Most of FDS works REALLY WELL for me, as someone who has trust issues and vets men carefully after a lifetime of being a pickmeisha. A guy I've been seeing leaves me feeling positive and relaxed at the end of every date so far. HOWEVER, every night following the date, when I sleep (alone), I either have very disturbing/unsettling dreams, OR my sleep gets broken around 3 times a night... The dreams are never about him, but they are unsettling because they are about people I love dying, ex boyfriends coming back into my life (but in the dream I did say 'no I don't want you back,') etc... What on earth does this mean? I think either it means my instinct is telling me to run from this guy OR I'm too scared/not ready yet to open up to him OR I can't sleep well because I would rather actually be spending the night with him (we're not there yet though)?? Please help with what you ladies think this might be about.