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[–]terribletimingtodayFDS Apprentice66 points67 points68 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is such a core strategy and one that's easy to forget or overlook or excuse. I've recently been guilty of losing sight of it myself.
Actions over words. Believe what you see and not all you hear.
[–]cirrus_cloudRuthless Strategist34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Idk tho.... I’ve been treated reallyy well by plenty of men who I’m definitely not interested in lol. But I get the point
[–]PsychedelicDocFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I get it, too, but men shouldn't be the only ones who get to choose who they like while their object conforms. I feel like it's totally up to him every single time. Blech, patriarchy!
[–]popfridayFDS STRATEGY COACH20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like it’s totally up to him every single time
But we have the power to say no every single time. It is a mutual decision.
Reality is you cannot convince a man to treat you well just because you like him. We have to choose from the ones who want to be there and want to put in the effort. That may mean rejecting every contender for the rest of our lives, but that is still our right and our choice.
But chasing an uninterested man who doesn’t care about you will never be the answer. That’s what this post is saying.
[–]outside-perceptionFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly.
Total random story: I ended up in the Where Are All The Good Men by chance because I was looking up laser tag dates. Fucking nightmare, instant regret. You never see this uplifting kinda stuff there.
This is what everyone should live by. Remember the feelings and take notes of what they do ✍🏻❤️
[–]weird_wavingFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! If you aren’t treating me right, you’re cut!
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so true. I walked away from my ex that I just loved so dearly, because he treated me like absolute shit to be quite frank. Lied, gaslit me, never made effort, took me for granted, chose drugs over me, snuck around behind my back, triangulated me with female “friends” and tore down my self esteem SO bad.
But walking away from him, when I loved him so much, just helps me to realise I can walk away from any other LVM that even tries any of those things on an even lower level. If I could walk away from someone I envisioned being with forever, then I can walk away from any dickhead who has absolutely no skin in the game.
Hope more women do the same too...
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Needed this tonight. Thank you.
[–]Aurelia_rFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Preach!
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