(throwaway, my friends got reddit too)

We are together for almost 6 months now. We're both 19. He's working, I'm going to college.

LONG POST

  • I'm gonna try and make this as short as possible. Stick with me girls.

HOW WE MET

My childhood friend invited me and some of her highschool friends over to her vacation home. We met there.

He asked me out a month later at a beach house (we were all there with that same group of people).

We started going out and got into a relationship within a week.

The first date was a coffeehouse of my choosing and a walk. He payed for everything. It wasn't an expensive date, because he wanted to get to know me before he spends too much money. (His male fear of "gold diggers" lol).

Second date was a restaurant.

Third date... Was the special one.

I had to go to a city 3.5 hours away to settle papers for my college I would attend 2 months from that day.

He offered to go with me. I was surprised. That's a big commitment for a 3rd date.

We went, and were running around town in the middle of a hot summer, getting all my papers settled. I felt uneasy, because I was afraid of boring him. He wasn't. He took me to a restaurant and told me he wanted to be with me. I accepted ofcourse. (This was in the span of a week from the first date, we were going fast).

SHOWS COMMITMENT

  • Went to another city for my needs as a 3rd date

  • Prepared himself for 3 years of a long distance relationship after just 2 months of dating

  • Was extremely polite about intimacy, and waited until I was ready (2 weeks for everything except sex, 2 months for sex itself, we both wanted it)

  • Makes plans around me as the center of attention

  • Visits every week and stays for the weekend, unless I have to study, in which case he encourages me to do work

  • Buys me little things, takes me places (sometimes I pay, but he's mostly the one paying)

  • Stays in contact and responds immediately to texts unless he's at work, also videochats with me every day for 1-2 hours

GREAT RELATIONS WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS

  • Went on a bike ride with my dad

  • Gets invited to lunch by my mother

  • Gladly hangs out with my sisters

  • Very good with my friends

MAKES FUTURE PLANS

  • Invited me to live with him (in his apartment that his dad signed over to him) when I come back to my hometown and do the last 2 years of college, so I dont need to stay with my parents (they're great, but restrictive)

  • Tells me he wants to marry me and start a family (not "get married" or "have kids", he emphasizes me in that, not a random future he sees for himself)

  • Told me that if I accidentally got pregnant he'd take initiative and take care of both uf us

This guy... I don't know if it's even worth looking further. He's 19. But he seems... Different...

He's good in bed, and I find him attractive. Even though he is a bit chubby, he's nice to cuddle 🥰

He says he'll take up gym in his spare time. I supporr him.