I am a 20 year old who got out of a 3 year relationship not too long ago. During the time we broke up I started seeing this guy let’s call him BLEH. BLEH and I have been taking for maybe 2 or 3 months now. And after this long period of time I can obviously tell he doesn’t want a relationship. It fucking sucks because I adored him so much and it just isn’t happening how I hoped it would. Now my crush from 4 years ago hit me back up , we met , we kissed , set a date and time and after that never talked to me for days and 2 days before the date he says he’s sorry he crossed boundaries , he needs to work on himself , sorry if my feelings got hurt in any way. What kind of bullshit is that??? Honestly at this point I want to be a hermit crab and hide in my shell and eat Alfredo.