TLDR: I possibly missed out on a date with a gorgeous male model/bar owner because I was too busy catering to an unemployed red-pill-moid who still lives with his parents at the age of 34.

So I just found the pink pill after practically becoming a pickme-redpillwoman. I've been chatting with this red pill guy for months and he even flew up to visit me. He of course expected me to play mother/servant/sex slave even though we barely knew each other. He is also obese but very handsome so I'll give him that. He's been degrading me trying to get me to "hold myself accountable for being a whore" because oh my god--I'm 29 and had sex/relationships before I met him...and yes he endlessly declares its the "harsh truth" because of "all the semen in my DNA and pair bonding and evolutionary psychology and blah blah blah"...If I try to point out that I am not a mindless cavegirl and I am still capable of commitment and being healthy he says "red flag" and then if I try to be careless and casual he gets all needy and starts mentioning wanting a real relationship with me...yeah I think you all understand what a crazy narc this guy is. He also miraculously has a trail of "crazy women with BPD" behind him but apparently he never does anything wrong and is perfectly justified in his actions. His reason "because most women are whores these days". So I open up Facebook today (which I rarely use) and low and behold: there's a message from a male model/bar owner who is probably the most handsome man I've seen irl and we had a friendly chat at his bar over a month ago. He found me on Facebook...sought me out and was offering to take me on a proper date. And I missed his message (its a week old) and I did get back to him but I know it might be too late. Oh well, I just wanted to share because this is a real life lesson for me. Don't give into the moids...they really are trying to drag you down and not only keep you away from potential HVM...but also yourself. And I don't have BPD but I definitely have PTSD from all this BS. But I can heal. I will be okay. Stay strong everyone.