. Holy fucking shit--!

Venny_1 · 2020-06-04T10:42:59+00:00

I think there are 2 reasons why such women are invisible:

Fertility is connected to youth and health in a woman. A woman who isn't young and healthy doesn't deserve the eyes of men ogling her.
Perhaps from an evolutionary perspective, a woman who remained childless and has entered old age has proven that she is of no use to the tribe. Sure she can take care of the kids of others, but so do the mothers of those kids more selflessly, and she herself didn't fulfill a role that is vital to the survival of the tribe. In turn, cavemen start to think to themselves "why are we hunting food for this bitch? She isn't doing anything of use for us!" It seems quite unattractive, in the eyes of all really.

Have you ever looked at a 35+ y.o. woman in the supermarket or the park with her toddlers around her? If she is taking good care of herself and her little ones, then you can see a certain 'heavenly' grace around all of them, something you can't find in a barren woman. This grace does really keep them attractive.

Artichoke19 · 2020-06-04T10:37:05+00:00

Men become ‘invisible’ long before 40 if they’re ever ‘visible’ at all.

Are some modern western women really so privileged, wilfully ignorant and entitled that they can remain this naive into their 40s?

I mean...it sucks that people age and lose their physical attractiveness but why does it come as such a surprise?

DangZagnut · 2020-06-04T05:05:54+00:00

It’s because they’re bitter bitches.

Not all women have this problem, but the bitter man haters people can sniff out.

Indumentum97 · 2020-06-04T10:30:24+00:00

Are you an Invisible Man Just Because You're Under The Age of 20?

Are you an Invisible Man Just Because You're Under 6'0"?

Are you an Invisible Man Just Because You Have Only Average Looks...

daniellederek · 2020-06-04T10:56:27+00:00

The answer is yes. If you are over 40 with a BMI above 27 you magically become a grey NPC in the sexual marketplace to men under 50.

silly_birb · 2020-06-04T07:37:33+00:00

Marriage was created to lock down men, they keep forgetting only because brotherl are now illegal...

five_eight · 2020-06-04T11:13:58+00:00

"Learn to flirt a little! Flirting can be done with men, women and EVEN CHILDREN!" jfc, is anyone else seeing this shit?

mr_kuk · 2020-06-04T09:25:15+00:00

The solution is simple, but as usual with women, nothing can be simple except their minds: Don't be ugly, don't be old.

mimitchi86 · 2020-06-04T11:46:57+00:00

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ronoda12 · 2020-06-04T05:52:53+00:00

Over 33 i would say

3HardWay · 2020-06-04T17:32:16+00:00

One of the most common complaints that the women who I work with have, is that they feel invisible to the world.

Hahahahahhahahha. Welcome to the real world, jackass.

I should have just stopped reading:

our eyes light with a sexual fire that no age, costume, or body weight can hide.

The disgusting horror. That is revolting. If a man tried to say that about himself he would be put to death.

At least the closing suggests they could try being a decent person... what a novel concept!

Seagram7 · 2020-06-05T02:55:35+00:00

"Feminism is about equality. I shouldn't have to compete or be judged by my looks and age."

ROK was brigaded by feminist and SJW's in the comments section and I remember that doozy. Which translates to she should have the same access to a top tier Chad and his resources and hates competition from prettier and younger girls. Feminism is also their attempt to even the playing field.

Biology and Evo psych in a nutshell. ALL women want to breed with alpha males and receive the resources to care for herself and her offspring. Even old, fat, ugly girls. Like that article from a fat feminist that said if a fat girl wants sex with you, you cant say no. That's why there is so much niceguy hate from women. They don't want a nice guy, they all want Chad.

jnicol90 · 2020-06-04T14:27:03+00:00

Sucks when post wall women figure out what’s its like for 80% of men. Completely invisible and just not good enough to be considered

SuperGoxxer · 2020-06-04T15:11:08+00:00

"Don't want to be invisible? Then don't be a BITCH, tee hee!"

Too late.

No one wants the flirty worn-out catchers mitt trying to "share her eyes". You had your chance, now fuck off and bag my groceries in silence.

4Sammich · 2020-06-04T16:20:12+00:00

I’m 49 and occasionally game 40-something women because at least they don’t want to stay up till 3am.

The number 1 aspect to them is they are fucking annoying as hell. Everything becomes a Karen moment, even if they don’t act on it, and they just won’t stop complaining. I’ll try to lighten them up and just enjoy the experience, but noooooo.

Thankfully it’s pretty rare I even try, it’s usually when It’s the fish jumping into my boat situation but yeah, annoying.

FactsAngerLiars · 2020-06-04T10:03:09+00:00

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BlackendLight · 2020-06-04T12:56:46+00:00

It's called the wall. Smv falls off a cliff at 30 for women and then doesnt get better

wellimout · 2020-06-04T15:43:11+00:00

Compliment the kid beyond the Starbucks counter—smile into the eyes of the bus driver—say good morning to the door man!

Be generous! Give a lot of smiles, winks, hair tosses, and compliments to the world around you.

...so, be pleasant? That's what you're saying. Be nice; pleasant. Drop the attitude.

Yeah. I've been suggesting this to women for decades. If you want to get and keep a man, try being nice for once. Men like nice, pleasant, happy, cheerful women just as much as women like confident, assertive men.

It's not shameful. You're not being oppressed. This isn't an invention of the patriarchy. You've been lied to all your life. It's okay to be pleasant. You're not surrendering anything. You'll actually have a pretty good life.

Young women get by just fine without being pleasant. That's mostly because they're hot and men will put up with almost anything to fuck a hot girl. But even young women ask, "why did that guy ghost me after we had sex??" Well, here's something new for you to consider: all you had to offer was sex. Maybe if you were a nice person, he'd want to be around you even when his dick isn't inside you.

Or, you could just keep on acting whatever way you like, and then when you're 45 and nobody wants to fuck you, it'll be a total mystery to you why they don't want to be around you either, and someone will have to tell you - will have to actually spell it out for you - "have you tried not being such an insufferable bitch all the time? Maybe be nice once in a while?"

BluepillProfessor · 2020-06-05T15:27:28+00:00

nobody sees me in general anymore and certainly not as a sexual being

45.

No eggs.

You don't have any eggs.

When my wife was 45 I cherished the wife of my youth and the mother of my children. This woman chose to ride hard and now can't understand where the husband of her youth was? News flash, you dumped him for men who were not the husband of your youth. You played the harlot. Now you get to play by yourself.

Cristoff13 · 2020-06-05T22:18:18+00:00

"I don't know what comes first—the possibility that some women turn off sexually and therefore become unseen—or if we feel the subtle shifts of society towards us and so we simply begin to fade away as sexual beings."

The reason for "invisibility" is, of course, that they look older. Its that simple. And its something they ultimately have little control over. They can slow the effects of ageing to a limited extent, but can't deny the reality that men are just naturally attracted to young women, and that men are naturally very good at discerning a woman's age.

Here we see an attempt to deny this simple reality by ascribing this "invisibility" to vague, unknown forces. Either though "women turning off sexually" or "fading away as sexual beings" due to "subtle shifts of society". Whatever that means.

GrandpaLeiho · 2020-06-05T15:40:37+00:00

Contrast to a time in your life if & when you had this issue. I'm sure if they just keep looking, they'll find the right one LOL

pebblefromwell · 2020-06-04T10:32:10+00:00

I'm 39 and I got a 19yo chasing me like my dick owns her money. Ya lady you best be looking for some prime gardening space on the other side of that wall.

Nostradomas · 2020-06-04T13:21:23+00:00

“Flirting can be done with men, women and even children!”

Fire this person into the fucking sun.

APerfectTomato · 2020-06-04T13:35:08+00:00

> The days of unwanted cat calls... were long over.

hahahah, too perfect

KazarakOfKar · 2020-06-04T14:03:13+00:00

"Are you an invisible man because you are less than 8/10?".

2020-06-04T17:24:14+00:00

Before: stop objectifying me

After: ... and certainly not as a sexual being.

Taguroizumo · 2020-06-04T11:35:26+00:00

Flirt with children... But not in a sexual manner... Wtf

KavaNotGuilty · 2020-06-04T18:30:18+00:00

If women would give each other this advice when they're younger, it might actually do them some good as a whole. It's essentially a reiteration of the golden rule, so it's very sad that any human being would view this as a new tip or profound advice.

NickTesla2018 · 2020-06-04T23:11:53+00:00

Tragical

Are You an Invisible Woman Just Because You're Over The Age Of 40?

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Consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!!!

Sense is a tool of the patriarchy!!!

Logic is a tool of the patriarchy!!!

Title	Are You an Invisible Woman Just Because You're Over The Age Of 40?
Author	loneliness-inc
Upvotes	210
Comments	167
Date	June 4, 2020 4:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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