When you’re dating a HVM it will feel very easy. You never feel like you have to “prove” your worth to him. He will pursue you, be consistent and patient. It will be his pleasure to take you on fun dates.

On the other hand, a LVM may exhibit some HVM behaviors at the start. Love bombing can look a lot like the courting phase with a HVM, but the difference is that a LVM will stop pursuing you if he doesn’t feel like you are any use to him. He will expect his efforts to be rewarded with sex, cooking/domestic tasks, adoration and submission.

Be sweet but don’t overextend yourself when you’re dating someone. If he is a HVM that is interested in you as a person, he will be happy with just your company.

If you’re dating a man and giving him sex, validation, splitting the tab, cooking him breakfast.. he might not even be into you, but he will gladly keep seeing you because it’s a great deal for him! All he had to do was take you on a few dates.

You will find out a man’s intentions if you give him nothing more than your time. If that’s not enough for him, then he isn’t interested in building a connection with you. He just wants to USE you.