If you've ever been a Pickmeisha, or you're still floundering around in the sty of Pickmeisha behavior, or even if you suspect you might be in danger of becoming a Pickmeisha--with the dreamy- but-slightly-unavailable-man who's in your life right now--then STOP whatever activity you're involved in at the moment (yes, even surfing Reddit.) Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200. Instead, go straight to Netflix and watch "He's Just Not That Into You."

Lotta good stuff there about how women are conditioned to think about male attention; about how men actually think, and about the lengths we women will go to in order to rewrite the narrative in our heads

For past, present, and prospective Pickmeishas, it may be the best 2 hours and 8 minutes you'll spend all week.