Why being sweet, shy and "submissive" DOESN'T WORK. Never cater to your abuser! Call him out on his shit!

7_0f_9 · 2020-01-27T08:40:18+00:00

Yes being a doormat only opens the door to more abuse and disrespect.

Lol at this dude acting like he can't control what he says!! "I'm an asshole but I don't know what is happening" BS.

lvioletsnow · 2020-01-27T14:37:30+00:00

To be fair this was that "When did you realize You were the problem?" thread. He realizes he was the asshole, which many never will; but OP's point remains. Don't be a doormat.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-01-27T15:01:26+00:00

A rare moment of clarity. Sometimes disordered people see they are the problem, but they often forget they ever thought that and continue to ruin their relationships. My ex could've written this except the beginning. I never apologize for other people's misplaced anger.

siberiansummer · 2020-01-27T19:15:52+00:00

Wow!! A man who analyzed his behavior?! Ladies, we spotted a mystery creature

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