I was talking with this person, let’s call them Scorpio since that’s their zodiac sign. Well, we were really hitting it off for a week. Vibing & being on the phone for hours. Of course, we’re not dating so of course we’re both still talking with other people (ladies, never put all your eggs in one basket. Chat with a few people & slowly bring that number down the more you bond with that one person.)

Well, the other day they brought up “let me know when I can delete the other girls. I’m ready.” I was so confused & said “oh no, I wouldn’t want you to do that unless we were dating.” Then today we’re on the phone & having some drinks while talking. I bring up how I never fallen deeply in love due to not wanting to be made a fool. Scorpio was seeing this as a challenge; “oh, i’m going to make you fall in love with me. You’re going to love me.” Etc. I gave that awkward laugh & we continued. They bring up how they are attracted to other girls & how they are flirting & feeling up X, Y & Z. I’m not with this person, so I have no reason to feel emotionally pissed. But I think it’s disrespectful to say that shit to someone you’re WERE trying to pursuit. I was done hearing it & lied saying that my phone was dying & idk where my charger was. You can hear how confused & upset they were as we hung up.

From here i’m going to just distant myself from this person & just continue on. I’m not going to fight for your attention & calling me your “favourite” is not a prize. I’m 25, not 15. I don’t have time for games.

Ladies, treasure your time & stop wasting it on those who aren’t fully there to sweep you off your feet. I worked so damn hard on myself to be in a competition with other girls for one person I’m not feeling 100%.

Respect yourselves. Love you all!