Hello

Met this girl a while ago (approximately a month) and had sex. Lost my virginity to her.

Anyways, everything I put a condom on I go soft after like 3 minutes.

She told me before we had sex that she is not on pills for few months already so I know condom is a most, she said it as well.

After realizing that I can't keep hard for longer than few minutes at a time she suggested we do it without a condom. I said no way and she agreed it's a stupid idea and we have to enjoy right now as much as possible. She went to her doctor to get pills and stuff and we agreed we will both check that we're both clean before going raw.

I still don't know if it's a good idea. On the one hand I can't keep hard with a condom, on the other hand she is on pills and clean.

Got my testosterone tested because I thought there's a problem but it was on the high scale.

What should I do? Go raw? Give up on sex with her?

Thanks