Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.

extraacct1234 · 2020-01-18T02:53:53+00:00

I can't. I was only able to read like three comments on that trash sub. some man was saying do you really think you have a high libido when you wait 2 months but other women don't? Like... that was in response to a woman who says she masturbates twice a day but she likes to wait to establish compatibility and trust for the sex to be good. Apparently she's low libido because she won't take risks immediately with her body and her heart and get used.

Anytime we do anything for ourselves it will always be wrong and they will always pathologize it. We're not even allowed to protect ourselves.

It just reminds me of the dude who abused my clitoris and when I told him he was hurting me, he told me obviously I just didn't like sex. 🤷‍♀️👌🤣

You have to be pretty fucked up to frame someone taking two months before they're going to let you put your body parts inside of them and potentially get them pregnant or give them an STD as some sort of pathology.

Anyway, never forget that if a man atually likes you he won't even try to have sex with you for at least the first six to eight weeks.

Yianna_F · 2020-01-18T02:38:41+00:00

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SimpleSyrups · 2020-01-18T03:24:11+00:00

There’s a comment from the OP on there about pump and dump and how TheIdiotPill doesn’t really advocate that unless it’s a LVW and how they really advocate plates which are SO MUCH BETTER! Omg ! You guys we can be plates!

Now that’s a real relationship where they can get laid three or less dates in, women can have shitty sex three dates in, and then they can continue to use you and anyone else willing to put up with it!!! How FUCKING EXCITING!!

Fuck that. Take your time and VET VET VET it makes them miserable. Tastes delicious.

Edited to add: the OP on that post is 100% not a woman.

Yianna_F · 2020-01-18T02:36:48+00:00

I feel SO much better after reading the following comment:

'But there are women who come from PIV just fine. Even anal. I honestly believe that having trouble coming is not normal and should be treated as a dysfunction, just like men who can't get it up. But instead women tell themselves and each other that everything is fine and that it's men with their porn and death grip who have a problem. Not women who have nerve damage from vibrators, who never figured out how to masturbate, or who have crippling sexual hangups.'

It sums up the misogynistic narrative and societal imposed expectations so well. Everything is women's fault and obviously women come from PIV and even anal. All the rest is obviously dysfunctional women with nerve damage and hungups and the like.

Solution: have sex with men as early as possible to see if you're compatible. If you know you're dysfunctional and can't come, just go for anal, women come from anal like all the time. Win-win!

For the guy of course ;-)

2020-01-18T08:14:54+00:00

I love sex just hate being used for sex 🤔

cherieblosum · 2020-01-18T14:01:56+00:00

Waiting for sex is to guarantee you have good sex. You're gonna have better sex with a guy who cares about you enough to wait.

picturesofpics · 2020-01-18T07:39:11+00:00

I'm demisexual and people on other subs always say things like, "Well not everyone has a low drive and we want sex". I'm thinking umm I actually have a healthy sex drive that's very high at certain times of the month. People can't comprehend having a good sex drive but not fucking randoms.

I've always waited months to have sex with someone I'm dating. The guys didn't run away or drop dead. I find guys that are just looking for sex don't notice me or chase after me, which is totally fine. I could also say it's because I'm over 30 but it's been this way since I was young. I guess I don't go to bars/clubs or do online dating, so I'm not really available to them. I also look nothing like a porn star which helps I guess.

7_0f_9 · 2020-01-18T07:35:12+00:00

Pffft what a load of garbage. I've had tons of good sex. Doesn't mean the dudes were worth my time. Talk about priorities 🙄 yeah women grooming women is awful. She probably thinks she's getting man points for being such a handmaiden.

honestgoing · 2020-01-18T19:36:07+00:00

Lmao. Maybe women just don't like sex with the OP. Dudes just angry he doesn't have easy access to sex.

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